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He's offering a friendly invite. Not a date
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How old is he?
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Classmate will not acknowledge me (until he does)
stillafool replied to AnonXYZ's topic in General Relationship Discussion
I would take that opportunity to get friendly with the others who like you. Go have lunch with them. It's good to meet and get to know new friends. -
He's not interested enough to ask your number so consider it just a general invitation to a co-worker.
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If a guys keeps saying we should hang out or says he'll be hanging out some where and i should come but hasn't exactly made plans with me or even asked for my number (i see him at my workplace often), is he even interested? should i pursue?
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He slept with another girl after 3 dates with me
stillafool replied to moon-and-stars's topic in Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy
If you truly feel and believe what you wrote above, break up with him and wait around for a guy who will take one look at you and fall head over heels in love and never look at another woman. Good luck because you'll need it. -
what does it mean if a girl from a dating app says she's chatting with other guys off the app?
Gaeta replied to 2bittz's topic in Dating
What is said online before a meeting is worth nothing. The real test is when meeting face to face. Don't ever give importance to compliments given before a meeting. She did not feel a connection, if she had she would have never mentioned chatting with other men. Men we meet don't need to know that, women get like 100 messages a day (I barely exaggerate) on these apps so of course we exchange with several people at first. It's not something to brag about. I agree she said that to express you're just one of the guys. If my bf had asked me that question on our first meeting I would have answered: -
Classmate will not acknowledge me (until he does)
stillafool replied to AnonXYZ's topic in General Relationship Discussion
Sorry you were bullied when you were younger. Who knows what's in the mind of this class clown. Maybe he doesn't like you for some reason so he ignores you. My advice if to not jump to conclusions but to ignore him back. Do not try to have eye contact with him and just be friendly to those who are friendly to you. It sounds like all the other ones are friendly so this is the only one you have to ignore. Do you like this guy more than just a classmate? If not, let it go. Not everyone has to like us and get on with us. -
None of them. You're not attracted to the first one so no point debating it. The second one is getting drunk every 2nd night. It's not the same has having a drink from time to time. Getting drunk every 2nd night is an addiction. It's also an addiction that keeps her in earning very little money and using this money to buy alcohol. She is also mortgaging her health. May look like nothing if she's under 40 but it's a habit that will bring on a series of health issues and on top of that she will start looking much older than her real age.
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My husband still talks with his ex's daughter
stillafool replied to curlygurl90's topic in Marriage and Life Partnerships
If she is his ex's daughter and he's known her since she was 9 he more than likely feels fatherly towards her and still wants to be there for her in some way. She probably feels the same way about him. I don't see a problem with it. He's not talking to his ex. -
Either because you do those strange quizzes to them, or because you keep choosing strange women. Probably both. I told you many times, either don’t ask those silly questions about their past, or stop dating girls who volunteer such information. Women don’t make you feel insecure. You make yourself feel insecure. Probably because the women you keep choosing are insecure as well and would date even someone they don’t particularly like. They probably think that even bad dates and bad sex are better than nothing. Which is exactly the same as what you thi
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Some possibilities: - Perhaps she's not the most emotionally intelligent person in the world. - Maybe she treasured the idea of having you as a professional contact and is simply doing what she'd do with any other professional contact. - Maybe she gets these requests from plenty of guys and views them as par for the course. And maybe when she rejected you indirectly, she expected you to take the hint the way the other guys did in the past so that you could have a functional professional relationship. You need to learn to value yourself, OP. Stop begging her (this is esse
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Is it right for my boyfriend to benefit from money I make?
Gebidozo replied to SabrinaBlue1995's topic in General Relationship Discussion
In my opinion, this arrangement isn’t fair to you. Your BF’s attitude comes across as somewhat greedy and stingy. He earns way more money than you do. It’s not fair that you split everything 50/50. And collecting a part of the rent money you receive just appears petty to me. -
He left me for his wife, has not contacted me, what might he be thinking just a few days out?
stillafool replied to Scott1087's topic in The Other Man / Woman
He is probably quitting that job as a last ditch effort to show his wife that he wants to be as far away from you as possible in hopes that she will reconcile. His actions are totally normal for a married man caught in an affair. He is willing to do anything possible to get her and his family back. You are correct that he doesn't want you. Most cheating MM who are forced to end their marriage due to an affair do not end up with the woman they had the affair with. They don't want to look at or be with the person who was the cause of a very painful period in their life nor do they want to -
Why did you plead with him? Respect that he did not move on. Don't make it about you, it's his burden to carry and he may never make peace with it. Yes it is sad, but that's it. It's his pain , not yours.
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You tried...... This is the answer to your question.
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Is it right for my boyfriend to benefit from money I make?
SabrinaBlue1995 replied to SabrinaBlue1995's topic in General Relationship Discussion
@GaetaI think the answer is insecurity on my side most likely. I think a lot of what you have written is correct to be honest and I need to have a serious think about this, thank you for taking the time to give your opinion, it’s much appreciated. -
Is it right for my boyfriend to benefit from money I make?
Gaeta replied to SabrinaBlue1995's topic in General Relationship Discussion
Why did you agree to all this? You knew it was unfair. When we're in a relationship we cannot be afraid of rocking the boat once in a while. Splitting everything in the middle is not a relationship, it's a business deal. This man is more focused on advancing himself financially than being kind and fair to you. One year of this slavery is enough! Personally I would not date a man like that, it would scare me so much to link myself to a man who is incapable of generosity toward the woman he supposedly loves. For you, I will suggest to take an appointment with a financial advisor and see w -
Is it right for my boyfriend to benefit from money I make?
SabrinaBlue1995 replied to SabrinaBlue1995's topic in General Relationship Discussion
@Gaeta thank you for your comment. I think this is my concern as well. I think in the past he’s had girlfriends in bad financial positions and he’s basically paid everything for them. He sees me as a very financially fortunate person in comparison, which I am. However paying 50/50 on everything when he’s earning 2.5 does seem a bit greedy of him. And to be honest I can’t wrap my head around him happily taking £300 each month from my rent whilst also collecting £1,000 from his own flat. He’s benefiting from two rental incomes whilst I’m benefiting from half of my own. I like the fact I can be -
Is it right for my boyfriend to benefit from money I make?
Gaeta replied to SabrinaBlue1995's topic in General Relationship Discussion
No no no no...........heck no! He earns 2.5 more than you do and you have to pay half of everything?? You are being exploited !!! Why do you give him half of your rent revenue? A fair agreement is you pay prorata! How can you ever get ahead financially when you earn less than half! and you have to pay 50% of your common expenses. If the man I date earns 2.5 more than I do, you bet I am not paying half of everything! He can afford restaurants and travels I could never afford so if he wants me to follow him he's got to consider my financial means are nowhere equal to his! -
They say these things because, as we learned in this thread, you quiz them about their past relationships. You take this questionning too far, and you don't ask the right questions.
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He clearly was mainly looking for sex and lost interest when he didn't get it. As others have said don't accept a dinner date at a guys house unless you are ready to go to bed with him.
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Ran into my ex today at a cafe. Long story, it always is but I was the one that ended the relationship. I hadn’t seen him for 5 years. Relationship was 10 years. I’m now married. I was with my 3 year old daughter. I said hello, how are you etc. He told me he did not want to talk to me. I pleaded with him. He got tearful and said that he hated me and said that everything worked out well for me and that he’s depressed and alone, and that he wishes he never met me. I don’t know what to think, like what he said to me was extremely hurtful but I’m upset that he is sad and hurting.
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He left me for his wife, has not contacted me, what might he be thinking just a few days out?
Scott1087 replied to Scott1087's topic in The Other Man / Woman
He has other jobs. In our field a lot of us do so this is not a huge loss for him. -
First of all, this fascination with your coworker is troubling to me. She is married, but yet you still want to pursue her. What is that saying about you? It's not just your wife that you would be hurting, but you would be ruining her husbands life too just out of sheer selfishness. Besides all of that, it rarely, rarely ever turns out that the grass is greener on the other side. No doubt your attraction for this coworker is affecting your marriage. Do the right thing and remove yourself from the situation. Get a transfer, a new job, or just accept that this coworker is not yours.