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Thanks imma keep my size they suit my tiny body but other then that no I didn’t sadly was to scared to fight back

You can get breast reduction surgery to decrease them if they are uncomfortable. There's also hormone therapy and lifestyle modifications that can help too. I hope you called the police on the people who punched you. You should sue them.

I'm a woman and I don't see anything wrong at all with how your boyfriend held his mother's hand. She is blessed to have such a loving son. He almost lost his mother and with all she went through he was showing her through his hand holding that he is there for her. Why would you have a problem with that? Are you jealous?

I’ve never had a relationship I’ve been single idk what to expect in a relationship when it comes to dealing with my gigantomastia or macromastia I’m a J cup and my doctor said they are still gonna grow

If you really love each other so much I think you should get through those several years and then find a way to live in the same town or at least closer to each other.

We've know each other for soon to be 27 years. We are both from the same small town were I still live but she lives about 900 km (550-ish miles) away since about 18 years. She comes here every summer to stay at her cabin for 3-4 weeks. We were close friends. Her children (with another man) has nicknames for me. Last summer we suddenly fell madly and deeply in love with each other. I too have children from a prior relationship. My youngest won't be moving out for at least 3-4 years, and her children are just 9 and 6 years old. Neither of us will be moving any time soon. Now, 9 months and not an insignificant amount of money spent on plane tickets later, is it clear that the dynamic of this relationship is killing us. Both of us. The periods together (about 1/5 of the time) are intense, almost too much so. Deep talk, crying, intimate physical contact whenever the opportunity presents itself. In contrast, the long periods apart feels like a gray mass of... nothingness. The constant back and forth is too much for either of us. Neither of us can bear it any longer and yet neither of us wants to end it. But we just did. For both our sakes. How? How can I possibly move forward? There is noone what will ever be able to match what she means to me. The prospect of going from twenty-seven years of shared memories and moments to meeting and getting to know someone new - I don't think I can ever do it. Any advice?

3 odd threads in the past 24 hours by new members. Coincidence?

Making bad decisions. That much said I think one of the Menendez brothers is available.

Yes great idea to ask out a woman who is engaged to be married to another guy. Add this to your list of other great ideas I'm sure you've got lots of them.

Hit back. They'll leave you alone after you clobber them a few times with those monsters.

My friends would bully me and punch my oversized chest because my gigantomastia

Dating a man in prison; a man that spent 29 of his 49 years alive behind bars is beyond challenging. I don’t even know how to explain this other than just how it is. For the last 10 years going on 11 he an I have been off and on and during the last 10 years he has done 3 years then 2 years then 1 year and now sitting back in county waiting trial for all this new crap. Now there isn’t just me a 4 year old little girl has joined the hectic mess. He promised he wouldn’t go back but let me be real with you getting a person to not goto jail who’s spent more than half their life behind bars is going to be near impossible. He talks the talk says all the right things but then when the attitude changes it’s all back guarantee he gets a bung of charges within 6 month it will happen. He justifies the wrong doings as they are not wrong because and he’s got some good words but s*** float's and ships sink. Then when he goes back it’s oh baby I love you you hear me it’s us for the rest of time. Then he gets out and it’s what’s up girl; but only a short amount of time do I actually get the real man behind the gangster he lives in real life. Known by any criminal and is so sexy but at the end of the day what am I really doing?

And how do you really think that would go? She isn't single. Do you think she's going to say yes and then eventually leave her finacé for you? You don't appear to realize that this rarely works out the way you seem to hope it will. Please don't waste your time on her.

Don’t feel bad. I absolutely can’t stand gatherings and seek out every opportunity to avoid them. If I felt guilty every time I refused to attend a gathering I would’ve died of unbearable guilt a long time ago.

A Southeast Asian country where prostitution is illegal yet found in every corner? It’s not exactly rocket science…

That’s probably it, because I can’t find a single logical reason to make an issue out of a son interlocking fingers with his own mother, especially when she’s sick.

I’m baffled by the amount of posts by guys stating that some woman might be flirting with them simply because she is friendly and has a playful demeanor. Unless you’re living in the Sultanate of Brunei, you should understand that women can post bikini pics and get massaged without necessarily wanting to have sex with you. I imagine that most women aren’t thrilled by men jumping into such conclusions.

I highly doubt she would respond very positively to you asking her out (especially if she makes it pretty clear on her social media platforms that she is involved with someone). A lot of young women just enjoy getting attention from men. If she is posting a lot of pics online of her in a bikini it's pretty obvious she wants people to check her out.

i was really thinking of asking her out because i kinda gotten tired of just wondering what does she want , at least that way i would get a clear answer but i dont want to make a fool of myself either

She probably enjoys getting attention from men. Doesn't mean she wants to date them or get involved with them in anyway but enjoys getting looked at by them and what not. I am sure if you asked her out or put some moves on her she wouldn't be open to it at all but looks and a little flirting is ok.

I really need some advice about a situation at work , there is this woman that got hired a couple of months ago she is attractive , we followed eachother on instagram , she has some bikini photos and from the gym and we started talking about her favorite travel locations and the gym because gym is my main hobby , we talked about favorite exercises and nutrition Anyway when i looked a little closer at her instagram account i saw photos with her and some guy ( i didnt notice at first because she has alot of pictures 150+ ) , it turns out that its her fiance , i backed off like any normal person would but she started getting closer Constantly pressing her chest to my arm when we want to show eachother something on the phone or looking at a file , alot of times sitting close to me even though there is plenty of space , for example to day there were like 10 empty seats in the conference room but she sat right next to me i was sitting on the chair and she wanted to show me some kind of phone accessory , with one hand she held her phone and the other one she put it on my thigh We went to the gym together and she got a little cramp on her calf /ankle from the workout and i offered to massage her and she didnt mind Maybe its all in my head but i think that she is flirting , she could also be just friendly because she is kinda close to other guys too , playfighting with them , joking around What do you think ?

I would imagine your therapist could provide some information as to where and how to get tested, including associated costs. I would encourage you to pursue that, because getting a proper assessment could also mean getting proper support, which could help you better deal with these interactions with your family. It could also give you the tools to help you more effectively read your family's words and actions, since it seems this latest incident isn't really about you accepting a missing drink.

I think you are completely over-reacting. He came close to losing his mother and you're talking about cupping hands vs. interlocking fingers and setting boundaries? Girl. Choose your battles, and yes, address this:

It’s good to see a new face in this thread. Thank you for your input.

Actually, I’ve seen that movie too. If I recall, Anna Scott (Julia Roberts) was still with her boyfriend when she first showed interest in William and even kissed him, wasn't she? Even in a rom-com, feelings can be messy and overlap. Thank you for the reminder of that classic scene.