The Other Man / Woman

17,666 topics in this forum

1. 2 Long Years Come to an End

   By SS2855, November 10, 2020
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   • Bonifidelifelover
   • November 18, 2020

2. 3 weeks today of NC and still going strong

   By BeaNeverLearns, November 8, 2020
   • 15 replies
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   • Bonifidelifelover
   • November 13, 2020

3. First time poster, need some perspective

   By Feelinbeachy21, November 4, 2020
   • 22 replies
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   • Commongoal123
   • November 27, 2020

4. Why are cheating spouses capable of reform, but OW's are not? 1 2 3

   By EPC82, November 2, 2020
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   • pepperbird2
   • November 13, 2020

5. My GF was the OW in her previous relationship. Some thoughts/insecurities I need to air 1 2 3

   By Unsureaboutmyself, November 1, 2020
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   • Crazelnut
   • November 9, 2020

6. Not sure what to do?

   By stephen48, October 31, 2020
   • 11 replies
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   • ExpatInItaly
   • November 4, 2020

7. Who calls off the affair usually?

   By Mia12, October 24, 2020
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   • Patrice
   • October 31, 2020

8. So why do they call it 'Rewriting history' 1 2

   By snowcones, October 23, 2020
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   • snowcones
   • October 30, 2020

9. Just initiated full NC ghosting needing support 1 2

   By BeaNeverLearns, October 18, 2020
   • 43 replies
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   • mark clemson
   • October 28, 2020

10. Translation key for 'newbie'

    By hajk, October 16, 2020
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    • Happy Lemming
    • October 20, 2020

11. EAP is pregnant with her husbands baby 1 2

    By Bear1987, October 15, 2020
    • 48 replies
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    • snowcones
    • October 26, 2020

12. Sex w/ a friend while his fiancé on bachelorette getaway 1 2 3 4 9

    By Bonifidelifelover, October 7, 2020
    • 206 replies
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    • Zona
    • February 25, 2021

13. Can you ever be friends with an ex AP?

    By introuble2020, October 3, 2020
    • 16 replies
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    • Luna66star
    • October 10, 2020

14. Don't know how to move on

    By Tye345, October 2, 2020
    • 13 replies
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    • ABernie
    • October 6, 2020

15. Telling children about an affair 1 2 3 4

    By EPC82, October 1, 2020
    • 79 replies
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    • sandylee1
    • November 8, 2020

16. update

    By Birdies, September 30, 2020
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    • Birdies
    • October 28, 2020

17. Sudden D-Day and Questions 1 2

    By CTC20, September 30, 2020
    • 33 replies
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    • C52
    • September 30, 2020

18. I feel so guilty and disgusted with myself. 1 2

    By introuble2020, September 29, 2020
    • 27 replies
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    • MsJayne
    • September 30, 2020

19. Is this the end? 1 2

    By magnolia18, September 24, 2020
    • 32 replies
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    • lifeoflies
    • October 2, 2020

20. Seeing MM whilesearching for Mr Right? 1 2

    By MrsTiffany, September 23, 2020
    • 48 replies
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    • Bittersweetie
    • September 27, 2020

21. Intermittent Reinforcement in an Affair

    By SS2855, September 20, 2020
    • 4 replies
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    • Miss Clavel
    • September 23, 2020

22. Need support 1 2

    By theperfectlife, September 16, 2020
    • 29 replies
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    • Mrin
    • September 20, 2020

23. Why is he reserved?

    By laurastella, September 13, 2020
    • 9 replies
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    • elaine567
    • September 20, 2020

24. do I tell his wife 1 2

    By Miss_Rome, September 13, 2020
    • 27 replies
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    • VD01
    • December 21, 2020

25. Can't stop myself!

    By Jklivin, September 12, 2020
    • 9 replies
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    • Watercolors
    • September 19, 2020