Seth0194 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 So yesterday I was working out (on treadmill doing my cardio) I saw my ex walk in but she did not seem to notice me, until she was done. She walked over and proceeded to come talk to me. I continued to do my cardio while she stood there talking. She told me I looked really good (working out alot) and told me she was moving back in the area. I commented casually (well thats good, will save you a drive to work) etc. She then brought up " Are you seeing anyone?" to which I replied "No." She then asked " Have you been dating?" to which I said, " Couple times." She then asked, " Well you are not looking for anything serious are you?" I looked her in the eyes. " I wasnt looking for anything serious when we started dating, so things happen." She then proceeded to tell me she has been out a few times and how weird it is and all. She said she met a real nice guy who she likes but he is moving to Texas because he plays BasketBall and has been signed with a minor league team. (blah blah, I m thinking, I do not care) She talked for another 10 minutes and before she walked away she told me. " You know my number is the same right?" I said " I would think so." She then left and 5 minutes later she text me a picture of her new tattoo. (She hasnt text me in almost 4 weeks) Now, I was thinking all this might be just coincidence. So I went on Facebook and removed the block I had on her to see if she had lifted it. She did, I also looked at Instagram and the same-thing. Why do ex's seem so content to play with our hearts? I mean they loved us and respected us at one point, so why play with us? I have gone back NC but that 20-25 minutes she stood there (she never worked out but stood there talking to me, like almost everything was normal) has set me back. Sucks 1 Link to post Share on other sites
EO422 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Dude. You seem like a freaking stud for saying this "I wasn't looking for anything serious when we started dating, things happen" STUD..STUD...STUD...that was an awesome line I laughed at that. Good stuff lol Anyways yea, exs suck...mine just unblocked me a few days ago..hasn't contacted me...by its weird..like just get out of our lives if your not gunna date us or want to reconcile 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Qboro90 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 First off, awesome response to her question and overall great handling of the convo which I'm sure caught you off guard and was awkward. Also, just wanted to point out that her entire story about the guy she met that's moving to Texas to play minor league ball.... Completeeeee bulll****ttt.... Once you told her that you had been dating a couple times she had to volunteer the info and make it sound like she's got other options as well. Just so happens that the option she had is moving away and will soon end. Oh but it's because he's a stud athlete so she wants you to know she hasn't been slumming it. If you didn't see right through that I'm telling you that it was just a story on her part so she doesn't sound so desperate in wanting you back. Keep playing it cool, don't reach out to her. My guess is that you'll get more and more texts from her in the coming weeks. Best way to handle that is to not reply or if you absolutely must... Short very brief answers. It'll drive her crazy and most likely make her crawl back. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ChicagoSparty Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Excellent work. Now, reblock and ignore. Link to post Share on other sites
ManyDissapoint Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 My girlfriend is a model but she lives in Oklahoma. Your ex sounds like a manipulative, game playing girl who does not understand what boundaries are. Good job. Link to post Share on other sites
Truth34 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Another atta boy coming right up for your response to her question. I chuckled a little, not gonna lie. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Meli22 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Wow what is her game?! Did she break up with you? And why? Sorry I haven't seen your threads. She sounds like she wants your attention. Keep it up though, perfect responses Link to post Share on other sites
minimariah Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Why do ex's seem so content to play with our hearts? why don't you play with hers for a change and next time when she asks you about seeing someone new - tell her that you found the woman you want to marry & enjoy her facial expression. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Seth0194 Posted September 23, 2015 Author Share Posted September 23, 2015 Wow what is her game?! Did she break up with you? And why? Sorry I haven't seen your threads. She sounds like she wants your attention. Keep it up though, perfect responses Here it is if you would like to read it. But simple put she told me she wasnt sure if she wanted to be with me anymore and as a result we ended it. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/545086-lost-love-many-years ================================= Also all thanks for the encouraging responses, yea she did catch me off guard but I went back NC and have not heard from her since that day. I changed my time at the gym a little yesterday so as not to be there the same time just in case and I did not run into her. Link to post Share on other sites
Meli22 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Her loss 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Block her on everything. Like, yesterday. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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