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Yeah. Over the years Ive learned not to expect too much from someone you meet in a bar, even if shes doing backflips and saying she wants to marry you that night. It's too much of a superficial setting. Protect your peace by not attaching any meaning to the outcome. If she doesnt text back or gives a very flaky answer just shrug and move on. But absolutely give it a shot, why not?

Ah, I was referring to the Instagram thing in a vacuum, pretty much. Exactly what you specify, that I should've given more were I to expect more of a reply, but I don't think I was thinking of starting a conversation when I did. More like continuing the one we had earlier that night.

Thank you! Makes a lot of sense, I was just thinking I didn't want be a creep, I guess.

Thanks so much! My thinking exactly, which is why I was leaning toward dropping the whole thing:)) Anyway, I'll give it a shot and I'll see what comes of it!

Thank you! I'll drop a line later today! To be honest, I only took that Instagram thing to indicate that maybe attraction didn't last through the night on her end, that's all.

Thank you! Wow, this is heading in the complete opposite direction, I was convinced I'd get told to leave her alone=)) I'll drop a line today and I'll ask her out. Didn't want to do this any earlier because I was VERY drunk that night, sole reason:)) As for the stringing along bit, seems to happen with or without my input:))

If you are going to come on here to try to sell people things the least you could do is type in proper English.

Thank you for taking the time to reply. I know what you're saying but it's still an act of infidelity, I guess. So we used to be intimate outside penetration. Many of the options you've listed. However, that's almost completely dried up, too. She's very self conscious so feels she's repellent. I'm not sure what to do. I don't know whether I should confess my sins. Whether I need to discuss this wider (no intimacy) issue in a more meaningful, serious way.

What do you mean? It wouldn't have been the first time you communicated with her so I don't follow your logic here. It would have been wiser to send a short message along with the song. I am not sure what kind of response you hoped for when you didn't say anything either.

Add me to the voices saying not to wait the week. You met her Saturday. It's already Tuesday. What do you gain by waiting a week other than letting her know that you are either low interest or too insecure to make a move? Exactly. Either she's interested, in which case asking sooner rather than later will keep the momentum going, or she's not interested, in which case it won't matter when you reach out.

If you encouraged her to sleep with other men, why are you surprised that she eventually did it? These kinds of things should be discussed very gently and carefully, and even then, if there is so much as a hint of disagreement, abandoned completely. Instead, it appears that you repeatedly, one-sidedly suggested that she has sex with other men, disregarding the fact that she kept disagreeing. She probably felt disrespected and hurt when you told her she could “have her needs met” with someone else when you were gone. Most people resent the idea of having sex with someone else while being in a monogamous relationship. I know I’d be very offended if my partner seriously suggested something like that. Of course the fact that she went on to have affairs and is now refusing to come clean is deplorable. That doesn’t, however, somehow renders your own affair harmless, whether you confessed to it or not. It seems that both your wife and you have been feeling very bitter about each other for a while. I honestly have trouble understanding how this very messy situation arising from a glaring lack of open, honest communication and mutual understanding can be classified as a happy relationship. If having a rational, reasonable, honest conversation is akin to divorce to you and your wife, then what can be possibly suggested here but actual divorce?

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I was going to write a long reply trying to explain to you why he clearly did not care for you, at least not the way a normal man would care for a woman he has romantic feelings for. But actually It doesn’t even matter whether he cared or not. What matters is that you willingly participated in a continuous act of betrayal over the course of several years. You say that he “did that to his wife”, but you did that to his wife too. You also gravely disrespected and humiliated yourself by getting leftovers from a man instead of seeking a relationship with someone who’d only be with you. I think that you might want to see a therapist or generally get some mental and spiritual help. You need to understand the damaging nature of affairs and start loving yourself enough to never let such a situation occur again.

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