lalalandman Posted September 7, 2011 Share Posted September 7, 2011 (edited) After a 5 year, she dumped me 4 months ago. I don't know, it seems whenever I gave in and broke NC, I just got punishment. I went 7 weeks NC, then broke it by telling her my new phone #. I thought we could take it slow but instead she just spilled a bunch of crap on me about how much she screwed around town. Seems like a case of GIGS since she finished school, started her career, moved to a new town, out of the parents house with roommates at 24 yrs young. Last time we talked, she just said 'I don't want you to be mad' and something about how she's been fighting with alot of people. I don't know, I don't understand why dumpers tend give signs that they care but when the cards are on the table, they don't give a rat. It's like, you tell me you don't love me, to move on, but call me about pointless crap. Or try to make me your emotional tampon. Probably all the while you're screwing someone else. Who knows. Sorry, just venting. Edited September 7, 2011 by lalalandman Link to post Share on other sites
CaliBabe Posted September 7, 2011 Share Posted September 7, 2011 Thats exactly it. She is just using you to help her guilt. Don't fall for it! Good job and keep up the NC! Link to post Share on other sites
silly_panda Posted September 7, 2011 Share Posted September 7, 2011 Yeap... They normally uses us as an emotional pillow and to ease their guilt... We wan them back so much... So every little thing they said will make us think like they really do care and all... We will start thinking they still love us and stuff... But I think they are just being nice... Link to post Share on other sites
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