Gdunkman Posted October 30, 2010 Share Posted October 30, 2010 That's what I found out today. My ex told me she has a new bf. I was very rude after she told me that, explained her what a slut she is, told her I regret I met her two years ago, that she won't be happy with the new guy as she can't love anyone and that karma will show her that **** she does to other people will turn back and fill her life. I ended up our conversation with f*** off, it was her who called me. The guy is just average, I saw him once while we were breaking up with her. That time my ex actually liked the other guy, and this one was always described as just a friend. It looks like she took just any guy without choosing much. I feel a lot of pain now, but at least I can't have any other bad news from here... well... if she becomes pregnant or gets married I will be shocked as well What a bitch. Link to post Share on other sites
Oscar Wilde Posted October 30, 2010 Share Posted October 30, 2010 Dear Gdunkman, It's a rebound, and for sure after few months she won't be happy. Now it's time to heal, go strict NC. I hope you will find another women, one that is gonna love u so much! Take it easy man! Oscar Wilde Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gdunkman Posted October 30, 2010 Author Share Posted October 30, 2010 Thank you Oscar! Rebounds are her destiny, she is never alone. That's how it was for her: Nov 2008 - dumped her bf, went to the guy of her dreams since childhood Feb 2009 - guy of her dreams dumped her, she started dating with me July 2010 - dumped me, met the current bf Link to post Share on other sites
Oscar Wilde Posted October 30, 2010 Share Posted October 30, 2010 (edited) Hi again Gdunkman! Emotional immature people tends to rebound a lot, and as you might have noted they go passionate and they tell you that you're the guy of their lives, always the same speech. It seems to be a pretty common behavior for several people. My ex is unable to be alone, she dumped her ex and one month later began to date me, we broke up two months ago but I expect that she will not stay alone. Bests regards! Oscar Wilde Edited October 30, 2010 by Oscar Wilde Link to post Share on other sites
swfc_77 Posted October 31, 2010 Share Posted October 31, 2010 another story just like mine. 2006 - engaged to some loser for 2 years 2008 - after splitting up and sleeping around gets with me april 2010 - splits up with me and gets with some kid july 2010 - after he treats her like ****, hits her, being obsessive. she dumps him (so she said) and comes back to me, i take her back and deal with the shi.t in my head. sept 2010 - says she wants to be single and free (though i never held her back from anything) we split again, not heard from her in ages. do me a favour mate - fu..ck her off - dont give her the time of day - plenty more fish in sea. chin up son Link to post Share on other sites
Username37 Posted October 31, 2010 Share Posted October 31, 2010 (edited) What a bitch man. Let this be help into moving on. We like WOMEN not bitches. Feel bad for the new guy. Edited October 31, 2010 by Username37 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gdunkman Posted October 31, 2010 Author Share Posted October 31, 2010 Thank you guys for your support. It really makes me feel better. The thing that bothers me now is why is she degrading? The guy before me was MTV Russia VJ. Then me, a great guy, but not a star with many girl fans, at least not yet Now this guy who seems to be mediocre for me. I can't imagine a girl who can describe him as hot, I can send you his photo if you wish. Could you please give me some examples when good, talented, famous people were dumped just to be with some scum? It will be very helpful for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gdunkman Posted October 31, 2010 Author Share Posted October 31, 2010 Are you ready for some more news, friends? Take some popcorn, we are going to have a little show here. I just chatted with her friend, they had a quarrel about two months ago, so she is not her friend anymore, and what she just told me sounds like the truth. So my ex lives with this guy since our break up, and she has been constantly lying to me, that he is her friend, that she is happy being alone and doesn't need anyone. Our phone conversation from the middle of September: - What about A, you told me you are interested in him? - What are you talking about? He is a friend, I never saw him one on one, we always meet in a group of friends. At that time she lived with him for about six weeks. Link to post Share on other sites
WTRanger Posted October 31, 2010 Share Posted October 31, 2010 Thank you guys for your support. It really makes me feel better. The thing that bothers me now is why is she degrading? The guy before me was MTV Russia VJ. Then me, a great guy, but not a star with many girl fans, at least not yet Now this guy who seems to be mediocre for me. I can't imagine a girl who can describe him as hot, I can send you his photo if you wish. Could you please give me some examples when good, talented, famous people were dumped just to be with some scum? It will be very helpful for me. Are you familiar with Jesse James (the US motorcycle builder) and his marriage with Sandra Bullock (US actress)? Jesse cheated on Sandra, who is one of the classiest looking people on this planet, with some skizzy tattooed up broad with fake melons. The point is, sometimes attraction is unknown. Usually when it's like that it is more of the pure animal style sexual attraction that wears off in 3-4 months. It never lasts for the long haul. Also, some girls dig scumbags just as men chase stuck up bitches. Maybe we like the thrill, maybe we thing we can "change" them for the better. Link to post Share on other sites
Leandro Posted October 31, 2010 Share Posted October 31, 2010 Are you familiar with Jesse James (the US motorcycle builder) and his marriage with Sandra Bullock (US actress)? Jesse cheated on Sandra, who is one of the classiest looking people on this planet, with some skizzy tattooed up broad with fake melons. The point is, sometimes attraction is unknown. Usually when it's like that it is more of the pure animal style sexual attraction that wears off in 3-4 months. It never lasts for the long haul. Also, some girls dig scumbags just as men chase stuck up bitches. Maybe we like the thrill, maybe we thing we can "change" them for the better. We had a topic like that in my philosophy class. The teacher asked the girls why they like being with scumbags. Most of them said that it felt like a challenge and that they though they could "fix" them up. He also said that since these is happening in today's life, many of the nice guys are becoming scumbags to attract more women. Link to post Share on other sites
Ajax Posted October 31, 2010 Share Posted October 31, 2010 We had a topic like that in my philosophy class. The teacher asked the girls why they like being with scumbags. Most of them said that it felt like a challenge and that they though they could "fix" them up. He also said that since these is happening in today's life, many of the nice guys are becoming scumbags to attract more women. I may be a bit niave, but I like to think that those of us decent guys who stick to our guns will be better off in the long run. I've seen guys I know go from being the "nice guy" to being the aforementioned scumbag to try to attract more women. I can't say that I haven't thought about it myself either, especially after having my heart broken by girls only to have them date a complete jerk or loser after me. But I like who I am and would rather stay true to myself. Hopefully someone at some point will appreciate that. Link to post Share on other sites
Leandro Posted October 31, 2010 Share Posted October 31, 2010 Yea, I'm not going to change just to attract more women. I like being a nice guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gdunkman Posted November 1, 2010 Author Share Posted November 1, 2010 Now I understand that she doesn't respect me, and lies me all the time, first of all because she doesn't respect herself. A girl who has some self-respect won't start to live with someone after 2 or 3 weeks after they met. It's painful to realize that you wasted so much time for a slut. Link to post Share on other sites
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