The Other Man / Woman

17,668 topics in this forum

1. emotional affair, how long to get over the "other man/woman"? 1 2

   By merlot, February 27, 2009
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   • merlot
   • March 13, 2009

2. The 4 stages of an Affair 1 2

   By East7, December 29, 2010
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   • East7
   • February 16, 2011

3. I'm married but in love with another married woman - what to do?

   By binglebangle, December 23, 2004
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   • Mr Spock
   • December 23, 2004

4. A Married Woman has Fallen for Me & I Love Her ... Please Help!

   By jrust, July 27, 2004
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   • Tweetie
   • July 28, 2004

5. Real Life and alike... 1 2 3 4 9

   By Onlywhenitrains, April 9, 2016
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   • Onlywhenitrains
   • July 11, 2018

6. So lost right now.. can anyone relate? 1 2 3 4 18

   By Lurker123, July 3, 2019
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   • HadMeOverABarrel
   • June 13, 2021

7. Getting Thrown Under The Bus As The OW 1 2 3 4 9

   By Ahurtgirl, May 23, 2017
   • 213 replies
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   • Globug
   • August 18, 2017

8. Best way to handle still angry BS? 1 2 3 4 18

   By daisygirl19, July 28, 2015
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   • daisygirl19
   • September 8, 2015

9. Consequences ***Updated*** 1 2 3 4 8

   By FMW, December 23, 2017
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   • Snakesalive
   • May 8, 2021

10. It DOES get easier 1 2 3 4 14

    By jennifernyc84, January 25, 2017
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    • jennifernyc84
    • April 7, 2017

11. Feeling physically sick since end of affair 1 2 3 4 12

    By Ahurtgirl, August 24, 2016
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    • MidnightBlue1980
    • January 3, 2017

12. After three years of NC, MM has contacted me again. 1 2 3 4 12

    By KismetGirl, November 6, 2014
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    • minimariah
    • March 2, 2015

13. My view on being a mistress 1 2 3 4

    By Lyubimaya, November 19, 2005
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    • lilmoma1973
    • December 25, 2005

14. Going to tell his wife 1 2 3 4 13

    By awomansworth, March 14, 2016
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    • 1111volcano
    • April 22, 2016

15. Turned on by wife's affair 1 2

    By Cleancut, September 13, 2004
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    • manofmystrey
    • September 17, 2004

16. First post- in a mess!

    By Jemima123, July 21, 2016
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    • BenchCoach
    • August 18, 2016

17. OW - my aftermath [update: day 205] 1 2 3 4 17

    By NewLeaf512, October 4, 2015
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    • Robert
    • January 26, 2016

18. Are You Still In Love With Your Affair Partner

    By JPMC, March 1, 2013
    • 23 replies
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    • JamesM
    • March 4, 2013

19. Waiting almost 1 years for a married man to leave his wife - HELP 1 2

    By Marie1973, March 11, 2005
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    • HoldOn
    • May 6, 2005

20. Just found out he deceived me for 2 years 1 2 3 4 16

    By so gutted, September 6, 2015
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    • William
    • October 6, 2015

21. How do you end being the mistress if you are in love?

    By Siobhan, July 14, 2003
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    • Natalie
    • September 5, 2003

22. Affair Partner broke it off - I feel sick 1 2 3 4 8

    By obtuseedge, February 16, 2015
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    • William
    • February 19, 2015

23. Surprise 1 2 3 4 13

    By solostand, June 29, 2014
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    • waterwoman
    • September 14, 2014

24. Male in affair 1 2 3 4 13

    By Gumbeaux41, April 16, 2020
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    • BaileyB
    • August 7

25. MM of 3 years disclosed our affair... 1 2 3 4 14

    By Hope71, July 7, 2019
    • 344 replies
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    • Naivewomen
    • August 9, 2019