Cowboy1015 Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 (edited) So I've just got dumped. Last week, feeling that my gf is about to dump me, I've been searching youtube on how to prevent my gf on breaking up with me. Then I came across with tons of videos about getting your ex back. I watched a couple of those videos and some make sense. First of all, they were all selling their knowledge for a fee. The only thing that turned me off is that they have some silly tactics to encourage you to buy their product. They're all basically saying the same thing. Reverse psychology. Counter-intuitive. It makes sense. But, what I realized, you don't get back with your ex, specially if you're thae one who got dumped. I realized, it's better to move on. And you will be a lot better. Now for the case of the dumper, maybe he/she could make use of this ex-back systems if it's not too late. Edited September 16, 2011 by Cowboy1015 Link to post Share on other sites
TheDovic Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 Don't know how good they are because when a relationship ends it's generally due to a lot of reasons that are complicated to rectify. But in my opinion they definitely give you a fighting chance! I have read EVERY SINGLE one out there and although it's two months later and I don't have her back she's texting me regularly flirting and looking to see me. I honestly believe this is due to me using what I have learned in these books. If I had went with my gut and begged, pleaded, acted needy etc... I honestly believe she would not be in my life at all right now. But including last night she has now asked to see me three times in the last week! I said I have read all of these systems and for me the two best were TW Jackson's "The Magic of Making Up," but even better was John Alexander's "Re-Attraction: How to Get Your Woman Back in 30 Days or Less." I also REALLY have to recommend David DeAngelo's "Attraction isn't a choice." Although this isn't a "Get her back" system it is by far the best and easiest to use way of attracting women... and when it comes down to the bare bones of it you're ex left you because in some way she has lost attraction for you (This is true whether you believe it or not!). This book will tell you why women leave men, what not to do and what TO DO! Both John Alexander and David DeAngelo's books cost me about £6 ($10) so for me that's value. ps, turn on you Private Message setting cos I can help you. PM me when you do Link to post Share on other sites
LelouchIsZero Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 http://www.magicofmakingup.com/2008d...OfMakingUp.pdf http://www.magicofmakingup.com/2008dld/MindMagic.pdf http://www.magicofmakingup.com/2008d...lateMethod.pdf http://www.getexback.net/download/ Enjoy, lol. Link to post Share on other sites
TheDovic Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 http://www.magicofmakingup.com/2008d...OfMakingUp.pdf http://www.magicofmakingup.com/2008dld/MindMagic.pdf http://www.magicofmakingup.com/2008d...lateMethod.pdf http://www.getexback.net/download/ Enjoy, lol. That is a pretty cool effort from you dude! Link to post Share on other sites
aposiopesis Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 http://www.magicofmakingup.com/2008d...OfMakingUp.pdf http://www.magicofmakingup.com/2008d...lateMethod.pdf Enjoy, lol. Just wondering what the full addresses for these were? Cheers! Link to post Share on other sites
LelouchIsZero Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 Just wondering what the full addresses for these were? Cheers! Woops, as I just copied & pasted from another post I made on here, I thought the links would've been alright, though apparently not. Here's the links, http://www.magicofmakingup.com/2008dld/TheMagicOfMakingUp.pdf http://www.magicofmakingup.com/2008dld/TheCleanSlateMethod.pdf Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Phoenix Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 I bought a crap load of the "get your ex back" systems, they are great in the sense that it helps you not beg, plead, or act desperate. I followed the systems and had no luck but later realized that I did not want my ex back. Check the torrent sites, you can find a lot of them on there. If you do buy them however, do not believe that they will refund your money within the time frame they specify. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cowboy1015 Posted September 16, 2011 Author Share Posted September 16, 2011 Thanks for the links. I am about to meet my ex in 3 days. We broke up 2 days ago. But when we broke up, she just said she thinks I'm not sincere. And this is not what she want. I just agreed. We basically just had a talk for 15 min then she left. Then I called her yesterday and asked her if we can talk at least for one hour to understand what went wrong. I'm wondering what kind of tactics I can do if do see her in 3 days. Any advise from you guys. I do definitely want her to stay. But realize that I should not beg. Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Phoenix Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 Thanks for the links. I am about to meet my ex in 3 days. We broke up 2 days ago. But when we broke up, she just said she thinks I'm not sincere. And this is not what she want. I just agreed. We basically just had a talk for 15 min then she left. Then I called her yesterday and asked her if we can talk at least for one hour to understand what went wrong. I'm wondering what kind of tactics I can do if do see her in 3 days. Any advise from you guys. I do definitely want her to stay. But realize that I should not beg. From the knowledge gained from the "ex back" systems, don't go see her. It's too early for that. minimum of 3 weeks NC then you may be ready for such meeting. Link to post Share on other sites
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