Prostitutes...

we have gotten way off topic...this was about prostitutes...how did it turn into a bunch of prudes attacking my life choices...I lead a happy life...if you do not like it...keep it to yourself...

Can you read...I think I said "a loving and secure" relationship...sex is not love...it is certainly better with love in the mix...but it can be fantastic without...

 

haven't you ever had a one night stand that you are still thinking about today that gets you all moist and bothered?

If you are happy having an open relationship great. It works for you. However it would not work for many people. Love and sex might not have to go together however if I am in love with someone and they are in love with me I better be the only person they have sex with.

Have I ever had a one night stand yeah a long long time ago....... do I think about it today and ger moist and bothered........ nope not at all. If anything I get angry that I let myself sleep with that person.

these things are about sexual choices, fantasy and perversions or mutual relationship options. THEY ARE NOT WHAT SETS A HOUSE IN ORDER.

your perversions don't have to be someone elses for them to have a satisfied R and home.

If you consider "perversion" frequent sex, bj's that include significant attention to the "boys" as well as the obvious subject, her friends joining in a couple of times a month, light spanking, a swing mounted from my bedroom ceiling that has a hole in it where my SO is seated and can spin down upon my manhood providing an experience that any man and woman should enjoy before they die, her dressing as a nurse and applying baby oil to my naught bits and massaging my sore spot until completion, her dressing in a catholic schoolgirl outfit and allowing me to paddle her fanny until pink while dressed as the pope, tying each other to bed a couple of times a month, wearing masks during sex, pretending one of us is one of our friends were attracted to, etc. then yes, I'm a pervert.

Some people here are so uptight. Jeezz

Did that loosen up you sphincters?

I know of people who would go out in a group after office hours and bang some escorts for recreation. To them it's just an emotionless transaction which does nothing to hurt their marriage. Most of these people have families and kids to consider.

Their rationale is simple.. so long as it doesn't involve any emotions, it wouldn't be considered cheating. Cheating is like having a mistress, and having the need to spend time with her all the time behind the wife's back.

I must say I'm pretty impressed with how they compartmentalize the whole deal, because they are just as loving of their wives and families, despite their clandestine activities. It's probably called stress relief. Like, you're letting off pressure every now and then so it doesn't build up enough to rock the marriage.

What I don't get is that, even if they use latex, they're basically that close from trouble. But, well, if it works for them, who is to judge them eh?

we have gotten way off topic...this was about prostitutes...how did it turn into a bunch of prudes attacking my life choices...I lead a happy life...if you do not like it...keep it to yourself...

lol, you are so on the offense! It just sounds like the most important thing in your life is money.. you made quite an effort to showcase your riches is all. I've heard more about your money than about your husband!

I know of people who would go out in a group after office hours and bang some escorts for recreation. To them it's just an emotionless transaction which does nothing to hurt their marriage. Most of these people have families and kids to consider.

 

Their rationale is simple.. so long as it doesn't involve any emotions, it wouldn't be considered cheating. Cheating is like having a mistress, and having the need to spend time with her all the time behind the wife's back.

 

I must say I'm pretty impressed with how they compartmentalize the whole deal, because they are just as loving of their wives and families, despite their clandestine activities. It's probably called stress relief. Like, you're letting off pressure every now and then so it doesn't build up enough to rock the marriage.

 

What I don't get is that, even if they use latex, they're basically that close from trouble. But, well, if it works for them, who is to judge them eh?

It's not really cheating if there's no emotion involved, it's kind of like masturbation with the prostitutes genitalia serving as the hand.

If you're a single man or a married man who is married to some nag who's a born again virgin and refuses to have sex with you under any circumstances, and you know you'll never shag her again, I can't see the problem; just be discreet.

But if you're otherwise in a permanent or even an indefinite relationship, I would hold off on the rental sex. The likelihood of HIV is pretty low, but there's a slight risk of catching bacterial diseases like siffy and the clap...and there is a fairly high risk of going herpal - and herpes is something you never, ever, ever, ever get rid of. I don't think anyone you're with is going to appreciate the gift that keeps on giving. So just keep this in mind.

It's not really cheating if there's no emotion involved, it's kind of like masturbation with the prostitutes genitalia serving as the hand.

Are you serious>? Wow I never realized how lucky I am to have a guy who doesn't think this way.....

Are you serious>? Wow I never realized how lucky I am to have a guy who doesn't think this way.....

Most men fantasize about raunchy, cheap sex once in a while. It's another thing to actually step into the underworld and actually do it, but the thought crosses a man's mind.

Most men fantasize about raunchy, cheap sex once in a while. It's another thing to actually step into the underworld and actually do it, but the thought crosses a man's mind.

As much as I hate it I am sure they all think about it. However for someone to say its not cheating because their is no emotion involved. That is crazy in my opinon.

Most men fantasize about raunchy, cheap sex once in a while. It's another thing to actually step into the underworld and actually do it...

actually AMERIKAJIN....many men have "stepped" into that "underworld" in the past and many will continue to do so. Some studies have shown that up to 50% of men worldwide have visited prostitutes at least once in their life.

This seems like a place that I can share and not be judged

she's so afraid to experiment with me. Its not like I'm asking for farm animals

The problem is that I don't feel guilty. I know I should but I just don't because I'm finally happy again. Am I crazy?

actually AMERIKAJIN....many men have "stepped" into that "underworld" in the past and many will continue to do so. Some studies have shown that up to 50% of men worldwide have visited prostitutes at least once in their life.

Provided they're 18 and older, it's perfectly legal to have sex with a prostitute in Japan. In fact I used to live down the street from several brothels. Believe me, the thought crossed my mind but I just couldn't get the fear of going herpal or catching some other disease out of my mind. And I guess I just haven't reached the point in my life where I'm quite ready to throw down that much money for sex, but when you think about it, you end up paying for it in the end; I guess I still seek a bit of a thrill from the chase.

Break up and find yourself a girl who will contain the "whore" inside her. This woman is not for you. She has brought the worst in you: made you a liar, a cheater, and a prostitute addict. Not to mention the money you waste...

And I guess I just haven't reached the point in my life where I'm quite ready to throw down that much money for sex, but when you think about it, you end up paying for it in the end;

when the dust settles, all women are prostitutes in some form or another.

when the dust settles, all women are prostitutes in some form or another.

really how?

Are you serious>? Wow I never realized how lucky I am to have a guy who doesn't think this way.....

are you sure? we all have some sort of secret life? even if it is just posting here...

Provided they're 18 and older, it's perfectly legal to have sex with a prostitute in Japan. In fact I used to live down the street from several brothels. Believe me, the thought crossed my mind but I just couldn't get the fear of going herpal or catching some other disease out of my mind. And I guess I just haven't reached the point in my life where I'm quite ready to throw down that much money for sex, but when you think about it, you end up paying for it in the end; I guess I still seek a bit of a thrill from the chase.

actually it is legal in one form or another in most of the world except in our puritanical nation...

http://www.sexwork.com/coalition/whatcountrieslegal.html

are you sure? we all have some sort of secret life? even if it is just posting here...

There is a big difference between posting here and sneaking around behind our partners back sleeping with other people......

actually it is legal in one form or another in most of the world except in our puritanical nation...

 

http://www.sexwork.com/coalition/whatcountrieslegal.html

my apologies..."our nation" refers to the US, I realized after I posted that this site has a worldwide audience..

when the dust settles, all women are prostitutes in some form or another.

wouldn't it be all people since on one does something for nothing

if you can't be used you are useless

lol, you are so on the offense! It just sounds like the most important thing in your life is money.. you made quite an effort to showcase your riches is all. I've heard more about your money than about your husband!

Totally agree with you on that. I've heard her bleat on more about her financial status, apart from anything else.

I suppose you always get the kind of people who find it difficult to be humble and measure their happiness and success on material wealth.

I've come across many wealthy people like that in my lifetime, and their favourite line is the classic "Oh you are just jealous".

Break up and find yourself a girl who will contain the "whore" inside her. This woman is not for you. She has brought the worst in you: made you a liar, a cheater, and a prostitute addict. Not to mention the money you waste...

I agree. BTW OP, if this is okay as many are suggesting, then why don't you tell your W?

Some studies have shown that up to 50% of men worldwide have visited prostitutes at least once in their life.

Yikes!

BTW what happend to two people being exclusive? Or are prostitutes not real people?

when the dust settles, all women are prostitutes in some form or another.

What does that make men?