A short man is not equivalent to an overweight woman.

[somedude81]

For some reason, many people seem to think they are basically the same thing. Many men aren't attracted to overweight women, many women aren't attracted to short men.

 

Here's some of the main differences between them.

 

There is nothing a man did to become short. He has absolutely no control over how tall he became whatsoever.

 

Short men cannot become taller (not counting painful and very expensive surgery)

 

A man a few inches below average height looks exactly the same as a taller man. Give a 5'6 man boots that make him 5'9 and nobody would ever guess that his real height isn't actually 5'9. If you see a man in a picture with nothing else to judge his height against, it's impossible to tell how tall he is.

[neveragain34]

I see what you mean, but if a 300 lb. woman was interested in you, would you give her a chance, thinking, "Well, maybe she can loose the weight. I'll give it a shot."?

[Els]

Don't think I've ever equated height to weight in men and women. I do equate women's preference for height to men's preference for a particular body shape or ass/breast size though. I equate weight to weight.

 

That being said, attraction is rarely logical. People who aren't attracted to short men (or flat-chested women) can't just tell themselves "They were born that way, so I should be attracted to them anyway for fairness' sake." Not the way the world and human instinct works. Sorry.

[Phoe]

People who aren't attracted to short men (or flat-chested women) can't just tell themselves "They were born that way, so I should be attracted to them anyway for fairness' sake." Not the way the world and human instinct works.

 

That's actually EXACTLY how I view it. While I am more attracted to tall men, I would never turn away a decent man for being short, he has no control over his shortness!

 

The man I'm dating currently is shorter than me. No big deal

[fortyninethousand322]

Look on the bright side: if you ever date an overweight person you have permission and license to let yourself go. As long as you're not somebody who cares about fitness for its own sake.

 

Not something I'd personally do, but for some people I'd imagine that's an added perk.

[somedude81]

I see what you mean, but if a 300 lb. woman was interested in you, would you give her a chance, thinking, "Well, maybe she can loose the weight. I'll give it a shot."?

I'd give her a chance once she's down to 150.

 

I'll even give her some dieting and work out tips to help her along the way.

Don't think I've ever equated height to weight in men and women. I do equate women's preference for height to men's preference for a particular body shape or ass/breast size though. I equate weight to weight.

Equating height to weight is very common.

That being said, attraction is rarely logical. People who aren't attracted to short men (or flat-chested women) can't just tell themselves "They were born that way, so I should be attracted to them anyway for fairness' sake." Not the way the world and human instinct works. Sorry.

I know it's not logical.

 

But the obsession that some women have in regards to men's height boarders on insane. One woman just said she resents an ex boyfriend for being short. WTF?!

 

What's completely off the wall is that a man and a woman could meet online. Talk and fall for each other, they've seen full body pictures of each other, skyped etc. Then the meet in person and she realizes that he is the same height as her and all attraction she felt for him could disappear in an instant. That's how stupid rejecting a guy based on his height is.

[ThaWholigan]

Detecting high levels of butthurt here - needs a shot of "stop giving a f_ck" juice.

 

Stop taking these statements seriously, you wouldn't court these condescending comments if you yourself didn't dish them out everytime someone says anything you perceive to be remotely hurtful about short men. Nobody cares except you.

[somedude81]

Detecting high levels of butthurt here - needs a shot of "stop giving a f_ck" juice.

Aka pussy juice.

 

And I agree with you.

Stop taking these statements seriously, you wouldn't court these condescending comments if you yourself didn't dish them out everytime someone says anything you perceive to be remotely hurtful about short men. Nobody cares except you.

If they didn't care, they wouldn't say condescending things about short men.

 

I'm tired about hearing women talk about how tall men are God's gift to women everywhere and how a tall guy lights her panties on fire just because he's tall. Of course he didn't do anything at all to become tall.

 

Fu*king retarded.

[ThaWholigan]

You just torched his ass.

 

Its harsh but deserved. I'm saying it to help him, otherwise the next time anyone makes a short man comment or thread he's gonna be getting all insecure and making snarky comments - then he's gonna get some back, including ones about his aesthetic dislike of fat girls, then he gets upset and makes these threads - once again marinading on his shortness and enabling the other short strugglers and the token tall guy to come in and continue the sequence.

 

Its old .

[ThaWholigan]

Aka pussy juice.

 

And I agree with you.

 

Pussy is not an ingredient in SGAF juice. That's a different juice altogether. You only get that juice if you can handle SGAF juice first.

 

If they didn't care, they wouldn't say condescending things about short men.

 

I'm tired about hearing women talk about how tall men are God's gift to women everywhere and how a tall guy lights her panties on fire just because he's tall. Of course he didn't do anything at all to become tall.

 

Fu*king retarded.

 

More butthurt. This is why people feel less sorry for you. Let it go - so what if he's tall? I'm f-cking tall, you think pussy gets thrown at me every day? It doesn't work like that. I don't take these statements seriously. Just like when women say they don't want a man who lives with mummy, I don't care! Or if a woman says she can never date an autistic man - will I shed a tear?

 

You have to get over yourself. Women like tall dudes. Soon you will run into some women who like short dudes too. But if you keep on with how you are, you won't get them either. Sort it out and stop playing the victim.

[Badsingularity]

I'm medium height and fat.

 

Does that make me equivalent to a shorter guy that's not fat?

[mesmerized]

Aka pussy juice.

 

And I agree with you.

 

If they didn't care, they wouldn't say condescending things about short men.

 

I'm tired about hearing women talk about how tall men are God's gift to women everywhere and how a tall guy lights her panties on fire just because he's tall. Of course he didn't do anything at all to become tall.

 

Fu*king retarded.

 

Man, you are really dense and that's exactly why you don't get any girl.

 

Doesn't a woman with big boobs get you hard just because she has big boobs?? Is there anything wrong with that?

 

Seriously, get over yourself already.

[TheBigQuestion]

Aka pussy juice.

 

And I agree with you.

 

If they didn't care, they wouldn't say condescending things about short men.

 

I'm tired about hearing women talk about how tall men are God's gift to women everywhere and how a tall guy lights her panties on fire just because he's tall. Of course he didn't do anything at all to become tall.

 

Fu*king retarded.

 

Tall men are NOT God's gift to women everywhere (that title was bestowed upon yours truly a while back). It's just ONE trait, and one you can live without and is not required to get women's attention.

[Badsingularity]

SGAF juice.

 

I tried some SGAF juice (lol) once a long time ago.

 

Never could put it back down. I'm hooked.

[ThaWholigan]

I tried some SGAF juice (lol) once a long time ago.

 

Never could put it back down. I'm hooked.

I'm getting used to the taste. Its got a strong kick - can feel it in the chest . Never been much of a drinker .

[SJC2008]

I'm 5'10", taller than most women by at least a few inches, hasn't seemed to help me out...

[PJKino]

Thats why i stick to escorts

 

At least i know a womens settling for me instead of a running lie in a relationship

 

I dont want a women to tolerate me physically because shes panicking that her bioligical clocks ticking which is what the last short guy thread was alluding too

 

No thanks

[William]

Why was the other thread by star taken away?

 

We're all adults here and outside of threats we should be able to have a grown up conversations without inteference. My god

Mainly because moderation deleted over 35 off-topic posts largely due to repeated reports by the thread starter. Now, with three members from that thread on vacation, let's not have a repeat performance here. Frankly, if you think that name-calling fests are 'adult conversations', you've got a lot of growing up to do. It won't be around here. Take that as fact. Now, continue this discussion within our guidelines as adults or get lost.

[suladas]

Aka pussy juice.

 

And I agree with you.

 

If they didn't care, they wouldn't say condescending things about short men.

 

I'm tired about hearing women talk about how tall men are God's gift to women everywhere and how a tall guy lights her panties on fire just because he's tall. Of course he didn't do anything at all to become tall.

 

Fu*king retarded.

 

So you hate tall guys for being born tall? Don't hate the player, hate the game

 

Seriously why worry about things out of your control? It just doesn't make sense.

[johan]

It's critical we get this figured out.

[Lonely Ronin]

Seriously why worry about things out of your control? It just doesn't make sense.

 

Some guys that fail when it comes to dating that happen to be short, need to have something or someone to blame their failure on. Taking ownership of the fact that they fail because of circumstances that they created, and could fix if they really wanted to is too much for them to bare.

[suladas]

It's critical we get this figured out.

 

I'm working on the math and short guy in no way is =, <, or > overweight women.

[PJKino]

Some guys that fail when it comes to dating that happen to be short, need to have something or someone to blame their failure on. Taking ownership of the fact that they fail because of circumstances that they created, and could fix if they really wanted to is too much for them to bare.

 

No we just see how important height is too women by what they say on here and other sites

 

Theres a few who will settle for a short guy when their bioligical clocks ticking and their desperate for a family

[somedude81]

Pussy is not an ingredient in SGAF juice. That's a different juice altogether. You only get that juice if you can handle SGAF juice first.

Of course getting a sample of the other stuff can absolutely change everything.

 

More butthurt. This is why people feel less sorry for you. Let it go - so what if he's tall? I'm f-cking tall, you think pussy gets thrown at me every day? It doesn't work like that. I don't take these statements seriously. Just like when women say they don't want a man who lives with mummy, I don't care! Or if a woman says she can never date an autistic man - will I shed a tear?

You've definitely gotten a hell of a lot more offers than I have.

 

If you were short, would you have done as well?

Doesn't a woman with big boobs get you hard just because she has big boobs??

Absolutely.

 

Is there anything wrong with that?

 

Seriously, get over yourself already.

But I don't need a girl to have big boobs to make me horny.

 

That's the difference.

 

I would never reject a girl because she was flat chested. Yes I would be disappointed at first but I know I'd get over it.

 

Even though large breasts are in instant turn me on, there are so many other things about women that I enjoy.

 

Also the vast majority of women are at least a B cup so it would be a rare occurrence to meet a girl and feel that her breasts are too small for me.

Tall men are NOT God's gift to women everywhere (that title was bestowed upon yours truly a while back). It's just ONE trait, and one you can live without and is not required to get women's attention.

It's one trait that is a huge bonus. It's also a trait that the man did nothing to earn. God was feeling generous.

I'm 5'10", taller than most women by at least a few inches, hasn't seemed to help me out...

Then you must be doing something to actively turn women off.

 

Being tall is already easy mode.

 

If I was 5'10, right now I'd either be married or having a few girlfriends.

 

I'm basically at the point that I know if I were physically attractive to women, I would have no trouble at all. Basically my game is good enough to get me women if I was an average guy. Since I'm below average thanks to my height, I have to much better game to make up for my shortcoming.

So you hate tall guys for being born tall? Don't hate the player, hate the game

 

Seriously why worry about things out of your control? It just doesn't make sense.

I have no hate for tall men.

 

Just acknowledging that they have it easier.

 

A guy who is tall and good looking, just has to not screw things up to get women. She's already impressed.

 

Short guys have to impress the girls and convince her that she should give him a chance. That's at least one thing they have in common with overweight women.

[amaysngrace]

I'm working on the math and short guy in no way is =, <, or > overweight women.

 

Short guy with bad breath and back hair maybe is = right?