The Other Man / Woman

17,666 topics in this forum

1. Too sad to function [UPDATED: Ebbs and Flows] 1 2 3 4 5

   By FortyandForlorn, November 16, 2016
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   • S2B
   • January 24, 2017

2. Married Woman & Single Man

   By personalhero, January 19, 2017
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   • Jj66
   • January 23, 2017

3. Staying Friends

   By gypsilady, January 21, 2017
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   • jennifernyc84
   • January 23, 2017

4. Here's my story....

   By Libragal2017, January 17, 2017
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   • Libragal2017
   • January 21, 2017

5. Ending on good terms and going NC 1 2 3 4 6

   By OWAmy, December 30, 2013
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   • OWAmy
   • January 21, 2017

6. In so much pain

   By cloche, December 18, 2016
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   • minimariah
   • January 19, 2017

7. Lighter Note: Nickname used for the W and H in the affair 1 2

   By Otherist, January 18, 2017
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   • Robert
   • January 19, 2017

8. Will xMM try to talk to me after I exposed the affair to his BW? 1 2

   By Capabletoheal, January 15, 2017
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   • HeCantBreakMe
   • January 18, 2017

9. Can a Woman be a Happy Other? 1 2 3 4 5

   By msoptimistic, November 23, 2016
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   • Jersey born raised
   • January 18, 2017

10. Should I use our affair as blackmail? 1 2

    By whoiamnow, January 8, 2017
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    • Cali408
    • January 18, 2017

11. When does this so called "affair fog" lift?

    By Rorocher, January 17, 2017
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    • ShatteredLady
    • January 18, 2017

12. You will survive . . . .

    By CloudyHead, January 17, 2017
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    • freengreen
    • January 18, 2017

13. I miss him so much 1 2 3 4

    By moana, January 9, 2017
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    • ladydesigner
    • January 17, 2017

14. My EA partner of 3.5 years has been distant with me lately... 1 2

    By GuessWho36, January 4, 2017
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    • S2B
    • January 17, 2017

15. My totally messed up story 1 2

    By CrazyCoach, January 3, 2017
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    • trailrunner1975
    • January 16, 2017

16. Know what I need to do but can't bring myself to do it

    By smoked velveteen, January 15, 2017
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    • sandylee1
    • January 16, 2017

17. Had enough 1 2

    By Holly., November 20, 2016
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    • Lady2163
    • January 16, 2017

18. Destabilization Phase - part II 1 2 3 4 9

    By Lostgirl186, November 28, 2016
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    • William
    • January 15, 2017

19. Now what?? [My story is 7 years long.] [UPDATE: 3 weeks no contact] 1 2 3

    By Ithoughtwrong, September 19, 2016
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    • Jersey born raised
    • January 14, 2017

20. When will he finally leave his wife? 1 2 3 4 9

    By independentwoman, October 13, 2016
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    • elaine567
    • January 13, 2017

21. Stay firm in NC and you will be there! Nine months NC

    By anyonecandoit, January 2, 2017
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    • HeCantBreakMe
    • January 11, 2017

22. Torn between two men. Help!

    By Dazednconfused1994, January 10, 2017
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    • Jersey born raised
    • January 10, 2017

23. Lost.. [update: Ended it today]

    By Mikroula, January 3, 2017
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    • Chica80
    • January 9, 2017

24. Dating my married boss

    By sweets93, January 9, 2017
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    • Southern Sun
    • January 9, 2017

25. Do you ever think about the beginning?

    By Chica80, January 8, 2017
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    • cocorico
    • January 9, 2017