my gf of 4 years left me out of the blue.. GIGS

[l.k]

hey

i meat my gf when i was in 12th, she was in 10th.. 2010 (i was 17 and she was 15) we were in same school..i was completely in love with her, things were going very amazing as she was my first love and my true love... we decided to get married when we both settle up, we used to live near each other (same society), the way we used to c each other in school and after school was so different, i loved her more than anything and she did too as i was the only guy who respected her feelings and cared and loved her like anything, we use to meat every day and make do love stuff.. things were very much romantic and intense... then after 5 months she told me she has to leave India and going to USA (because of her dad's and mom's fights, she and her mom and her lil bro were silently leaving India without coming into his dad's knowledge) they were going to her mom's sister's house in USA, i was heartbroken....

 

Experienced worst days of my life, then we continued our relationship as long distance... things continued going amazing.. we eventually found out that we r best for each other and will end up marrying... she cared for me allot... we use to talk almost every time... think about each other almost every time.., of course we used to fight but it was all due to distance but we after all loved each other soo much that it dint even matter.. she even said that we should try being friends coz of our fights.. but i always told her that we cant be friends ad that all these fights are coz of this distance and how much i love her beside those fights...

 

She used to care sooo much that even for once if i was not able to reply her texts or her calls (she used to call evrytime) she use to panic and ask my brothers and sisters where i am... she used to tell me that she cannot live without me and she cannot imagine her life without me, she had less friends in her school (in usa), we were excited about how we will love each other when we will meat finally after long time... discuss things that we would do after meating.. WE REALIZED THAT IT IS A TRUE LOVE

 

3 years passed i was everything for her and she was everything for me... i loved her so much because even after staying so far she did not leave my hand, she used to tell me how immature her mother have become.. act indifferently, fight uselessly with her and her sister,and how much she miss her India friends, i used to console her every time whenever their was a fight in their house (as she was feeling depressed)

things went great between me and her.. posting love stuff on fb.. celebrating each others b'day.. then suddenly she started lil ignoring me, asked for space..

 

She said she still loves me and cared for me like hell and will never stop caring for me no matter what happens, said it wasn't my fault at all..and need lil space.. started playing games with her mom's bro(as he also went to USA by then) instead of talking to me, she started sleeping early(her night and my morning here) so whenever i used to wake i use to find that she is feeling sleepy so dint talk much... stopped calling me like she used to.. i was obviously scared that i might not loose her soo i started doing evrything that a bf would do.. panic.. ask her y she is ignoring me all... then somehow i regained her attention and she started talking to me like we used to

 

4th year-

then she got admission in well known California university...and started living in her university as the university was lil far from her house things went smooth as they were going..

 

then suddenly 3 months back out of the blue she started ignoring me unexpectedly.. then when i asked her what she want.. she said she wants to breakup and want to live a single life... it was all the way unexpected and drove me mad.. it was like someone hit me with 100 bullets on my chest... i begged her... but she went cold from that caring and loving person I've known.. she said she cares me but don't feel love for anyone... she said she wants to be single.. she started partying... made more friends... drinking and and other stuff that she never did in life and no1 expected from her..

 

She started to talk rudely with me... changed her fb password (as we both knew each others fb password) she started talking to all our close mutual friends that we had in India and her college friends and ignoring me all the way... whenever i used to talk to her ask her to come back and tell her how much i love her and care for her... she acted cold and dint care started replying rudely.... it all made me mad... i couldnt belive that the person whom i have supported emotionaly evrytime and who supported me and loved me went soo cold unexpectedly.... we were about to complete our 4 years and in between it was her b'day... and i celebrated with my friends in a restaurant...

 

but it even dint work... i begged.. pleaded... did evrything that a bf would do....for few days after the breakup she used to stalk my fb id but after sometime i changed my passward... she also started seeing a guy their in her college ,he was of my age and was also indian... but i dont know what was their between him and her though she told me that they are just friends.... but she was liking his evry posts on fb , instagram, and i even found out that guys name on top of her snapchat bestfreinds list.... after second month of the breakup one night (her) she had a bad dream and she texted me for consoling... i did consolde her but she again went ignoring and cold... then again that indian guy broke her heart (i dont know how) she came to me and told me that she is heartbroken..

 

i again consolled her and asked her to come back but she again went ignoring me... then slowly she started giving me rude replies... she satrted spending time with her roomates (her new female freinds) spending time with all other people she recently made freinds.... again i found out that she is seeing another guy from her college who also indian... i dont know what she is upto... but she clearly says that she dont miss me and dont wanna be in a relationship with me... its been 3 months now... she ignores my texts and when she replies.. she acts totaly cold as if i was nothing in her life ,i am all heatbrocken as i dint expected that she would breakup like this

 

i still want her back but in way that she has always been in my life... i am so confused i know i should heal up emotionally totally but it hurts when i see her posts on fb showing how much fun she is having with friends so i finally removed her from fb and snapchat ( which i did 1-2 times after the breakup) i have half moved on but i still want her to come back in my life... and if not that at least to say sorry

i seemed like she is totally enjoying her single life now with all her male and female friends... going clubbing and drinking

 

i know she is going thru GIGS

 

i want to know that

 

are their any chances that she may regret her decision and come back ??

 

will she realize what she has lost if i go no contact now after 3 months post BU????

 

 

what should i do to make her realize that she has lost the only person in the world who could truely love her???

 

please i dont want any answers related to " you should move on and forget about her' i am already almost healed now but somewhere around i want her to miss me and realize what she has lost.... i want her to comee back realizing her mistake.... what should i do ??

 

PLEASE HELP

Edited May 18, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
added much needed paragraghs and fixed many mispelled words

[deathandtaxes]

But those are the only answers you're going to get. Because it's what works. It's what keeps you from getting obsessed and crazy. Once you realize that heartbreak won't kill you, that there are so, so many other women out there, then you can really heal and move on. You say you're healed, but you're not. If you were, you would never have posted here. Sorry you two broke up. It happens. And you're young! Go find another young filly!

[l.k]

i know... but wt if i want her back.... i want her to miss me... i want her to realize what she has lost... can that happen ??

i really love her.. will she ever come back to me ?

[deathandtaxes]

This is desperation talking. You can't make somebody want or feel anything.

 

 

 

 

And to answer your questions. No. and No.

[soccerrprp]

4th year-

then she got admission in well known California university...and started living in her university as the university was lil far from her house things went smooth as they were going..

 

She has many other distractions that are immediate. Other guys, new social circles, etc.

 

please i dont want any answers related to " you should move on and forget about her' i am already almost healed now but somewhere around i want her to miss me and realize what she has lost.... i want her to comee back realizing her mistake.... what should i do ??

 

PLEASE HELP

 

Go NC. You are not almost healed. Not even close to it based on this post and what you are asking.

[l.k]

i agree... i am in nc now, but what i wanna know is... will she miss me at some point or will she realize what she has lost ?? will she realize that what all she is having right now is infatuation ? any success stories out their for the same situation... ?

[soccerrprp]

i agree... i am in nc now, but what i wanna know is... will she miss me at some point or will she realize what she has lost ?? will she realize that what all she is having right now is infatuation ? any success stories out their for the same situation... ?

 

No one knows the answers to those questions with any certainty. Of course there are some "success" stories, but there are as many or more that have not been successful.

[l.k]

soccerrprp

 

thanku.... but is their any success stories with almost same situation that u can share it out... i still love her... is their anyway she may come back ??

[l.k]

soccerrprp

 

thanku... bt what if i want her back.. i still love her and have same feelings for her.... can u share any success stories of similar situation.... i love this girl allot...

is their any way she may come back ?

[Strength in Healing]

soccerrprp

 

thanku... bt what if i want her back.. i still love her and have same feelings for her.... can u share any success stories of similar situation.... i love this girl allot...

is their any way she may come back ?

 

 

Try going to the USA and win her back, perhaps. Otherwise, you stand no chance. The end.

[sly_fly1]

sorry all i read was the title. but i can say, since you met in high school theres a very slim chance you will get back together. when you here people say vanish. please listen. delete her, block her. block her friends, and get rid of everything having to do with her.

 

i know its tuff but when you are young, relationships get boring and old,. the only thing you will regret is not dumping her first. because the dumpee naturally feels left behind

[roe007]

soccerrprp

 

thanku... bt what if i want her back.. i still love her and have same feelings for her.... can u share any success stories of similar situation.... i love this girl allot...

is their any way she may come back ?

 

Well I feel for you bro I have been there and going through a break up too but you seem to think a lot about her than yourself. Best thing is work on loving yourself first. You haven't healed at all maybe because you still check on her and think that she is happy over there. Let her do whatever she wants you just live your life and enjoy here. We can't control anyone and make them do what we want right?just accept it that is the best advice anyone can give you. Its not about her anymore or what she feels because you have seen her happy posts now just move on realize that she is not the old caring loving gf of yours. Now just pick yourself up ignore her. best thing is to deactivate your fb if you can for a while and go out with your friends here. Do your fun part then you would start loving yourself. Trust me if she wants you back in her life she would come back but don't keep any hopes just think about yourself now and not about her.

[l.k]

Thanku roe007

 

Anymore posts from people who went or are going thru same situation.... And any one who got their gf back from the same situation... I would be allot helping

[sly_fly1]

Thanku roe007

 

Anymore posts from people who went or are going thru same situation.... And any one who got their gf back from the same situation... I would be allot helping

 

well i got my gf back when she left for someone else. i fell off the boat, partied drank drugs chicks yada yada.

 

but what brought her back was i never ignored her, and i never was rude or ****ty to her even though she was to me, everytime she called i was there, everytime she needed me i was there, and when nothing went as planned i was there. i wasnt there because i was trying to get her back, even though i wanted her back, i was there because i cared and loved her even though it seemed like she got hit in the head, ultimatly she realised i was the one all along and now we are slowly getting back to where we are. its possible, but its like going through hell, took me about 7 or 8 months of stress and heart ache

[soccerrprp]

well i got my gf back when she left for someone else. i fell off the boat, partied drank drugs chicks yada yada.

 

but what brought her back was i never ignored her, and i never was rude or ****ty to her even though she was to me, everytime she called i was there, everytime she needed me i was there, and when nothing went as planned i was there. i wasnt there because i was trying to get her back, even though i wanted her back, i was there because i cared and loved her even though it seemed like she got hit in the head, ultimatly she realised i was the one all along and now we are slowly getting back to where we are. its possible, but its like going through hell, took me about 7 or 8 months of stress and heart ache

 

possible, of course. but don't put all your hopes in getting her back. i will admit that sly_fly1's efforts were commendable, but it also shows how much work HE had to put in to get her back. the circumstances are going to be different for different situations and HOW you ended it is important to whether you have any chance at all. i am also curious to know whether the girl in this case didn't come back b/c things were not working out for her elsewhere....so, did she come back b/c she "realized" that she made a mistake, or b/c she couldn't find better????

 

i did some serious chasing myself, but NEVER had to compromise myself to groveling, over-due stress, etc. i chased fully aware that I offered more (or at least that is how confident i was) than she did. i chased ready to let go and would have been fine with it. i chased having nothing to lose and already prepared to continue with a life that would have been equally welcome and promising. don't get me wrong, there was worked to be done, but i was never willing to do more than reasonable. another very important difference for me...i wasn't chasing someone who left me. she was not mine in the first place. we were not dating and therefore, we didn't have a history that could have tainted my efforts.

 

if you are in the mood to get her back, you better not half-ass it. go 100% with the intention of being with her and not excited about the chase.

[sly_fly1]

possible, of course. but don't put all your hopes in getting her back. i will admit that sly_fly1's efforts were commendable, but it also shows how much work HE had to put in to get her back. the circumstances are going to be different for different situations and HOW you ended it is important to whether you have any chance at all. i am also curious to know whether the girl in this case didn't come back b/c things were not working out for her elsewhere....so, did she come back b/c she "realized" that she made a mistake, or b/c she couldn't find better????

 

i did some serious chasing myself, but NEVER had to compromise myself to groveling, over-due stress, etc. i chased fully aware that I offered more (or at least that is how confident i was) than she did. i chased ready to let go and would have been fine with it. i chased having nothing to lose and already prepared to continue with a life that would have been equally welcome and promising. don't get me wrong, there was worked to be done, but i was never willing to do more than reasonable. another very important difference for me...i wasn't chasing someone who left me. she was not mine in the first place. we were not dating and therefore, we didn't have a history that could have tainted my efforts.

 

if you are in the mood to get her back, you better not half-ass it. go 100% with the intention of being with her and not excited about the chase.

 

well what happend was my gf fell back into the party stage because her sister and her sisters friends are all immature. she started doing lots of cocaine and became very emotional and right then thats where me trying to raise our family and being worried and calling and being the dad/husband type became a problem. her new friends set her up with a drug addicted that she left me for.

 

i was hurt, not only because she left me for someone else. but i was watching someone i loved ruin there life to party and do drugs. which is the main reason why i picked her up late at night when she called me crying every week. i didnt care if we got back together, i just didnt want to see her go down that path.

 

then one day i said enough i have to move on because your such a mess. i was so mad. i wished that she would get into a car accident for what she did to US. and our family.

 

well she got into a car accident and called me crying again. and i came to her rescue. and thats when she poored her guts out and told me everything. i still will never really understand what the hell happend. but now she is different. she stopped drinking, stopped doing drugs., stopped hanging out with everyone who brought her down. and now i see her maybe 3 4 times a week, but she just wants to be alone alot. i think she feels just so bad for what she did, she shuts everyone. my story has alot more details but this is the most of it. now shes kinda coming around , but this is the second time this happend , the first gf did this to me. then this one did it to me but she came back. the other one got pregnant n its miserable now. so yeap, my perfect life got screwed up in an instant. people are so un predictable. i will never truly understand how some one can just leave someone like that for another person, but it happens. oh and by the way.

 

those 7 or 8 months of hell. were terrible. thats why alot of people dont get back together, because they cant take the pain there ex will cause them. and i dont get why exes try and hurt you sometimes. but i stood there and had dirt and **** thrown in my face n i took every hit of it, it all depends if you think this girl is worth it, then go threw hell for her, if she is not, then nows the time to run away

Edited May 20, 2014 by sly_fly1

[barky2]

hey

i meat my gf when i was in 12th, she was in 10th.. 2010 (i was 17 and she was 15) we were in same school..i was completely in love with her, things were going very amazing as she was my first love and my true love... we decided to get married when we both settle up, we used to live near each other (same society), the way we used to c each other in school and after school was so different, i loved her more than anything and she did too as i was the only guy who respected her feelings and cared and loved her like anything, we use to meat every day and make do love stuff.. things were very much romantic and intense... then after 5 months she told me she has to leave India and going to USA (because of her dad's and mom's fights, she and her mom and her lil bro were silently leaving India without coming into his dad's knowledge) they were going to her mom's sister's house in USA, i was heartbroken....

 

Experienced worst days of my life, then we continued our relationship as long distance... things continued going amazing.. we eventually found out that we r best for each other and will end up marrying... she cared for me allot... we use to talk almost every time... think about each other almost every time.., of course we used to fight but it was all due to distance but we after all loved each other soo much that it dint even matter.. she even said that we should try being friends coz of our fights.. but i always told her that we cant be friends ad that all these fights are coz of this distance and how much i love her beside those fights...

 

She used to care sooo much that even for once if i was not able to reply her texts or her calls (she used to call evrytime) she use to panic and ask my brothers and sisters where i am... she used to tell me that she cannot live without me and she cannot imagine her life without me, she had less friends in her school (in usa), we were excited about how we will love each other when we will meat finally after long time... discuss things that we would do after meating.. WE REALIZED THAT IT IS A TRUE LOVE

 

3 years passed i was everything for her and she was everything for me... i loved her so much because even after staying so far she did not leave my hand, she used to tell me how immature her mother have become.. act indifferently, fight uselessly with her and her sister,and how much she miss her India friends, i used to console her every time whenever their was a fight in their house (as she was feeling depressed)

things went great between me and her.. posting love stuff on fb.. celebrating each others b'day.. then suddenly she started lil ignoring me, asked for space..

 

She said she still loves me and cared for me like hell and will never stop caring for me no matter what happens, said it wasn't my fault at all..and need lil space.. started playing games with her mom's bro(as he also went to USA by then) instead of talking to me, she started sleeping early(her night and my morning here) so whenever i used to wake i use to find that she is feeling sleepy so dint talk much... stopped calling me like she used to.. i was obviously scared that i might not loose her soo i started doing evrything that a bf would do.. panic.. ask her y she is ignoring me all... then somehow i regained her attention and she started talking to me like we used to

 

4th year-

then she got admission in well known California university...and started living in her university as the university was lil far from her house things went smooth as they were going..

 

then suddenly 3 months back out of the blue she started ignoring me unexpectedly.. then when i asked her what she want.. she said she wants to breakup and want to live a single life... it was all the way unexpected and drove me mad.. it was like someone hit me with 100 bullets on my chest... i begged her... but she went cold from that caring and loving person I've known.. she said she cares me but don't feel love for anyone... she said she wants to be single.. she started partying... made more friends... drinking and and other stuff that she never did in life and no1 expected from her..

 

She started to talk rudely with me... changed her fb password (as we both knew each others fb password) she started talking to all our close mutual friends that we had in India and her college friends and ignoring me all the way... whenever i used to talk to her ask her to come back and tell her how much i love her and care for her... she acted cold and dint care started replying rudely.... it all made me mad... i couldnt belive that the person whom i have supported emotionaly evrytime and who supported me and loved me went soo cold unexpectedly.... we were about to complete our 4 years and in between it was her b'day... and i celebrated with my friends in a restaurant...

 

but it even dint work... i begged.. pleaded... did evrything that a bf would do....for few days after the breakup she used to stalk my fb id but after sometime i changed my passward... she also started seeing a guy their in her college ,he was of my age and was also indian... but i dont know what was their between him and her though she told me that they are just friends.... but she was liking his evry posts on fb , instagram, and i even found out that guys name on top of her snapchat bestfreinds list.... after second month of the breakup one night (her) she had a bad dream and she texted me for consoling... i did consolde her but she again went ignoring and cold... then again that indian guy broke her heart (i dont know how) she came to me and told me that she is heartbroken..

 

i again consolled her and asked her to come back but she again went ignoring me... then slowly she started giving me rude replies... she satrted spending time with her roomates (her new female freinds) spending time with all other people she recently made freinds.... again i found out that she is seeing another guy from her college who also indian... i dont know what she is upto... but she clearly says that she dont miss me and dont wanna be in a relationship with me... its been 3 months now... she ignores my texts and when she replies.. she acts totaly cold as if i was nothing in her life ,i am all heatbrocken as i dint expected that she would breakup like this

 

i still want her back but in way that she has always been in my life... i am so confused i know i should heal up emotionally totally but it hurts when i see her posts on fb showing how much fun she is having with friends so i finally removed her from fb and snapchat ( which i did 1-2 times after the breakup) i have half moved on but i still want her to come back in my life... and if not that at least to say sorry

i seemed like she is totally enjoying her single life now with all her male and female friends... going clubbing and drinking

 

i know she is going thru GIGS

 

i want to know that

 

are their any chances that she may regret her decision and come back ??

 

will she realize what she has lost if i go no contact now after 3 months post BU????

 

 

what should i do to make her realize that she has lost the only person in the world who could truely love her???

 

please i dont want any answers related to " you should move on and forget about her' i am already almost healed now but somewhere around i want her to miss me and realize what she has lost.... i want her to comee back realizing her mistake.... what should i do ??

 

PLEASE HELP

 

 

You've gotten a lot of solid advice from other posters but since you want mine I'll give it to you.

 

Kinda hard to follow...but are you still in India and she's still at cal u?

 

If so man, I hate to break it to you, but it will never work.

 

You'll never have your physical needs met, neither will she.

 

The only thing you can do is leave it be.

 

I know that's not what you want to hear, but how are you suppose to get married and have kids when you're so far away?

 

It'll never work.

 

I wouldn't call what she has gigs, bc she's out living her life.

 

Neither one of you can be expected to love your life married over the phone...it won't ever work.

 

If circumstances change and you move to the same area, ya it could woek.

 

But half the world away it won't.

 

You're young, go date.

 

She's doing it...she's doing what YOU SHOULD BE.

 

It sucks, it hurts man, but you do not have a choice.

 

Circumstances made her move, it's out of your control.

 

But if you don't let her go and you live your life, you'll be miserable.

 

You don't want to hear it, but it's time man.

 

If y'all were ment to be , then one day you will.

 

 

But her being mean and stuff is her losing her respect for you.

 

You're young, maybe y'all will meet up one day.

 

But until then, it's time to go nc.

 

Sorry man, it sucks.

 

But you need to go through this.

 

You'll be just fine.

 

 

 

Barky

[barky2]

Thanku roe007

 

Anymore posts from people who went or are going thru same situation.... And any one who got their gf back from the same situation... I would be allot helping

 

I can name a million success stories.

 

But for what?

 

To give you false hope?

 

Reality is you're half way around the world!

 

Will she miss you?

 

Of course she will.

 

Does she remember you and think of you?

 

Of course

 

But it DOESNT CHANGE THE DEMOGRAPHICS OF IT ALL!

 

Think about this really...think about it all.

 

To make any of this work you need to be near eachother.

 

Which you're not.

 

But why would you even chase a girl half way around the world?

 

This **** ain't easy...but put in the work of nc and you'll be rewarded...that I promise.

 

 

 

Barky

[l.k]

Thanks barky2

 

I know u shouldnt be chasing a girl who is half world away from me... But bro we have been together for 4 years and trust me the way we used to love each other and talk to each other daily dint seem like we both are apart... It was only the physical part that was missing rest evrything was going great..

 

And it was not that she is never gonna cone back to india... She will she is just waiting for her greencard... We both have been waiting eagerly for each other to meat physicaly... And trust me... Distance was not the reason for breakup... It is gigs as she is finding her new college life somewhat good...

 

And i wasnt asking for posetive stories to get some hope... I was asking for it just to know wt those dumpees would have done that they got their gf back....

 

My question is

Y is she being behaving soo rude and cold towards me and ignoring me only though i dint even hurt her.... ???

 

How can i get her back ??

 

Its been 20 days of strict nc since february ( since breakup)

 

 

Bro u can c from my post that how much i love this girl even after being soo miles apart for soo long... And trust me she has been one of those caring gf who would had sacrificed anything for her me.... And i know we both cannot experience those moments.. That love... That type of care ever again with any one new......

 

Barky2 i wanna know what can possibly make her come back in my life...

 

And if possible we can have conversation on emails.... My email is [email protected]

[l.k]

Thanks barky2

 

 

And if possible we can have conversation on emails.... My email is [email protected]

 

Corection.. My email is [email protected]

[barky2]

Thanks barky2

 

I know u shouldnt be chasing a girl who is half world away from me... But bro we have been together for 4 years and trust me the way we used to love each other and talk to each other daily dint seem like we both are apart... It was only the physical part that was missing rest evrything was going great..

 

And it was not that she is never gonna cone back to india... She will she is just waiting for her greencard... We both have been waiting eagerly for each other to meat physicaly... And trust me... Distance was not the reason for breakup... It is gigs as she is finding her new college life somewhat good...

 

And i wasnt asking for posetive stories to get some hope... I was asking for it just to know wt those dumpees would have done that they got their gf back....

 

My question is

Y is she being behaving soo rude and cold towards me and ignoring me only though i dint even hurt her.... ???

 

How can i get her back ??

 

Its been 20 days of strict nc since february ( since breakup)

 

 

Bro u can c from my post that how much i love this girl even after being soo miles apart for soo long... And trust me she has been one of those caring gf who would had sacrificed anything for her me.... And i know we both cannot experience those moments.. That love... That type of care ever again with any one new......

 

Barky2 i wanna know what can possibly make her come back in my life...

 

And if possible we can have conversation on emails.... My email is [email protected]

 

Listen man, me and my ex were together for 10 years....I know the pain.

 

But the thing is is this, there is NOTHING you can do to get her back in your life...y'all have too much land between y'all.

 

The only option you have is just getting happy again.

 

If it's ment to be, trust me it'll be.

 

Leave it to a higher power.

 

I know you want me to say some magic sentence to say to her that'll get her right back...

 

But it doesn't work that way man.

 

It's ****ty it sucks I know.

 

But you need to focus on you man.

 

 

She's being cold and distant for two reasons

 

1) she's losing respect for you.

 

2) it's her defense mechanism to cope. A lot of women are like this. ( women don't jump down my throat I've seen it a lot).

 

Want a positive story?

 

Take what u want from it.

 

My ex came back after being broken up and in nc.

 

I chose to be with someone else instead.

 

Yes I chose someone who is been casually seeing for 6 months over a girl that I had a relationship with for 10 years.

 

2 of my friends broke up for about a year, they got back together and still together this day.

 

There's so many different stories.

 

Hate to break it to you man, there's just to much land between y'all.

 

If by some miracle y'all are close demographically, maybe it'll work.

 

You need to focus on you.

 

 

 

 

Barky

[l.k]

Thanks barky2... Thanks for the support...

[barky2]

My pleasure man, I wish there was some magic spell.

 

But if you want any kind of chance to be with her in the future you have to get happy again man.

 

 

 

Barky

[l.k]

Yea i am.... Its been 4 months now...

I just hope she comes back in my life... As i was her first love and she was mine too..

I hope... She realizes soon...

 

If i was in usa... I wud had proposed her infront of her whole college mates

[barky2]

Yea i am.... Its been 4 months now...

I just hope she comes back in my life... As i was her first love and she was mine too..

I hope... She realizes soon...

 

If i was in usa... I wud had proposed her infront of her whole college mates

 

Time will tell.

 

Until then get yourself happy again and continue living your life.

 

One of the most biggest regrets I see is people holding out for an ex, passing years away on their life way.

 

So many people just wish they would've just lived their life and got over it sooner, because magical things happen when they do.

 

You'll be straight, just put in the time and effort.

 

 

 

 

Barky