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Older/mature men: What are your insecurities in dating?
Interstellar replied to Miss Chrysalis's topic in Dating
Initially, online (and offline) it’s important to note that men will always be visual creatures. 99 percent of men prefer a woman with long, straight hair. No curly, frumpy or short to super short hair. Below the ear or up to your neck and straight is fine. You want to cast as wide of a net as possible. How she dresses, nothing revealing. A little skin is okay, just enough that you take care of your health. Bicep poses that also show your armpits are lame lol, but you sitting on a bike smiling is good, or holding a volleyball. if you look to be younger than your age, nobody cares about th -
Should I hire a sex worker to take my virginity at 26?
smackie9 replied to ShadowPheonix's topic in Dating
If they ever find out you hired a hooker, that would be even a worst problem. May I suggest clubbing where cougars hang out. Those ladies will do you right...wear a nice shirt and hit the dance floor. -
The problem is: I must be doing something wrong if all these situationships didn’t work out. I’m the common denominator. I have no problem getting dates and I can’t remember a single situation where the guy wasn’t eager to go on a second date. But I always, always, always end up in the FWB zone sooner or later. Even though I think I’m communicating quite clearly that I’m looking for commitment. So maybe my words are saying one thing, my actions something different (like suggesting late night activities).
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Yes, I did message him (twice I think) just to check-in and make a bit of small talk, but the conversations died down immediately because his answers were so short, and he didn’t really ask any questions back. He did initiate three of the dates though (with very short, to the point messages).
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Are you single,,,,can we make friend?
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My opinion is that if someone made it all the way to the age of 41 without having kids, they're probably not all that serious about wanting kids. Have you tried messaging him? Did you initiate contact more than once in the past? The way you're phrasing it, it sounds like he initiated contact 3 times and you did once, is that correct? If that is the case, then surely it sounds like YOU are the one indicating lack of interest, not him? I feel like you're overthinking things, which might lead to a self-fulfilling prophecy. Holy crap, you guys are in your 40s, not teenagers. If y
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Should I hire a sex worker to take my virginity at 26?
Els replied to ShadowPheonix's topic in Dating
So, you have no friends, can't make friends, you hate your job, and you have no hobbies... but you think the reason why people are rejecting you is your virginity??? -
I do indeed regret ending the marriage, but my ex immediately found someone else and he is very happy. I wish him all the best. I loved him but I had problems being intimate with him. There was a lot of love and comfort in the marriage but I wasn't attracted to him anymore and the intimacy had never been very good. I still don't know if I/we made the right decision ending it, because it was a good marriage on other levels. But there is no turning back and I know it's not okay to deny your spouse of intimacy, and especially not running away from the situation in an affair. I still have
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I’m a long-time LS member (rarely post though). I've been on dating apps for about ten years now—had a few short relationships and lots of situationships. I think I’ve gotten pretty good at spotting red flags. But every now and then, someone comes along who completely knocks you off your feet, and all logic goes out the window. I could use a reality check—am I overthinking, or are my concerns valid? So: I’m 47f and matched with a 41yo guy on Tinder a month ago. We’ve had four dates so far: first one was dinner, second a movie (we kissed), third was sushi in his town (we had sex after), an
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RECLAIM YOUR LOST DIGITAL ASSET WITH CONFIDENCE THROUGH RAPID DIGITAL RECOVERY
dottiemilrot689 posted a topic in General Relationship Discussion
In October 2024, I was offered a job opportunity with a well-known tech company called TechPioneers UK, based in Manchester, UK. The role sounded like a dream working as a project manager with an attractive salary and a flexible schedule. The job listing promised excellent benefits, and after a brief interview conducted over email, I was given an offer. The opportunity seemed legitimate, and I felt incredibly fortunate to have been selected. However, things started to take a suspicious turn when I was asked to send £12,000 to cover supposed background checks and training fees. I was told that -
Navigating BTC Recovery: Washington Recovery Pro Proven Approach
theodoreedinburgh1 posted a topic in Family
My husband and I had always been cautious with our finances, but the world of cryptocurrency seemed too promising to ignore. After months of research and persuasion from so-called investment experts, we decided to invest a significant sum of $700,000 worth of Bitcoin into what we believed was a legitimate and high return opportunity at first, everything seemed perfect. Our portfolio showed steady growth, and we were even encouraged to reinvest our earnings. However, when we attempted to withdraw a portion of our funds, the nightmare began. Excuses, delays, and then complete silence from the pl -
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thank you,,,, mate! How old are you?
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Emotional turmoil of no contact and d-day
BreakOnThrough replied to WorkingOnMyself2's topic in The Other Man / Woman
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Thank you!! I totally agree!
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Aww I love that and good for you! I hope to be doing the same at that age! I am definitely trying to learn as much as possible about and the flexibility is absolutely a big component of it for me. I grew up playing sports so my flexibility is ok but this is only going to help me strengthen it and maintain it
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Yoga and Exercise is the most valuable thing in our daily life routine. Its make our life happier and healthier, Best of luck dear!
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Yoga's an excellent component to a healthy lifestyle, you've probably already read up on the long term benefits. If you stick at it and do it regularly you should remain flexible well into old age. I have spinal issues and without yoga I'm certain those issues would be much worse, as it is I'm still mowing lawns and chopping trees down at 61 .
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She seems to lack interest but still wants to keep contact?
ShyViolet replied to Tylerchu's topic in Dating
Why why why why why. We are not in her head, we don't know all the motivations for her actions. But the bottom line is that actions speak louder than words. This girl constantly flakes out on you and has shown that she has a very low level of interest in you. She is what is known as a time waster. She has cancelled on you enough times for it to be clear as day that she's not truly interested in you. So stop wasting your time with this. -
I am sorry to hear about your father and hope he is doing better now? The mental and inner peace components of yoga is what really led me to getting started. The balance, flexibility and core strength are just added benefits for sure. I am loving it so far and I love the community and vibe in the classes
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Should I hire a sex worker to take my virginity at 26?
ShadowPheonix replied to ShadowPheonix's topic in Dating
I will not lie, I don’t have a lot of hobbies and I do not make much money. Not yet. I’m gonna look for new jobs because mine is literally soulsucking. Not an exaggeration, people have joked and said I work for a vampire because of what my workplace does to the soul. For little money I also do not have friends near me, and I’m finding it impossible to make new ones. I almost want to move back to my hometown so I can be near my old friends I’ve known since 2016. Also, why is Reddit such a bad place? -
Should I hire a sex worker to take my virginity at 26?
basil67 replied to ShadowPheonix's topic in Dating
Assuming you don't list your virginity on your profile, then your virginity is not the single reason why you're not getting interest online. I think being a virgin is the RESULT of whatever you're doing wrong with the way you present or socialise. I'll tell you straight up that you not realising that your virginity is a symptom of not being able to get a date rather than the cause suggests you don't understand dating or perhaps you struggle with social skills. What's going on with your dating profile? You say you're not bad looking and stay in shape. But what else do you have t - Yesterday
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Should I hire a sex worker to take my virginity at 26?
ShadowPheonix replied to ShadowPheonix's topic in Dating
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I used to do Yoga religiously. But I stopped after my father had a stroke because I just don't have to time to fit it in. I was at a point where I could do Chaturanga and the crow and planks with not problem but now I feel like I am starting from ground zero. Yoga has many health benefits, not just for balance it's a pathway to inner peace and self-discovery. Honor your current energy levels and physical abilities—yoga is about progress, not perfection.
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I have recently started going to a yoga studio and am still learning about it but can already see the benefits it can provide Any experienced yoga practitioners here with any advice for someone new to it? Namaste