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The other side of the story: Support and discussion for those who find themselves involved with a committed partner.

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It's complicated - insight needed 1 2 3 4 77

By TamBuktu, October 28, 2021
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- ufo8mycat
- January 12, 2022
do they actually leave? 1 2 3 4 76

By Myabee, July 8, 2021
- 1.9k replies
- 142.1k views
- Lisa
- February 5, 2022
Never thought I'd be an OW (long post) 1 2 3 4 55

By PhoenixRising8, October 19, 2018
- 1.4k replies
- 184.3k views
- BTDT2012
- July 15, 2019
He said he loves me..but he's married 1 2 3 4 51

By jennifernyc84, October 21, 2012
- 1.3k replies
- 120.9k views
- William
- November 13, 2012
In a rough place - thoughts appreciated 1 2 3 4 47

By finna, June 2, 2019
- 1.2k replies
- 88.2k views
- CautiouslyOptimistic
- July 7, 2019
After TWO YEARS - he's married! *updated* 1 2 3 4 47

By LShalcy, May 4, 2021
- 1.2k replies
- 94.6k views
- BaileyB
- November 18, 2021
His wife texted me asking to meet- what do I do? [Updated 2016-12-2] 1 2 3 4 41

By Mayday2016, February 28, 2016
- 1k replies
- 137.3k views
- sandylee1
- January 2, 2017
Ended it with a MM will he reach out? Heartbroken 1 2 3 4 40

By Scotgirl84, April 29, 2021
- 977 replies
- 68.8k views
- stillafool
- September 24, 2021
Complicated affair 1 2 3 4 35

By Brian1, January 28, 2013
- 865 replies
- 68.2k views
- Decorative
- February 27, 2013
Emotional Affair 1 2 3 4 34

By PinkSunset, May 4, 2016
- 837 replies
- 98.5k views
- spiderowl
- April 19, 2017
What are you doing to go on? 1 2 3 4 34

By Walking away, April 29, 2006
- 834 replies
- 36.2k views
- movinon05
- September 3, 2006
I am falling for my married dentist - please help! 1 2 3 4 33

By goingforgold, November 7, 2005
- 815 replies
- 77k views
- Citizen Erased
- February 22, 2006
Will I ever be his #1? 1 2 3 4 33

By jennifernyc84, December 11, 2016
- 802 replies
- 84.9k views
- HeCantBreakMe
- January 25, 2017
Bought a new Home today The Adventure Begins! 1 2 3 4 33

By LakesideDream, February 12, 2008
- 800 replies
- 73.5k views
- Tony
- June 25, 2009
To The BS's - Don't Blame The OW 1 2 3 4 32

By OpenBook, September 29, 2007
- 796 replies
- 47.1k views
- Lizzie60
- October 5, 2007
The Happy Thread 1 2 3 4 30

By OWoman, May 17, 2010
- 729 replies
- 63k views
- Tony
- January 7, 2012
Hi, this is my first post! 1 2 3 4 29

By Lizzie60, April 28, 2007
- 703 replies
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- Tony
- May 14, 2007
A MM's perspective 1 2 3 4 28

By BHMM, August 30, 2010
- 695 replies
- 65.9k views
- Fallen Angel
- September 6, 2010
From GF to OW 1 2 3 4 28

By CrushingHope, January 4, 2018
- 680 replies
- 57.9k views
- BaileyB
- March 8, 2019
I kissed a married man and am falling in love! 1 2 3 4 27

By Fun2BMe, April 24, 2007
- 654 replies
- 78.1k views
- dropdeadlegs
- June 6, 2007
Coming out of the affair fog... update from lemon 2 years later 1 2 3 4 26

By lemondrop21, May 8, 2015
- 638 replies
- 90.3k views
- Grey Cloud
- August 5, 2017
The OW can actually save a marriage... 1 2 3 4 25

By Lizzie60, June 19, 2007
- 610 replies
- 33.1k views
- Tony
- June 26, 2007
I sent her an email 1 2 3 4 25

By Mombot, July 24, 2010
- 609 replies
- 50.9k views
- Dexter Morgan
- September 27, 2010
**hurting, broken and lost - how to move on?** 1 2 3 4 24

By BiancaSW, June 13, 2021
- 587 replies
- 34.1k views
- BaileyB
- June 23, 2021
This affair almost ruined my life!!! 1 2 3 4 24

By Naivewomen, January 15, 2019
- 579 replies
- 73k views
- pepperbird
- July 16, 2019