jerrygordon3 Posted September 14, 2017 Posted September 14, 2017 The girl I've been dating for two months keeps saying she doesn't want to commit and wants to see other people even though we spend tons of time together. Like 4 days Straight and then I'll leave and say she thinks she wants to see other people ( with no prompting on my end). So last time sh did it 5 days ago she's been screaming at me when she calls and sobbing and then telling me she hates me then saying she hates me. Just hours of phone conversations and then today she texted me when she knew I was in class 100 times. She said I want to be with you okay!!!! And wants to meet up and talk things out. I said I wanted space all week and she hasn't give me any. Should I meet w her tonight and work things out?
Cersei Posted September 14, 2017 Posted September 14, 2017 She sounds unstable and full if drama. Run! 1
Mkn1010 Posted September 14, 2017 Posted September 14, 2017 Is she like 15 or something? This is terrible. Hopefully, the girl gets herself some help :/
coolheadal Posted September 14, 2017 Posted September 14, 2017 The girl I've been dating for two months keeps saying she doesn't want to commit and wants to see other people even though we spend tons of time together. Like 4 days Straight and then I'll leave and say she thinks she wants to see other people ( with no prompting on my end). So last time sh did it 5 days ago she's been screaming at me when she calls and sobbing and then telling me she hates me then saying she hates me. Just hours of phone conversations and then today she texted me when she knew I was in class 100 times. She said I want to be with you okay!!!! And wants to meet up and talk things out. I said I wanted space all week and she hasn't give me any. Should I meet w her tonight and work things out? Nut job she is! Listen you can do anything you want with her we can only say best to forget her! What's between her legs is seeing more action than hunting down ducks in a lake of water. I wouldn't even touch a woman like her. STDs or some thing else. You shouldn't even have the dam cell phone turned on for her text bombing you. No you shouldn't meet her. She told you what she was doing, you do not need a woman like that okay. If you do then you have an issue. Don't you see why would you want to date active sexual woman like her when your not getting anything from her at all except for please I want to talk to you, I want to meet up with you etc.. I want to date more guys than you. Etc.. I rest my case!
The Urbanyst Posted September 14, 2017 Posted September 14, 2017 Life is too short to waste on people like her lol. Hit the eject button. 1
CoolJoe Posted September 14, 2017 Posted September 14, 2017 The girl I've been dating for two months keeps saying she doesn't want to commit and wants to see other people even though we spend tons of time together. Like 4 days Straight and then I'll leave and say she thinks she wants to see other people ( with no prompting on my end). So last time sh did it 5 days ago she's been screaming at me when she calls and sobbing and then telling me she hates me then saying she hates me. Just hours of phone conversations and then today she texted me when she knew I was in class 100 times. She said I want to be with you okay!!!! And wants to meet up and talk things out. I said I wanted space all week and she hasn't give me any. Should I meet w her tonight and work things out? Don't mean to armchair diagnose but it reeks of BPD. Google it. Dated a girl who had BPD. It didn't last long. RUN. 1
uncorked Posted September 14, 2017 Posted September 14, 2017 Yep, sounds like Borderline Personality Disorder. My stepdaughter has it. I love you, I hate you. Get the f**k outta there unless you'd enjoy meeting your maker at the pointy end of a sharp knife. These Dateline stories are for real! 1
BaileyB Posted September 14, 2017 Posted September 14, 2017 Is this the same woman that you have had an on again/off again relationship with - and you recently got back together? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/631486-dating-exes-2.html The same woman who has a habit of being very affectionate and then verbally abusive toward you? If so, my advice is the same... this woman is emotionally unstable and the relationship is very unhealthy.
smackie9 Posted September 14, 2017 Posted September 14, 2017 Ya like that episode of Two and a Half men, when Allan Harper sleeps with a chick that turns on him after sex, comes back the next night to apologize, ends up having sex again and walks out in a flippin rage. 1
preraph Posted September 14, 2017 Posted September 14, 2017 Good grief, get out while you can. She's crazy and stalkery and will be harder to get rid of the longer you wait because she will be more invested. 3
act00 Posted September 15, 2017 Posted September 15, 2017 There really isn't any question here. This relationship is done. It's time to do the official split, and for real. I don't usually block because most people are mature and sane, but in her case, you're going to have to block and delete, and if she knows where you live, do not answer the door and be fully prepared to call the police and file a retraining order. Hopefully it doesn't escalate like that. Her behavior is pure drama and crazy-making. End it. 1
Blanco Posted September 15, 2017 Posted September 15, 2017 You sure know how to pick them, OP. Maybe it's time to re-evaluate why these high-stress, dramatic folks seem to come through your life so often.
BaileyB Posted September 15, 2017 Posted September 15, 2017 You sure know how to pick them, OP. Maybe it's time to re-evaluate why these high-stress, dramatic folks seem to come through your life so often. Actually, I think you need to X amine why you keep them around for so long... When most others would have sent them packing early on...
basil67 Posted September 15, 2017 Posted September 15, 2017 Jerry, I want to know what part of you is even considering seeing her again. Just why?
hippychick3 Posted September 15, 2017 Posted September 15, 2017 Some men really love crazies don't they. Exactly. Why is this even a question?
carhill Posted September 15, 2017 Posted September 15, 2017 Yeah, there are some interesting ones out there. Met one like that a few decades ago during the 'telephone personals' era. We dated, eloped, had kids, got divorced all within one tempestuous phone call lasting most of one Saturday night. What was I thinking? Anyway, if it doesn't flow, let it go.
guest569 Posted September 15, 2017 Posted September 15, 2017 Bit inappropriate. No boundaries and way too much time on her hands.
mikeylo Posted September 15, 2017 Posted September 15, 2017 LMAO. I know some people who send whatsapp messages with one or two words per message.And the entire sentence is done in about 10 messages. So if she has practically send 200 messages, it might be actually 4 or 5 sentneces
ExpatInItaly Posted September 15, 2017 Posted September 15, 2017 What's up with you that are even considering this?
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