The Other Man / Woman

17,666 topics in this forum

1. Can I ever really get over this?

   By Lov3foo1, August 8, 2019
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   • spiritedaway2003
   • August 11, 2019

2. NC is not an option

   By Jlo1969, August 10, 2019
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   • Turning point
   • August 10, 2019

3. MM of 3 years disclosed our affair... 1 2 3 4 14

   By Hope71, July 7, 2019
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   • Naivewomen
   • August 9, 2019

4. Being an OW/OM - Effects on your Health

   By somanymistakes, July 29, 2019
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   • Lov3foo1
   • August 9, 2019

5. How we became the "other"--could also apply to emotionally disconnected marriage

   By HadMeOverABarrel, July 31, 2019
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   • Turning point
   • August 8, 2019

6. Does the OW ever start losing interest as self esteem builds?

   By SS2855, July 30, 2019
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   • Beentheretoooften
   • August 8, 2019

7. Do MM come back after getting caught? 1 2 3 4 5

   By HowToQuit, July 11, 2019
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   • BaileyB
   • August 7, 2019

8. Crush on Doctor - Does he feel the same? [Update: Jan 2019 - Doc brushed me off] 1 2 3 4 17

   By ja123, November 21, 2016
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   • salparadise
   • August 7, 2019

9. Turns out the woman I'm dating is married 1 2

   By Reltubsirch0412, July 14, 2019
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   • gettinoverit
   • August 6, 2019

10. Almost 7 years in 1 2 3 4 5

    By AutumnMoon, June 21, 2019
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    • Turning point
    • August 2, 2019

11. Just Ended a 1.5 year affair and am devastated

    By Beautylife, July 18, 2019
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    • Beautylife
    • August 1, 2019

12. To those currently in NC or been in NC...

    By HowToQuit, July 16, 2019
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    • Beautylife
    • July 30, 2019

13. 6th breakup 1 2

    By Scarlet86, June 24, 2019
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    • mark clemson
    • July 28, 2019

14. Wake up call - need to walk away from this

    By Maria1956, July 25, 2019
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    • S2B
    • July 26, 2019

15. Coping as an OW after a D day 1 2

    By spiritedaway2003, July 24, 2019
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    • pepperbird
    • July 26, 2019

16. Should have known better, should have ended it a long time ago.... 1 2 3 4

    By Shock2019, July 21, 2019
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    • Shock2019
    • July 23, 2019

17. Feelings of shame..discuss

    By Hope71, July 10, 2019
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    • Prudence V
    • July 18, 2019

18. This affair almost ruined my life!!! 1 2 3 4 24

    By Naivewomen, January 15, 2019
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    • pepperbird
    • July 16, 2019

19. Never thought I'd be an OW (long post) 1 2 3 4 64

    By PhoenixRising8, October 19, 2018
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    • BTDT2012
    • July 15, 2019

20. Trying to move on 1 2

    By NotCloseEnough, June 3, 2019
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    • spiritedaway2003
    • July 11, 2019

21. Healing Ideas after breakups

    By Hope71, July 9, 2019
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    • SpiceCat
    • July 10, 2019

22. NC Starts Today

    By I Should Know Better, July 9, 2019
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    • Orokotikki
    • July 9, 2019

23. In a rough place - thoughts appreciated 1 2 3 4 52

    By finna, June 2, 2019
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    • CautiouslyOptimistic
    • July 7, 2019

24. A short rant - dreamed about xMM 1 2 3

    By HadMeOverABarrel, June 22, 2019
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    • HadMeOverABarrel
    • July 6, 2019

25. Words and Support to all here. Would love you’re responses too. 1 2 3 4

    By Secretgal34, June 26, 2019
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    • DKT3
    • June 29, 2019