BoredPerson Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 Today was a very depressing day. I felt sad everytime I saw an attractive girl... the gym was the worst. They wear short shorts and tank tops... ugh.. How do you deal with being lonely ? The people on loveshack have been really mean but that doesn't matter because I know they have their own issues, so that hasn;'t contributed to me being sad at all... I feel so down............ Link to post Share on other sites
Meaplus3 Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 Today was a very depressing day. I felt sad everytime I saw an attractive girl... the gym was the worst. They wear short shorts and tank tops... ugh.. How do you deal with being lonely ? The people on loveshack have been really mean but that doesn't matter because I know they have their own issues, so that hasn;'t contributed to me being sad at all... I feel so down............ I'm sorry your feeling down. Now, why does seeing an attractive girl at the gym make you feel that way? If there are people here that you feel are beign mean to you then you can put them on your ingnore list. Or if you feel they are violating the rules of ls, then report them to a mod. The mods here do a great job. Mea:) Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 Today was a very depressing day. I felt sad everytime I saw an attractive girl... the gym was the worst. They wear short shorts and tank tops... ugh.. How do you deal with being lonely ? The people on loveshack have been really mean but that doesn't matter because I know they have their own issues, so that hasn;'t contributed to me being sad at all... I feel so down............ Bored you basically called all women stupid how do think people are going to react to you? Look I'm sorry your lonely I know it sucks but maybe you should look past looks in order to find happiness your own and your potential future partners? To put it bluntly you want steak on a McDonald's budget no wonder your so sad! 90% of the world places looks very high on their agenda unless you get Lucky and find that one super model looking girl that likes guys for whats inside then your going to have work with in your range of women or be lonely simple. There are decent looking women who will date you I'm sure your not all that hideous looking? I think your prob is you want the elite women the ones even hot looking guys have a hard time getting and then holding onto I dunno what else to tell you... Link to post Share on other sites
Author BoredPerson Posted April 13, 2009 Author Share Posted April 13, 2009 I'm sorry your feeling down. Now, why does seeing an attractive girl at the gym make you feel that way? If there are people here that you feel are beign mean to you then you can put them on your ingnore list. Or if you feel they are violating the rules of ls, then report them to a mod. The mods here do a great job. Mea:) I don't care if they are mean, this is a discussion forum and they're entitled to their opinion. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BoredPerson Posted April 13, 2009 Author Share Posted April 13, 2009 Bored you basically called all women stupid how do think people are going to react to you? Look I'm sorry your lonely I know it sucks but maybe you should look past looks in order to find happiness your own and your potential future partners? To put it bluntly you want steak on a McDonald's budget no wonder your so sad! 90% of the world places looks very high on their agenda unless you get Lucky and find that one super model looking girl that likes guys for whats inside then your going to have work with in your range of women or be lonely simple. There are decent looking women who will date you I'm sure your not all that hideous looking? I think your prob is you want the elite women the ones even hot looking guys have a hard time getting and then holding onto I dunno what else to tell you... I don't want the elite looking women.. I don't even know what you call elite looking there are so many good looking young women that I guess they all can't be elite. I thought about dating an ugly girl but it wouldn't work because I am not attracted to her and it would only make me more sad. What am I going to do then ? When I am in a relationship with someone who is very unattractive that I wouldn't be able to have sex with because she is so unattractive.. I really wonder where are these 'normal looking' girls that are supposedly attractive but not a 'super model'. Anyone that is attractive seems to be completely unattainable. The only conclusion I can draw is that I must be at the bottom level of attractiveness otherwise one of these 'normal girls' would have gone out with me by now. Link to post Share on other sites
Meaplus3 Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 I don't care if they are mean, this is a discussion forum and they're entitled to their opinion. Ok. I was just trying to help. I must have miss read what your typed. My apologies. I'm sorry your feeling lonely. Perhaps taking up a hobby that you enjoy can guide you to meeting someone that is good for you. Best of luck. Mea:) Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 I don't want the elite looking women.. I don't even know what you call elite looking there are so many good looking young women that I guess they all can't be elite. I thought about dating an ugly girl but it wouldn't work because I am not attracted to her and it would only make me more sad. What am I going to do then ? When I am in a relationship with someone who is very unattractive that I wouldn't be able to have sex with because she is so unattractive.. I really wonder where are these 'normal looking' girls that are supposedly attractive but not a 'super model'. Anyone that is attractive seems to be completely unattainable. The only conclusion I can draw is that I must be at the bottom level of attractiveness otherwise one of these 'normal girls' would have gone out with me by now. I don't know what you think is ugly? looks can be hard to judge when I say elite I mean 6ft2 100 pounds soaking wet long hair basically a cheerleader/model type. I tell you what heres an idea you go on line and get a random pic of a women you think would be your ideal partner that way we can see what your after? I could have taken you the wrong way but it just seams your trying/yearning for women that you and 80% of other guys will never really have a relationship with. I don't mean an ugly girl of course not I know there would be no attraction and it wouldn't work. What I meant was a plain average girl next door kind of girl. One who doesn't think her **** doesn't stink one who's down to earth that doesn't always equate to a ugly girl you know just not one that would turn heads... Again please pick a pic it will be interesting matter of fact pic 2 one you think is ugly and one who would be your dream girlfriend I wont be mean I promise.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BoredPerson Posted April 13, 2009 Author Share Posted April 13, 2009 PICS TAKEN FROM HOT OR NOT . COM Attractive. Attractive. NOT ATTRACTIVE HOTTTTT !!! Taken from the first 4 pics that came up. Link to post Share on other sites
MeaganRaye Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 PICS TAKEN FROM HOT OR NOT . COM Attractive. Attractive. NOT ATTRACTIVE HOTTTTT !!! Taken from the first 4 pics that came up. The girl who you labeled not attractive wasn't that bad. Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 Well, if anyone is wondering who the people on LS who were 'really mean' were, I am one of them. If anyone is wondering why, do peruse these threads: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t184926/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t184301/ Especially the parts about women being stupid, being created only to pick berries, only know how to do what they're told, are 'harpies'.. oh, and how they deserve to be raped. Link to post Share on other sites
Timmers Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Well BoredPerson, jesus... I haven't read many of your posts but from an outside person looking in, you sound mean, whiney, and very "fu** the world i'm lonely and it's everyone's fault but mine". Listen, you complain about being ugly and large... Why not do something about it? Keeping in shape can make a person 10x more attractive. As can making an effort when you dress, with your personal hygiene, and smelling good. You can also get lasik/contacts if you wear glasses and/or get your teeth whitened. The important thing to remember is: - People (that includes hot girls) like POSITIVE people. Reading your posts, they were full of negativity and hate and "oh woe is me"s. This is VERY UNATTRACTIVE and it only adds to your ugliness. - You need to start MAKING AN EFFORT to parts of your life if you want to get a girl and get laid. That means dressing well. No sweatpants everywhere. Clean yourself up. - Hot girls don't only hook up with hot guys. They like guys who make 'em laugh, who make them feel good, and who they can have fun with. It's the 2nd time today but seriously check out http://getagirlfriendtoday.com/ and sign up for a free account. I think you'll learn a lot about women from that site. Link to post Share on other sites
mr.dream merchant Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Call me shallow but all those shorties looked busted. These are the women you let get you down? Lol....these women should feel privileged that you want to dick them down. Real ****.. Link to post Share on other sites
Virgo1982 Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Call me shallow but all those shorties looked busted. These are the women you let get you down? Lol....these women should feel privileged that you want to dick them down. Real ****.. I found it odd that he thought #3 was unattractive, but found #1 attractive. Things that make you go hmm... Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 I don't want to look at any of those photos now. LOL Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 PICS TAKEN FROM HOT OR NOT . COM Attractive. Attractive. NOT ATTRACTIVE HOTTTTT !!! Taken from the first 4 pics that came up. #1 is cute I use to have a good friend that looked just like her sweet girl. The one you found unattractive was the most mature looking which depending on your age isn't surprising if I remember right your in ya 20s right?. Any who looking at these pics I take back what I was thinking your not after the elite women so there forth it must be something else honestly bored you cant look that bad? If you want advice on this further I'll need to see a pic of you now I know its a stretch and allot to ask but really it will help here. Again I'll be nice I promise! theres no point in attacking you further I think your a pretty unhappy person as it is and I think thats were most of your poor attitude is coming from. Id honestly like to help you if I can no one deserves to be alone if they don't choose to.. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 I'm sorry BoredP, but I don't think it's girls that are your problem. Maybe you're just socially inept? Most of the girls you mentioned and pictured are actually quite attainable by dating standards. You need to have more confidence in yourself and your appearance. Blaming women for your dating problems only exacerbates your problem. Link to post Share on other sites
BobSacamento Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 1. How many dates do you go on in a month? 2. How many girls do you ask out a month? Link to post Share on other sites
Author BoredPerson Posted April 14, 2009 Author Share Posted April 14, 2009 The first one is probably the least attractive of the attractive ones it must have been dark or something when I chose her pic but she isn't ugly or anything and she might be the type of girl I'd want to date. Link to post Share on other sites
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Failblog.org That is always good for an awesome laugh!!! The thing about being lonely is you need to understand how to sit by yourself comfortable in your own skin. Being lonely does sucks but that's what friends are for. Or hobbies to pass the time. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 The thing about being lonely is you need to understand how to sit by yourself comfortable in your own skin. Being lonely does sucks but that's what friends are for. Or hobbies to pass the time. So very true. Link to post Share on other sites
Isolde Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 The only way to get over loneliness is to accept that it's part of being human. You can be in a relationship or married and still have many lonely days and hours. On a different level, though, you're only as lonely as you make yourself out to be. Surrounding yourself with a few good people is infinitely better than having an entourage of bad friends. The same thing goes for dating--become pickier about girls' personalities when choosing people to date and you may find yourself becoming less jaded after some time. Honestly, with your attitude, I find it difficult to know what to say. Putting yourself in a victim role does nothing to extricate yourself from the trap of loneliness. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BoredPerson Posted April 14, 2009 Author Share Posted April 14, 2009 The only way to get over loneliness is to accept that it's part of being human. You can be in a relationship or married and still have many lonely days and hours. On a different level, though, you're only as lonely as you make yourself out to be. Surrounding yourself with a few good people is infinitely better than having an entourage of bad friends. The same thing goes for dating--become pickier about girls' personalities when choosing people to date and you may find yourself becoming less jaded after some time. Honestly, with your attitude, I find it difficult to know what to say. Putting yourself in a victim role does nothing to extricate yourself from the trap of loneliness. I don't think there is any great mystery to it that I am a bad person. No girl is going to want to date me when there are better looking, more successful men who do not have the same mean streak. Even if they are not strictly more successful the girls will see what they do in a positive light. I mean I still don't even know what I want to be when I grow up. Those pictures I posted. I'm changing my mind. The first and third are not attractive, the second is attractive as is the fourth. How can I be pickier ? I can't get ANY girlfriend at all. I'm not dating fat girl... I'm just not attracted to them and it would't work it'd be very hurtful to her. Causing her to eat more chocate and get even fatter. Women are the ones who are supposed to learn to love someone despite their looks. Not men. Heck I just spent 2 hours in the gym and you expect me to pick a fat girl because she has a nice personality... Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 I don't think there is any great mystery to it that I am a bad person. No girl is going to want to date me when there are better looking, more successful men who do not have the same mean streak. Even if they are not strictly more successful the girls will see what they do in a positive light. I mean I still don't even know what I want to be when I grow up. Those pictures I posted. I'm changing my mind. The first and third are not attractive, the second is attractive as is the fourth. How can I be pickier ? I can't get ANY girlfriend at all. I'm not dating fat girl... I'm just not attracted to them and it wouldn't work it'd be very hurtful to her. Causing her to eat more chocate and get even fatter. Women are the ones who are supposed to learn to love someone despite their looks. Not men. Heck I just spent 2 hours in the gym and you expect me to pick a fat girl because she has a nice personality... LMFAO... OK dude what ever you say have fun with Mr hand for the rest of your sad life then. You can now officially add me to the list of "meanies" on love shack... haahhaha!:lmao::lmao: OK I'm off I'm not going to waist any more time here I can see it was a waist when I can be looking at talking to potential partners see ya... Why don't you just find the most obnoxious nasty women you can I'm sure it would be a love match! LOL... Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 IWomen are the ones who are supposed to learn to love someone despite their looks. Not men. Ah so this explains the conundrum that I've been wondering about all the while! LOL Damn, I just love this guy's posts. Doubt a more entertaining person has ever graced LS with his presence before! Link to post Share on other sites
OverThinker Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Ok I am new and this is in no way meant to be mean but have you saught medical help. Your post couldn't give a better picture of Bipolar Disorder. No I am not a doctor but WOW. Anyway I think you need to sort out your own issues and be happy with yourself before any woman hot or ugly will want you (Speaking from my own experience). Dude the cave man days are long gone men have to dress to impress just as much as the women do, Unless you want the woman that doesn't care about her looks. Good luck, P.S. Lonllyness is the abscents of self love Link to post Share on other sites
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