Holly. Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 So I went on a date with this guy I ment on a site the date was awful to say the least we kissed etc at the end god knows why, anyway the next day he told me we wasn't right for each other I wanted to give it another go. Anyway I accepted it moved on and ever since he's been blowing hot and cold he will text me or message me on the site on and off and when I think I'm getting somewhere he will ignore me suddenly or back off it's really frustrating I'm dating another guy at the moment so he knows, just don't understand his games at all why say you're not interested then pop up now and again can anyone relate or give me some insight into this mind f*** Link to post Share on other sites
crossingbridges Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 He clearly doesn't like you that much to pursue anything special. His ego wants to keep messaging you and get positive feedback to confirm to himself that you still want him and he is worth something. As soon as he "gets" you, he is off again. It's horrible but just natural i guess, best would be to stop answering him. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
thecrucible Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 If it was me, I'd take him at his first word. I just wouldn't believe he would take me seriously after saying that. You could tell him you are only interested in talking with guys who are mature and serious about dating on the site...or you could ignore him next time he messages you. I think it can happen that guys can come back to you when they are recycling their options but not necessarily because they're interested. That's happened with a few friends of mine. Their exes came back when they were single but it was only because they were a known quantity and they thought my friends would more likely give them a green light for some fun. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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