heartbroken

[Holly.]

my boyfriend left me after 6 week together, now it might not seem along time but it feels longer. Id just come back from a weekend from his but before i left i saw his ex gf call him ! so i obviously had a go to him about it, and the arguement carried on over a few hours. Anyway he insists shes blocked etc then out of the blue says hes finished with me says i have issues im over paranoid he cant deal with it anymore.

 

 

Im honestly so hurt i cant sleep eat or anything he ment so much to me hes 20 years older than me too as i thought being with an older man would mean no drama etc.I went round not to long ago and pretty much begged for him to not leave me.. it didnt work. Hes not answering my messages or anything im in such a state i dont know what to do it just seems like a really petty reason for him to do this to me theirs been a couple of incidents but like anything couples go through things im distraught dont know what to do:(

[Whodatdog]

Six weeks is barely enough time to form a relationship. It sounds like you got way more emotionally into the relationship than he did, and you got clingy. That will certainly drive a man away from you, especially so early in the dating situation.

 

For you to have so many arguments so early in your dating doesnt bode well. When people start to date, they dont want arguments. Its the time to learn about each other. You just jumped into the deep end way too soon.

[preraph]

He was hoping to keep both you and her and in the future who knows who else. He's simply not ready for a committed or exclusive relationship. It's hard finding the right guy, so at least keep dating and try to relax and just have fun doing it and not try to make every guy into "the guy" that you have in your head. Just let them show you who they are and don't try to make them be some other way. That way when you find the one who just comes in closer and treats you right, you'll know he's the real deal.