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Last Saturday I went out support-drinking with one of my friends. A bit later into the evening, a couple more of her friends showed up. One of them, gorgeous woman, instantly stuck to me. She talked all night, all the while playing with her hair, being VERY touchy-feely (with me and herself, she rubbed her chest... quite a bit while talking to me, even had to blurt out a playful quip about it to get her to ease up, because it was doing things to me), complimenting my looks, my accessories, my style, shifting her place to be closer when the group reunited, etc. Now, I was waaay too drunk to pursue anything, plus my main goal was being there for my friend. I did send a couple of "I kinda' dig you" signals of my own, including brushing her hair over her ear at one point (I have no idea how we got there, but I do remember she smiled when I did it). Exchanged numbers, gave me her Insta, and at one point I lost track of the night a bit. Got back home in the morning, dropped a song I'd mentioned earlier on Insta, went to bed. Woke up at noon with the song hearted. No further interactions. I've talked with my friend a bit about this, she told me she doesn't know her all that well, as they're rather mutual acquaintances than outright friends, but she did say that her acquaintance is a bit on the flirty side, so I've managed my expectations around this. Still, to my not-intentionally-flirty mind, one wouldn't flirt with, say, a telephone pole, so some sort of interest was there and it was mutual. I mean, I would, but as a bit. Hence my dilemma. I was thinking of giving it the week, then asking her out for a get-to-know (taking into account any other potential messages from her, but I'm not expecting any), but I can't shake the thought that I may be barking up the wrong tree. Plus I am aware of the fact that it may come off as creepy - drunk guy from last week reaching out for a get-together, so I'm trying to minimise discomfort for both of us. Can't stop thinking about her so far, though.

Yea I realize that also.

I remember her talking about looking into internships since I always talk about not having experience. I forget what she says about transferable experience. I need to record our zoom meetings. it also sucks that I can no longer schedule 1 on 1 sessions. our school took that away. I can only attend office hours.

meant to say I don't make 6 figures*

what?

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Tracking cellphones and getting an accurate report has been a bit worrisome, thanks to Donald whose service helped me locate certain cellphones without breaking a sweat. His service made me know that the internet has become the most common method of cheating nowadays, either emotionally or physically. Taking a few extra steps in getting what would serve as proof for leaving a toxic relationship, to see who your spouse texts or chats with on social media isn’t a bad idea, I’d recommend you reach out to GREENHACKER08@GMAIL COM

Tracking cellphones and getting an accurate report has been a bit worrisome, thanks to Donald whose service helped me locate certain cellphones without breaking a sweat. His service made me know that the internet has become the most common method of cheating nowadays, either emotionally or physically. Taking a few extra steps in getting what would serve as proof for leaving a toxic relationship, to see who your spouse texts or chats with on social media isn’t a bad idea, I’d recommend you reach out to GREENHACKER08@GMAIL COM

Tracking cellphones and getting an accurate report has been a bit worrisome, thanks to Donald whose service helped me locate certain cellphones without breaking a sweat. His service made me know that the internet has become the most common method of cheating nowadays, either emotionally or physically. Taking a few extra steps in getting what would serve as proof for leaving a toxic relationship, to see who your spouse texts or chats with on social media isn’t a bad idea, I’d recommend you reach out to GREENHACKER08@GMAIL COM

Tracking cellphones and getting an accurate report has been a bit worrisome, thanks to Donald whose service helped me locate certain cellphones without breaking a sweat. His service made me know that the internet has become the most common method of cheating nowadays, either emotionally or physically. Taking a few extra steps in getting what would serve as proof for leaving a toxic relationship, to see who your spouse texts or chats with on social media isn’t a bad idea, I’d recommend you reach out to GREENHACKER08@GMAIL COM

Tracking cellphones and getting an accurate report has been a bit worrisome, thanks to Donald whose service helped me locate certain cellphones without breaking a sweat. His service made me know that the internet has become the most common method of cheating nowadays, either emotionally or physically. Taking a few extra steps in getting what would serve as proof for leaving a toxic relationship, to see who your spouse texts or chats with on social media isn’t a bad idea, I’d recommend you reach out to GREENHACKER08@GMAIL COM

Tracking cellphones and getting an accurate report has been a bit worrisome, thanks to Donald whose service helped me locate certain cellphones without breaking a sweat. His service made me know that the internet has become the most common method of cheating nowadays, either emotionally or physically. Taking a few extra steps in getting what would serve as proof for leaving a toxic relationship, to see who your spouse texts or chats with on social media isn’t a bad idea, I’d recommend you reach out to GREENHACKER08@GMAIL COM

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It depends. Look I wouldn't say it's fantastic to live with one's parents almost anywhere past the age of say 25, but some places will judge you more based on your circumstances and your personality than that. I know NYC is really career focused, I've been told by people who lived there that dating really sucked but its hearsay and I can't say I know personally. Another advantage of going somewhere different would be that well you wouldn't be living with your parents any more, plus life might be more affordable to do the things you really want to do. Also it doesnt have to be forever, even in Europe/Asia etc. but especially if you relocate to another part of the USA.

The thing is in NYC is very shunned upon by women if you still live with parents. Living with roommates is more acceptable. In Europe it might be different because of the culture. I'm not really sure. And yes it had crossed my mind to live somewhere else but leaving my friends and family behind would be very hard.

It seems like you are trying to crack some kind of da Vinci code here based on every interaction you've had. You can't do it. Most of the time these things come down to gut feeling, and you might be wrong. If your gut feeling is she likes you, ask her to coffee/a dinner and if she says no well hey you took your shot!

It seems like you are trying to crack some kind of da Vinci code here based on every interaction you've had. You can't do it. Most of the time these things come down to gut feeling, and you might be wrong. If your gut feeling is she likes you, ask her to coffee/a dinner and if she says no well hey you took your shot!

If you want this to stop, you can either text him with "I don't see this going any further. Hope you find someone nice". Or block him

Yeah this guy seems like a bit of a timewaster and not a great communicator

Thank you. I appreciate the input.

I remember your last post. I absolutely agree that you two need MC. There's no reason to postpone MC, it can be done alongside IC, so you can start right away (as long as you can afford both simultaneously, that is).

It's understandably difficult to survive independently on $24 an hour in NYC, if that's where you live. What does your career counselor say about that? What advice did they give you? A Masters will open up doors to you, but you need to know which ones to aim for.

some people twice your age aren't making that much an hour. is that a positive enough thought for you?

ask them out, you'll have your answer.