pr0_str3et Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 ***She broke up with me and want to stay as frens!!*** I know its a common topic.. i did read few posts about this... well m new in Loveshack and i cud really use ur help guys.. so heres my story !!its long .. i know.. coz i have told everything that has happnd betweenn her n me..... >>we met on my brother's weddin party.. she was gorgeous.. We had a good time that night. After that i added her on Facebook, we used to chat and post comments and all. got her number, but i didnt call nor txt her much... well i wasnt sure if c likes me ...hmmm we didnt meet for like 2months after that party. so finally,after 2months..we met on this street festival.. there were concerts and all,we were havin a good time,...we flirted,danced... wr even ..held hands...walked around that night..putting arms around each other,as if we were a couple !! since that night,we startd texting more and more,cute and sweet talks.... as days passed..we both started liking each other more and more.. she dedicated a song"fallin 4u-colbie calliat" and i was like wow .. we started dedicatin songs for each other.. we flirted more nd more... txting and facebookin.. all those posts and those comments on fb i told her i lliku very much,she said c liked me too... after the street fest we met again..had a good time..... and there was a sign of love...we're both fallin in love(totally not sure abt her tho')c usd to say m fallin 4u even more and more...... and i even called her as ILU (i <3 u) n c usd to ask "wats dat".. i told her.. "i'll tell u later"... and after a week .. i proposed her ..in a romantic gardenn with a rose and a gift....... c was shocked.. c said c was expecting it.. but not this quick..... after sometime... c said... she loves me too ..that day was the best day...of my life i wrote her a poem..lovely poem.. c liked it soooooooooo much..showd it to her friends......) we met after 9days, went for a movie.....had a good time.. till this day.. we had a good time..texting ...phone calls but the next day after the movie..she textd me.."dont lose ur cool..bt can we stick to friendship" i immediately calld her .wats arong.. she didnt speak much... at first, i was like.. dnt say silly stuff and dnt think too much.. i wasnt really tensd at the moment... i went to college..... but .. slowly.. i was worried, c was online and we chatted .. c started saying things.. that hurt me.. she said... evrything happnd in a rush... i called her again that night.. c didnt speak up much... i cudnt control myself.. i was heart broken.... i cried.. so i hang up...she said that."lets stick to friendship for now... i dont want to hav an affair ryt now.. mayb one day i'll tell u those words..u wont even have to.." first 2,3 days were hard for me... bt i had a hope... ok.. we'll start frm friendship again... ill jst b swt and nice guy like i was before... so for first 2weeks all was ok.. txting and phone calls.. but whenevr i told her to meet up..c usd to make excuses.. n i hated it...... later on.. c started ignorin me....no calls,no txts. nothin... Some friends tole me.. to move on but i jst coudnt..i loved her and want her back in my life.. and some friends(girls) told me.... give her some time.space... do as she says.stick to frenshipp .... thats what i was doin.. but.... i dnt knw... c was tryina forget me?? i guess.... bt still i txtd her.. nt daily tho'' once in a while... we didnt c each other fr a month... then her Bday... i wishd her at midnyt.. ... c told me to meet up.. i was so happy dat time.. . so we met after some days(coz i was havin exams) ... in a restaurant.. i gave her a beautiful..cute watch as a bday gift.. as soon as c opnd da present .. c said "aww soo cute" c loved it very much...we had a good time.... c did text me sayin" had a good time" thats it... we do still txt each other,bt its me first who txt her.. most of the times.... thats the story so far till now..... today i caled her and asked her when we're meeting again. n c was like "not for sometime" i really dnt knoww wat to do... somtimes i feel so angryyy with her.. her ignorance ...i jst feel like movin on... and then again..... m like.. i cant.. i still want her back .. so i really dnt know wat to do....i read some posts and it said.. b out of contact for some time.... it myt realize her wats shes missin ?? sud i do this... i think i sud huh ?? tell me wat u guys think ?? Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 Can you translate it into English please? Link to post Share on other sites
Author pr0_str3et Posted June 27, 2011 Author Share Posted June 27, 2011 Can you translate it into English please? It is in "E N G L I S H " O__O guess you didnt understand my shortcut language ehh ? :-| Link to post Share on other sites
geegirl Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 It's so hard to follow your post with the broken words. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 Did that post have something to do with a goat? Huh? I have to get some tylenol...... Link to post Share on other sites
Author pr0_str3et Posted June 27, 2011 Author Share Posted June 27, 2011 It's so hard to follow your post with the broken words. oohh really.. i'm so soryy.. all these chatting stuffs >__< but i hope you did understand most part of my story ?? cause i really dont know what to do in my current state.. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 If you write your post in proper English (doesn't have to have perfect spelling or grammar, just use proper words and some paragraphs) then we will read it. As it is, nobody is going to bother because it gives us a headache just looking at that screen full of gibberish. Just giving you a tip dude, trying to help. Take 5 minutes to write it properly and we'll take 5 minutes to read it and help. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Savage Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 It almost seems it would be more complicated to write it the way he did than to write normal sentences and paragraphs? Did you use your phone to post this thread? Link to post Share on other sites
Author pr0_str3et Posted June 27, 2011 Author Share Posted June 27, 2011 If you write your post in proper English (doesn't have to have perfect spelling or grammar, just use proper words and some paragraphs) then we will read it. As it is, nobody is going to bother because it gives us a headache just looking at that screen full of gibberish. Just giving you a tip dude, trying to help. Take 5 minutes to write it properly and we'll take 5 minutes to read it and help. Yeah i understand so here i edited it again. Hope you guys understand this time ***She broke up with me and want to stay as frens!!*** I know its a common topic.. i did read few posts about this... well i'm new in Loveshack and i could really use your help guys.. so here's my story !! We met on my brother's weddin party.. she was gorgeous.. We had a good time that night. After that i added her on Facebook, we used to chat and post comments and all. ..i even got her number, but i didnt call nor txt her much... well i wasnt sure if she likes me ...hmmm we didnt meet for like 2months after that party. .. but finally,after 2months..we met on this street festival.. there were concerts and all,we were havin a good time,we flirted,danced..we even held hands...walked around that night..putting arms around each other,as if we were a couple !! since that night,we started texting more and more,cute and sweet talks.As days passed..we both started liking each other more and more.. she dedicated a song called "fallin 4u-colbie calliat" and i was like wow .. we started dedicating songs for each other.. we flirted more nd more... texting and facebooking.. all those posts and those comments on fbook i told her i llike you very much,she said she liked me too... after the street festival,we met again..had a good time.and i think we're both fallin in love(totally not sure abt her though)she used to say i'm fallin for you even more and more...... and i even called her as ILU (i love u) and she used to ask me "whats that?" intentionally that is,she knew the answer. I told her.. "i'll tell you later".And after a week,i proposed her in a romantic garden with a rose and a gift.She was surprised and she was smiling the whole time. Shesaid she was expecting it but not this quick.After taking sometime,she said she loves me too. That day was the best day of my life. I wrote her lovely poem.. she liked it soooooooooo much. She showd it to all of her friends......) We met after 9days and went for a movie,had a good time. It was all good till this day. But the next day after the movie,she textd me saying "dont lose yout cool but can we stick to friendship" .I called her immediately and asked her "Whats wrong?". She didnt speak much.At first i was like explaining her "dont say such sillystuffs and dont think too much".I wasnt really tensed at that moment.I went to college but slowly, i started to worry about the things she said earlier. She was online and we chatted. She started saying things that hurt me.She said "evrything happned in a rush". I called her again that night,she didnt speak up much. I couldnt control myself. I was heart broken, i cried.She said that,"lets stick to friendship for now. I dont want to hav ean affair right now.Maybe one day i'll tell you those words and you wont even have to" First 2,3 days were hard for me but i had a hope. So i was like "ok,we'll start from friendship again. I'll just be sweet and nice guy like i was before". So for first 2weeks all was ok., the texting and the phone calls.. but whenever i told her to meet up..she used to make excuses and i hated it. Later on she started ignoring me.No calls,No texts..Nothing. Some friends told me.. to move on but i just coudnt. I loved her and wanted her back in my life and some friends(girls) told me to "give her some time and space. Do as she says and stick to friendship for now". Thats what i am doing till now. But i dnt know, was she trying to forget about me?? i guess..but still ,i texted her not daily though ,once in a while. We didnt see each other for a month.Then her Birthday came,i wished her at midnight and i was the first person to wish her. She told me "lets meet up" and i was so happy that time.So we met after some days in a restaurant. I gave her a beautiful,cute watch as a birthday gift.As soon as she opned the present,she smiled and said "awww!! soo cute" . She loved it very much and we had a good time that day. Later that night,she texted me sayin "had a good time" .We do still text each other,but its me who text her first,most of the times.Thats the story so far.. i really dont knoww what to do.Somtimes i feel so angryyy with her,her ignorance kills me. I just feel like moving on and then again,i'm like,i cant cause i still want her back. So i really dont know what to do. I read some posts and it said to be out of contact for some time. It might make her realize ,what she's been missing ?? Should i do this or anything else?? Help plz Link to post Share on other sites
Lucy2011 Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 No don't stay friends, seriously its a bad decision. I've learnt that now. Cut contact and let her realise what she's missing, if she doesn't its her loss. x Link to post Share on other sites
Author pr0_str3et Posted June 27, 2011 Author Share Posted June 27, 2011 No don't stay friends, seriously its a bad decision. I've learnt that now. Cut contact and let her realise what she's missing, if she doesn't its her loss. x Yeaahhh... okay. I hope she realize it soon. And thanx for the reply Lucy Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 Okay, I understood that!!! YAY!!! Well, it sounds like to much too fast. I think you scared her away. She wasn't ready for the type of commitment you were ready for. Therefore, she took a giant leap back. Give her space, give her breathing room. But, I do agree. I wouldn't go the lets be friends route. You seem like you still have very strong feelings for her and you can't be friends with that elephant in the room. Plus, you'll totally start to lose it if she starts dating someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pr0_str3et Posted June 28, 2011 Author Share Posted June 28, 2011 Okay, I understood that!!! YAY!!! Well, it sounds like to much too fast. I think you scared her away. She wasn't ready for the type of commitment you were ready for. Therefore, she took a giant leap back. Give her space, give her breathing room. But, I do agree. I wouldn't go the lets be friends route. You seem like you still have very strong feelings for her and you can't be friends with that elephant in the room. Plus, you'll totally start to lose it if she starts dating someone else. Yeah i know it was fast... i did it cause she was showering me with all these hints on texts and fbook comments .. hmmm but i think you're right, maybe she wasn't ready for it . Yes i'm giving her time and space. I dont want to rush into things again. I'm taking Friends route,so that i can make her realize that what we had was really something( i hope i cane make her realize that) Yes it will be just too hard if she starts dating someone else but i really hope she doesnt Anyways thanks a lot for your reply Chi townD Link to post Share on other sites
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