Sam_I_Am Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t219238/ He is still around....not in the physical sense, but texts me telling me he misses me.... why??? I am not a fallback girl. Why does he keep dangling that carrot? No, I am not waiting for him, I just haven't found anyone that I want more with. (I have no time with fulltime work and fulltime school and being a fulltime single parent) This is just so frustrating. The last time I saw him was in July. I hung out, screwed him, left a long "goodbye" type letter, left his house and never looked back. Well, I take that part back. I drove by his house to make sure he was really gone when he moved, and then I never looked back. Then come the texts... Could someone please tell me why a man would continue to contact a former FWB (or whatever we were) just to tell them that they miss you and stuff, if he is back with and living with the so-called love of his life? I thought I was past all this..... Happy Thanksgiving, by the way. Link to post Share on other sites
sugarmomma Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 It is over if you want it to be. He is just being a typical man trying to see if the door is still cracked. Its up to you to slam that door shut. You can ignore him and not make his half hearted attempts at contact mean more than they really are. Nothing. Your choice. You win or lose by what you chose. Link to post Share on other sites
shoelove Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 Sugarmomma, very good advice. And I love your signature line. It's especially powerful for me right now. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
JustWannaStop Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t219238/ He is still around....not in the physical sense, but texts me telling me he misses me.... why??? I am not a fallback girl. Why does he keep dangling that carrot? No, I am not waiting for him, I just haven't found anyone that I want more with. (I have no time with fulltime work and fulltime school and being a fulltime single parent) This is just so frustrating. The last time I saw him was in July. I hung out, screwed him, left a long "goodbye" type letter, left his house and never looked back. Well, I take that part back. I drove by his house to make sure he was really gone when he moved, and then I never looked back. Then come the texts... Could someone please tell me why a man would continue to contact a former FWB (or whatever we were) just to tell them that they miss you and stuff, if he is back with and living with the so-called love of his life? I thought I was past all this..... Happy Thanksgiving, by the way. My MM did that. We hooked up again a few months ago even though he is very happy with his wife and never wants to leave her and has a great marriage :/ But he said he really missed me. Why do they do this? Cuz they're aholes. That's all I can think of. If someone is with the love of their life they shouldn't want anyone else. I wouldn't. I don't get it. Love your picture btw! Are you a Tool fan? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sam_I_Am Posted November 26, 2010 Author Share Posted November 26, 2010 My MM did that. We hooked up again a few months ago even though he is very happy with his wife and never wants to leave her and has a great marriage :/ But he said he really missed me. Why do they do this? Cuz they're aholes. That's all I can think of. If someone is with the love of their life they shouldn't want anyone else. I wouldn't. I don't get it. Love your picture btw! Are you a Tool fan? Yep, big Tool fan... Link to post Share on other sites
spice4life Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 What's a Tool fan? If you don't mind me asking. Link to post Share on other sites
JustWannaStop Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 Yep, big Tool fan... Omg me too! Lateralus is one of my favorites. Just saw Maynard with APC in Vegas last weekend. Sorry for the thread hijack and the off topic post but...it's Tool! Hang in there with the whole man thing. This dude isn't worth any grief. You deserve so much better. We all do. Link to post Share on other sites
JustWannaStop Posted November 26, 2010 Share Posted November 26, 2010 What's a Tool fan? If you don't mind me asking. Tool is a band. A very awesome band. Her avatar is from a particular album which also is very awesome. I recognized it and had to let her know I'm a fellow fanatic as well. Again sorry for the off topic post but I figured since she started the thread it would be OK to ask. I didn't mean to thread jack or anything. I'm a newbie here and am still learning lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sam_I_Am Posted December 9, 2010 Author Share Posted December 9, 2010 Tool is a band. A very awesome band. Her avatar is from a particular album which also is very awesome. I recognized it and had to let her know I'm a fellow fanatic as well. Again sorry for the off topic post but I figured since she started the thread it would be OK to ask. I didn't mean to thread jack or anything. I'm a newbie here and am still learning lol I don't care....like you said, it's Tool! Link to post Share on other sites
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