EgoJoe Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 I played into the confused about what I want BS and now I just want to lash out because she never confirms it's over and I feel suckered in by all these guilt trips. Just tell me not to guys and to continue walking the high road, ignore her down the road etc. etc. Link to post Share on other sites
ECuellar Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 I been down this road. Being manipulated to to believe its my fault, making me feel bad for stuff i didnt do. Its not you bro, just leave her, she doesn't know what she wants. You can stay with her while she toys with you deciding she wants to keep you or not. Have some dignity and tell her your not to be played with and to tell you. Link to post Share on other sites
plasma Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 I played into the confused about what I want BS and now I just want to lash out because she never confirms it's over and I feel suckered in by all these guilt trips. Just tell me not to guys and to continue walking the high road, ignore her down the road etc. etc. IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE in a weeks of NC you should have balance again, then poise yourself from there! be strong! Link to post Share on other sites
Author EgoJoe Posted May 17, 2011 Author Share Posted May 17, 2011 In my other post where I deleted the "story" I am so back and forth due to emotions. Our last conversation goes like this, ME - May 14 at 8:41am I was highly emotional the other day and I worked myself up into a bad way. I don't actually want to just move on. If you really want to be done that is ok. If you just need time because you don't know, that is ok as well. If nothing else. I would appreciate the chance to talk again; when you are ready. . EXGF- May 14 at 10:13am Report I wont be ready any time soon. Please respect my wish to not hear from you for a while while I sort things out. Thanks. . ME -May 15 at 12:19am This is goodbye. I will send a letter elaborating on the things I have not had a chance to do so without lashing out or placing blame, so that I don't have to carry the thoughts. Please, do not consider it disrespectful to your wish as it will be my last missive, forever. I am dead serious. Read it when you want or throw it away. . ME- May 15 at 1:34pm Look, I wasn't trying to overreact but I definately have got to stop trying to force things that are out of my control. I won't send the letter. If and when you want to talk. You know how to get ahold of me. Have a good summer. Link to post Share on other sites
Author EgoJoe Posted May 17, 2011 Author Share Posted May 17, 2011 I'm not an idiot either I can see the patterns but I know there is a point where we're too forgiving and too understanding and women will just walk all over you. She got all bent out of shape because I told her I was with 1 girl while we were starting to talk and date before I commited. It wasn't cheating, she cut me off before I could explain and said "Don't make excuses for yourself, Joe" She's not dumb but she's being dumb. I want to lash out and tell her not to contact, **** you for the guilt trips etc. Link to post Share on other sites
plasma Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 I'm not an idiot either I can see the patterns but I know there is a point where we're too forgiving and too understanding and women will just walk all over you. She got all bent out of shape because I told her I was with 1 girl while we were starting to talk and date before I commited. It wasn't cheating, she cut me off before I could explain and said "Don't make excuses for yourself, Joe" She's not dumb but she's being dumb. I want to lash out and tell her not to contact, **** you for the guilt trips etc. its a hell of a pot of stew these women cook huh? looks like your lost in the matrix, i sincerly wish u the best in getting untangled, us guys will lose the game they are masters of. Link to post Share on other sites
Author EgoJoe Posted May 18, 2011 Author Share Posted May 18, 2011 Yah, I guess. I don't even know if it was a game or gigs or w/e. If you saw a copy of my last communication with her then you'd see that I've gotten emotionally impulsive and compulsive. I've left the door open fo her andI don't like that. I want her but I want my dignity more. I will probably break no contact in a few days and give her a piece of my mind without stooping. I'm undecided thus far. Link to post Share on other sites
plasma Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Yah, I guess. I don't even know if it was a game or gigs or w/e. If you saw a copy of my last communication with her then you'd see that I've gotten emotionally impulsive and compulsive. I've left the door open fo her andI don't like that. I want her but I want my dignity more. I will probably break no contact in a few days and give her a piece of my mind without stooping. I'm undecided thus far. same here ! try not to make it tactical, because as easy and GREAT it feels when shes there with you and you feel on top of the world, the minute she leaves again your mind goes into overdrive thinking. i know because im same situation and seeing her " here and there" and trying to be tactical about her staying longer, missing me ect ! Link to post Share on other sites
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