Jarell Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 (edited) This is kind of a long story I met my ex back in September 2010 we were friends first and it started to become a relationship in early 2011. Before I met her she was living in Southern California and I was in Northern California. In 2011 she goes back to Socal as her the father of her child resides down there and we had our first break up in August of '11. She tried being friends but I wasn't having it so come December of '11 she calls back wanting to be friends but couldn't give a good reason so I called her out on it and she wanted to get back together I wasn't fully over her and I still loved her so I did go back with her we remained in a LDR and then summer of 2012 she comes up for a month and we spend the whole month of august together and everything appears great then Dec of 2012 she does a disappearing act and I don't hear from her in two weeks I suspect cheating but really had no proof. I finally talk to her and she was in hiding or something I was pissed off. We still remained a couple and even had plans to get a place together through out 2013 we maintained our LDR and but then come early Nov of 2013 she just out the blue wants to end the relationship caught me off guard so we have a argument and somethings were said by both of us she blocks me on all social and her cell phone. We don't speak for almost four months fast foward to Feb 20th 2014 I get a random email from asking me if I want to meet for lunch and that she is in town I didn't respond so she sends me other emails saying that she is moving soon and wanted to know how I am. I said im fine she texts me her number and we did talk on the phone. She goes on about how happy she is but I can detect bull because her voice was very monotone. She told me she is seeing someone else and that she is so happy with him I tell her I don't give a f""k and she called me a a""hole also she went from moving soon to I'm moving in july but she makes up alot of stuff. I thought about it after the conversation and so the following day I just flat out tell her to not bother me anymore and that she is not right and no fair and that she doesn't need to worry about me and a few other things she plays it off by acting so tough and saying "whatever I don't care and why send my the message". So I blocked her on Facebook and deleted her number from my phone my point is if she was so over me and moved on plus seeing someone else why would she care how I was doing she broke up with me it makes no sense at all. Edited February 26, 2014 by Jarell
LifeGoesOnMan Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Dude, no contact. especially if she is seeing someone else. She wants to have her cake, eat it too, see if you're still on the hook, while she gets the d from someone else. I'm sure she still cares about you, but still.. No contact, no time for dat. (Been there bro, trust.)
Author Jarell Posted February 26, 2014 Author Posted February 26, 2014 Dude, no contact. especially if she is seeing someone else. She wants to have her cake, eat it too, see if you're still on the hook, while she gets the d from someone else. I'm sure she still cares about you, but still.. No contact, no time for dat. (Been there bro, trust.) I did I told her don't contact me no more but she thinks I'm just mad at her in which I'm really not but tired of the Bull and the lies truth be told out of her ex's I was the one that Showed her real love as she told me when we were together.
Author Jarell Posted February 26, 2014 Author Posted February 26, 2014 Oh I forgot to mention that she is one of the G.I.G.S women because I found the when she broke with me she started going out with the guy when she was down in So cal but now she is back in Norcal for various reasons She tries to reach out to me but telling me she so happy over and over Bull****
wergotproblems Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 don't fall into her trap. i've been there. just yesterday my ex texted me telling me she still loved me and tried to ask me for advice with her new bf! wtf is that right. lol
Author Jarell Posted February 26, 2014 Author Posted February 26, 2014 Exactly. She told me she like the guy which in real terms equals "He is okay but I want to see you get jealous" well why would you care anyway if you are over me and soooo happy why care about a person from the past. Before I met her I never even thought to check up on a EX let alone wonder about how they are. If a person is done they should be done right?
barky2 Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Exactly. She told me she like the guy which in real terms equals "He is okay but I want to see you get jealous" well why would you care anyway if you are over me and soooo happy why care about a person from the past. Before I met her I never even thought to check up on a EX let alone wonder about how they are. If a person is done they should be done right? Gigs or not dude you need to just let it go,especially if she's with someone else. The longer you stick around the more emotional breast feeding she's getting off you, weird words but you understand it. And who gives a crap if she thinks you're mad at her. Focus on getting happy again, remember dude, youre single again. Go be a single dude, in every-meaning-of it. Catch my drift? Barky 1
Chi townD Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Rule of thumb. If someone goes out of their way to TELL you how great their life is, then chances are, it's not that great. The reason she reached out to you is because she dumped you and she knows she hurt you. She wanted to see how much you actually hated her. Well, you broke NC and now she knows. 1
Author Jarell Posted February 27, 2014 Author Posted February 27, 2014 Rule of thumb. If someone goes out of their way to TELL you how great their life is, then chances are, it's not that great. The reason she reached out to you is because she dumped you and she knows she hurt you. She wanted to see how much you actually hated her. Well, you broke NC and now she knows. Why would it have matter to her if she moved on She contacted me.
Author Jarell Posted February 27, 2014 Author Posted February 27, 2014 Gigs or not dude you need to just let it go,especially if she's with someone else. The longer you stick around the more emotional breast feeding she's getting off you, weird words but you understand it. And who gives a crap if she thinks you're mad at her. Focus on getting happy again, remember dude, youre single again. Go be a single dude, in every-meaning-of it. Catch my drift? Barky I hear you I was just trying to understand why break contact with me and then act funny about your life when you broke it off. @Chit townD I know her life isn't all that great "personal reason" It's like why bother me when I didn't bother you at all.
David87 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Why would it have matter to her if she moved on She contacted me. To rub it in your face that's why. Block her on social media and block her number on your cel phone. To much drama..
Author Jarell Posted February 27, 2014 Author Posted February 27, 2014 Oh I forgot when I told her to not contact me no more and told her the kind of person that she was and that I wasn't with her game anymore. I blocked her after that. then some random female friend of hers sent me a message calling me ugly and she don't want me and also her friend threatened to "kill me" all because I told her to not bother me and how she was a person. Well correct me if I'm wrong If I disrespected you which I didn't why didnt she have her new guy to contact rather than a female giving me a death threat and yes I did report it to the police!
David87 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 She's a drama queen and she likes to make her exit with a bang. Stay away from this girl and her friends.
Author Jarell Posted February 27, 2014 Author Posted February 27, 2014 The crazy thing is I don't even know any of her friends as she was living in a different part of the state and now she is near me. I don't believe in revenge but I do believe that one day she will realize that you don't go messing with people that are not bothering you.
Author Jarell Posted March 6, 2014 Author Posted March 6, 2014 more weird stuff. two days ago a random number called my house asking to speak with my EX and the person that was talking was a female my dad had answer the phone. The woman on the phone didn't give any information on anything but she kept saying that my ex listed my house number as a contact. So i did send my ex a message about it and she started acting weird like she didn't know and said "boy aint nobody worried about you" then I looked up the number and it where it was coming from it's a town 4 miles from me and that is where my ex currently is until she moves out of state. I sent my ex the number that called my house and she never replied. Now whats weird is my ex hasn't been in my house in almost 2 years plus when I sent her the message about the number she didn't reply back. I'm starting to think it was her as the mobile carrier that called my house is the same mobile carrier that she uses.
Author Jarell Posted April 21, 2014 Author Posted April 21, 2014 Update! she works at the same store as my aunt how crazy is that!. I never shop at the store now.
Marco Valerio Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 Right friend, go NC, she doesn't deserve your time at all. I do think Karma will pay her back !! =)
nickjd Posted April 21, 2014 Posted April 21, 2014 I can tell you, if she is with someone else. Just forget it. I was dragged on 2 months by the whole "lets take a break and work on ourselves"... that's code word for "imma bang this guy I had planned while I let you down slowly but keep it secret until I know you've given up" She was hot and cold in contact, sending me pictures.. writing emails... FB. It's all bull****. I took all our pictures off facebook and wrote her an email saying "thanks for the memories, please look after our dog, good luck in life" plus a bit more. Don't let her have the privilege of telling you to piss off. As soon as I deleted her, my friend posted me a screen shot of her afairee who had just added her about an hour later saying "hello, thanks for the add, wanna be friends?? " I honestly can't believe the girl who was looking at houses and puppies with me turned out to be such a brat. I would NEVER do anything like that publicly to make a point.
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