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(Chuckles), nope. I myself just love Otaku culture. Good guess though.

Are you in Japan, OP? Cultural differences are an important factor to take into consideration here as well.

Interesting way of putting it.

Well, common interests are the context for meeting in the first place. For instance, if the mall is hosting an Anime event, then you'd have an opening for discussion about that, as opposed to just walking up to strangers shopping in a mall to introduce yourself. That's more likely to creep people out and make them defensive against whatever they think you're trying to sell, no matter what your voice sounds like. Pursue hobbies or causes that interest you, and you'll form friendships organically through that repeated exposure.

Possible. And yes this thread is indeed real. Just want to learn as much as I can. Introductions do play a role in whether or not someone would give someone else a shot. Not just what interests are compatible.

If this thread is real you would probably get better advice from other people who are big anime fans then those who aren't. A lot of times the people who are real big into anime have a lot different life interests and they aren't real compatible (nor understood) by people who aren't into anime.

If you want the surgery and can afford it then get it. You don't need anyone's approval. Do it for yourself and your self esteem. Don't do it to get more success at dating because you may be chocked that the surgery may change nothing in terms of dating. One advise: you are the way you are because of genetics. Stop blaming it on others and their nutrition. There are types of people that always accuse others for their issues, it's their mom's fault, the ex' fault, the government's fault, feminisim's fault. That attitude makes a person very unattractive no matter how square their jaw is.

What's wrong with your voice? Your voice is yours it's in your dna but maybe the problem is your tone? Your confidence?

More or less I moved to my own place back in 2022. As an Otaku with a fondage for anime I see alot of anime folks there so I swing by there every Saturday(where its most busy). I opened the topic since I think ones own voice means having yo discover how one plays towards his or her own strengths. I just down know how.

Going to the mall to make friends or ask people out on dates. Is this a thing?

You say you keep making the same mistake and you want to change that. But when you're in a situation where you're doing things the usual way and practically everyone advises you to do them differently, you stubbornly insist on doing things the same way. You know what, OP? When you really want to, you will follow folks advice and do things differently. For the present, you need to admit that part of the reason why you are where you are is because you consistently make the choice to be there. You make the choices you do because deep down inside, there's a part of you that wants to. You really need to own that.

Frankly speaking, it sounds like your partner and daughter were both exposed to inappropriate sexual behavior at very young ages. That would explain the lack of appropriate boundaries. What you're calling "relaxed" attitudes sounds to me like the aftermath of something like incest or child abuse.

My question is why did you keep coming back if you thought we were wrong? There's a common theme between continuing to get advice from those who you disagree with and staying with someone who you're incompatible with. It seems you don't know when to quit

You'll want to see a voice coach

Hi. Every Saturday i head to a local mall to see if it can meet someone for the purposes of dating or at least making friends. I've been doing so for a long time, but recently over the last week or two plundered the prospect of one recording his or her own voice as a means of practicing introducing oneself. I wanted to know if anyone could point me in the right direction since ones own voice plays a massive role in his or her personality. Not just introducing oneself. Infact getting in the habit of adapting a new common voice tone should influence ones of personality i guess.

Why did you find her getting undressed disturbing?

Exactly

How is your relationship with them now? I’m glad you’re working on your weight loss

Wild!

I’ll be posting how my journey goes on this..

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Thank you! I feel somehow relieved a bit

I am trying! thanks for the advice tho..

I don't this relationship working out. You two don't seem to like each other that much. You are really over-reacting to his gaming, in my opinion, and unless you have sensory issues in other areas of your life you are choosing to make a mountain out of molehill. At the same time, he is not very sensitive or mindful. If I had to guess? If you were happier in general in the relationship, his gaming wouldn't be this much of annoyance to you. It reads to me like you are not happy or fulfilled and are at that point where were sometimes land in which the smaller annoying habits become bigger dealbreakers because we are not in love anymore. The point in which the way they blow their nose or eat their chips or scroll on their phones grates at the soul. That's usually how we know it's time to say goodbye.

I don't think you need to debate any of this stuff. You'll likely look and feel better from the procedure. I'd just get it done. Fingers crossed for you, and I hope you have a quick recovery.