Am I a bad person? Very bad Situation

[Annie Xrist]

I never in my life would have thought I would ever post to a board like this..............

 

My current boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. I have never cheated on him nor have I ever cheated on a boyfriend until now. It all started a few months ago when I started a new job. It was the first time I had worked in over two years. Before that, I was off at college. My boyfriend and I spent sat-tues together. When I started working, we hardly were able to spend time together. My boyfriend and I trust each other to the fullest, and we go days at a time without talking to each other usually. Neither of us gets jealous of the other.

 

A few weeks after I started working, I realized that my boss and I got along fairly well. We had some strange connection. The problem with that was we both had significant others. His other just happened to have a newborn child. Evidently, that didn't stop him from wanting to pursue me. He invited me out one night, and I, being none the wiser, accepted. We went out to a few different night clubs, and ended up drinking entirely too much. I really did not mean to go out and get smashed with him. I just happened not to have ate very much that day, and I was drinking liquor that was of the highest proof. We ended up having a very good time with one another. We were joking and frolicing about, and acting as if we had been together as boyfriend and girlfriend for a long time. He was all over me, but I did not mind at the time. We ended up back at my place. When I woke up the next morning, I cried my eyes out, and I was very upset at what I had done.

 

I felt kind of weird afterward, but my boss did not. In fact, he was acting all lovey-dovey towards me. He called me often, was naughty at the office, and invited me to dinner. I told him that maybe what we were doing wasn't the best idea, and that he was going to get me into trouble. He said not to fight the feeling, and that since we both liked each other, there was nothing wrong with the situation. I do sort of have some feelings for him. I think that he is a very intelligent person, and we get along very well. I do not, however, think that he is worth losing my boyfriend over. On to the next problem.

 

I thought that the situation with my boss was the worst situation I had ever been in. I was right until this last weekend. Last weekend, I went out with a group of friends. My boyfriend could not make it, so I was kind of upset. I was feeling very awkward around him anyway. It just so happened that his best friend ,we'll call him Mistake2, who is also one of my best friends, was there. It just so happens that Mistake2 and I used to date almost two years ago. Since then, I have been with his best friend (my boyfriend). Mistake2 and I have hung out numerous times with one another. We have both been totally smashed together as well. We have also been alone and totally smashed together, but we have never hooked up with one another. We are very good friends, and we act like brother and sister.

 

So last weekend when he beckoned me to sit on his lap, I didn't think of it as anything. After all, we have hung out in bars before and laid on one another. This time though, he just grabbed me and started kissing me really fast right in front of all our friends who are also friends with my boyfriend. He is such a great kisser; I just couldn't help myself. We were getting very frisky, and we were turning each other on really bad. I wanted to pursue things even further, but I was afraid a friend of mine who used to really like him would get mad at me. Finally, he and his friends left, and I told myself to pretend that nothing happened. Later that night, my friend and I ended up hanging out with him and his friends. The next thing I knew, we were cuddling. He started telling me how much he cared about me, and how much he knew he messed up for not being with me in the first place. He said that he was afraid he would never get a chance with me because I started dating his best friend. He went on to tell me how much he loved me and that he was in love with me. He said that everytime I came over to his house he just started liking me more and more. He said that he wanted to be with me for the rest of his life. He said that I was everything he could ever want, and although he had been looking for a girl for a very long time, she was in his life all along. I proceeded to tell him that I loved him as well, and that I missed hanging around him. Since this guy is my best friend, I know that he is notorious for having many girlfriends at the same time. I know he had always talked about settling down, but I don't know if he is serious or not. He sounded genuine when he told me he loved me. He asked what we would do about my boyfriend, and I said we could move away. He said we could go wherever I want to.

 

It seems like everyday I am thrown another hurdle. I still care deeply for my boyfriend. It really hurts me to hurt him. I would appreciate any advice or remarks about this dilemma.

 

 

Thank you,

 

 

Sally

[EC]

Girl you sound like you have no idea what you want.

At the end of the post you said "I care deeply for my bf"

"I care" But do you Love him?

Are you IN love with him?

I don't think so and it really sucks that your wasting his time.

First of all, you should've never hooked up with your boss. You dont sh** where you eat. And also he just had a baby with his significant other!!!

I could

nt imagine how I would feel if I just had a baby with the man that I love and he was out and about with his co-worker.

Thats devastating.

Secondly, your making out madly with your guys friend whom you used to date in front of all of yours and his friends.

Hello?

My advise firstly leave your boss alone just don't go there anymore. Secondly, talk to your bf because you obviously have some issues to discuss. Don't go running around his back. Be honest and up front.

I think before you talk to your bf though you need to Sit down and ask yourself "What do I want?"

Answer yourself honestly.

[Debster]

Clearly you are not ready to be in an exclusive relationship.

[dudesomewhere]

ah...

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t42610/

 

the air is filled with the noxious stench of hoochietide...revel in it, lol

 

let me tell you a little something that happened with a hoochie I knew.

 

So she starts work at my place...I thought, cute girl. I start talking and just want to make friends with her. After a while we start flirting then I come to realize she has a fiance. We continue to flirt but I keep it very light whereas I sense she tries to push it into the realm of reality. A little bg about me, I workout and it shows , all the people I work with always inquire what they should do for this and that. So she does the same, but instead after I explain certain routines and regimens numerous times, she remarks "maybe we could excercise at your house" in that joking but not so joking way. Now I am always on the lookout for women who want to cheat, especially with me, because that actually offends me greatly. So, one night...after experiencing all her schemes to obtain me I profess to her how I respect relationships between 2 people...that I'm one of those guys who look and hope 2 people will be happy together and that I would never be one to try and mess things up between 2 people. I go on an on and explain my monastic self (which many find stupid ).

 

So after a while she seems to shift gears and wants to be a good woman to her man, a good woman in a relationship. But after a while I see things that I wonder about...old behaviors.

 

Whether or not she has found integrity or lost it thereafter I do not know.

 

But...real men, real people have stronger wills. Take a step back from yourself and ask, do these guys really respect you? Or did they merely sense a woman with no conviction and took what they could because they could easily do so? I told this friend this same thing...a real friend who respects you will also respect your man and the relationship you two have.

 

Then, it is merely a choice to make for yourself...to have respect or not. Though you've already made that choice to have no respect there is always the chance to regain or rebuild integrity. And doing so goes by right of action, not words.

 

[EC]

Perfect way of putting it dudesomewhere....It's true respect is a big part of it and dignity.

[Johnny16]

Before you do things with that guy, think about how much it could hurt your boyfriend.....do you even care?

 

I cant believe people these days. I mean I once thought about cheating but never did because I realized how much it would hurt her and I love her too much to do something like that.

[Bryanp]

Hello,

 

Here is a quick question. How would you feel if your boyfriend was doing to you what you have done to him? If you have any respect for your boyfriend at all you will confess and tell him the truth so he can make decisions how he wishes to live his life. Not only do you screw your boss but you then make out with another guy in front of your boyfriend's friends. Why don't you just take a knife and stick in your boyfriend's heart now. It would be more humane. Be honest with your boyfriend because he deserves this from you at the very least. Your story is very sad. You do not treat a boyfriend who loves and cares for you the way you have been treating him.

[meanon]

Annie, you say you have never had this problem before. Apart from spending less time with your bf and staring work, have there been any major changes in your life? Both time you said you got smashed - were you drinking a lot more than normal?

 

Unless something else is going on which you have not told us about it sounds very much to me like you have outgrown the relationship with your bf and are looking for a way out. The fact that you still care for him a lot does not mean everything is OK. Are you happy? Is this your first long term relationship?

 

You are becoming a victim of circumstance, prey to any man who offers you a possible escape. Stick with going out with your gfs for a while and drink less until you are clearer about what you want.

[faux]

Originally posted by Annie Xrist

I never in my life would have thought I would ever post to a board like this..............

 

My current boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. I have never cheated on him nor have I ever cheated on a boyfriend until now.

 

So change "I have never cheated on him" to "I have cheated on him." Unless you mean to say "I had never cheated on him..."

 

A few weeks after I started working, I realized that my boss and I got along fairly well. We had some strange connection. The problem with that was we both had significant others.

 

So. You made a connection with your boss. However, having a significant other was a "problem"?

 

His other just happened to have a newborn child. Evidently, that didn't stop him from wanting to pursue me. He invited me out one night, and I, being none the wiser, accepted.

 

Hold on. None the wiser? Firstly, this man is your BOSS. Secondly, he is in a relationship, and thirdly he has a child. You are honestly attempting to inform me that you were "none the wiser" about accepting his offer? Pffsh.

 

I know you were probably looking for the good in this guy, but look at what you've just said. There is no good!

 

We went out to a few different night clubs, and ended up drinking entirely too much. I really did not mean to go out and get smashed with him. I just happened not to have ate very much that day, and I was drinking liquor that was of the highest proof.

 

Not eating that much... That doesn't have too much of a profound affect on alcoholic consumption. It'd hit you faster, but that wouldn't be a good excuse, and actually isn't, for getting drunk. Actually, going out drinking with your boss is rather creepy and wrong, to me. Additionally, you could have been responsible enough to have kept it to two drinks of low alcoholic content, but you were drinking very high proof liquor? This doesn't sound good at ALL.

 

We ended up having a very good time with one another. We were joking and frolicing about, and acting as if we had been together as boyfriend and girlfriend for a long time. He was all over me, but I did not mind at the time. We ended up back at my place. When I woke up the next morning, I cried my eyes out, and I was very upset at what I had done.

 

It isn't entirely understandable to me as to why you were so upset. I mean, you knew what you were getting into. You knew this guy was no good, that you were involved in a relationship, and that he obviously wanted to pursue you. You knew what was going to happen when you picked up that first strong alcoholic drink, I should imagine. You put yourself into a very bad situation, and I cannot accept the fact that you did not realize very early on that you were doing so.

 

I felt kind of weird afterward, but my boss did not. In fact, he was acting all lovey-dovey towards me. He called me often, was naughty at the office, and invited me to dinner. I told him that maybe what we were doing wasn't the best idea, and that he was going to get me into trouble.

 

MAYBE? Get you in trouble? You already got yourself into trouble. And it isn't "maybe" a bad thing, but definitely a bad thing.

 

He said not to fight the feeling, and that since we both liked each other, there was nothing wrong with the situation. I do sort of have some feelings for him. I think that he is a very intelligent person, and we get along very well. I do not, however, think that he is worth losing my boyfriend over. On to the next problem.

 

Sigh. Don't give into this guy. You know, it might be good to look for another job actually. The more you are around him, the more you are going to run into this sort of situation.

 

I thought that the situation with my boss was the worst situation I had ever been in. I was right until this last weekend. Last weekend, I went out with a group of friends. My boyfriend could not make it, so I was kind of upset. I was feeling very awkward around him anyway.

 

Why would you feel awkward around your boyfriend? I'm assuming that you, as a good girlfriend who truly does love her boyfriend, as you claim, had called him immediately after this all happened and explained it to him. Right? Right? I guess not, eh?

 

It just so happened that his best friend ,we'll call him Mistake2, who is also one of my best friends, was there. It just so happens that Mistake2 and I used to date almost two years ago. Since then, I have been with his best friend (my boyfriend). Mistake2 and I have hung out numerous times with one another. We have both been totally smashed together as well. We have also been alone and totally smashed together, but we have never hooked up with one another. We are very good friends, and we act like brother and sister.

 

I already know where this is going...

 

So last weekend when he beckoned me to sit on his lap, I didn't think of it as anything. After all, we have hung out in bars before and laid on one another. This time though, he just grabbed me and started kissing me really fast right in front of all our friends who are also friends with my boyfriend. He is such a great kisser; I just couldn't help myself.

 

You could have helped yourself. You have a boyfriend. And you'll be lucky to still have one when you finally tell your boyfriend about your boss and his best friend.

 

We were getting very frisky, and we were turning each other on really bad. I wanted to pursue things even further, but I was afraid a friend of mine who used to really like him would get mad at me.

 

Wait. WAIT! You were afraid someone who used to like him would get mad at you? The thought that you have a boyfriend that you've already cheated on, a boyfriend who trusts you completely, a man that you completely dishonored that you are still involved with, didn't? You have a boyfriend! And you weren't worried about that?

 

Finally, he and his friends left, and I told myself to pretend that nothing happened. Later that night, my friend and I ended up hanging out with him and his friends. The next thing I knew, we were cuddling. He started telling me how much he cared about me, and how much he knew he messed up for not being with me in the first place. He said that he was afraid he would never get a chance with me because I started dating his best friend. He went on to tell me how much he loved me and that he was in love with me. He said that everytime I came over to his house he just started liking me more and more. He said that he wanted to be with me for the rest of his life. He said that I was everything he could ever want, and although he had been looking for a girl for a very long time, she was in his life all along. I proceeded to tell him that I loved him as well, and that I missed hanging around him. Since this guy is my best friend, I know that he is notorious for having many girlfriends at the same time. I know he had always talked about settling down, but I don't know if he is serious or not. He sounded genuine when he told me he loved me. He asked what we would do about my boyfriend, and I said we could move away. He said we could go wherever I want to.

 

Foolish of you to fall for his bull crud.

 

It seems like everyday I am thrown another hurdle.

 

You aren't being thrown anything. You are responsible for what you do, and nobody else is. You are making these decisions to be unfaithful to your boyfriend.

 

I still care deeply for my boyfriend.

 

I really, truly do not believe that. I do not think that you care about him. Firstly, you cheated on him twice. Secondly, you never even told him what you did, which is completely wrong. Relationships are based on trust and communication. You are ruining the trust and definitely killing the communication. If you really loved him, I just don't think you'd have let yourself do any of the things you mentioned.

 

It really hurts me to hurt him.

 

I don't believe that, either.

 

I would appreciate any advice or remarks about this dilemma.

 

 

Thank you,

 

 

Sally

 

 

Well, Sally. I think that you should tell your boyfriend that you cheated on him twice. Once with your boss, and once with his best friend. Perhaps YOU may not consider kissing to be cheating, but saying "I love you" to your boyfriend's best friend, and doing what you did would probably be something he would disagree with.

 

I don't think there is much of any type of relationship left here at all. Tell him what you've done and let him leave you, I think. That'd probably be best for him. The entire incident with the boss, well, I was going to try to let that slide. However, you never told your boyfriend about that.

 

Then, you get yourself into yet another situation. And you didn't tell your boyfriend about that, either. Meanwhile, mister nice guy who is completely trusting of you and really oughtn't be, is going around totally oblivious, thinking you are this wonderful, trusting, honest girlfriend and he is the luckiest guy in the world.

 

Not good.

 

I think you knew what you were getting yourself into. I think it's wrong of you to never have said anything to your boyfriend, or never to have even planned on doing so. I don't think there's any relationship left here, and it really does seem that you'll find yourself getting into even more of these situations because your "boyfriend isn't around".

 

Good luck doing what is right. I will trust that you can, in fact, do that. You're welcome. I just am not capable at this point of agreeing that you will not be unfaithful again, or that you were innocent in these situations. You had full control from the beginning.

[Grinning Maniac]

Ok. I was going to give you some advice up until "Mistake 2" came up.

 

Yes. You are a bad person. Just leave your boyfriend and save him of your stupidity.

 

Have a nice day.

[meanon]

Grinning Maniac, apt user name. I saw your offensive, unedited post. Annie at least acknowledges her shortcomings and is seeking advice for them whereas you get appear to get your jollies by abusing strangers on the internet. On the evidence so far, you're not such a good person yourself.

[Johnny16]

Maniac I totally agree with you.

 

That 'blank' has gotta go.

[Grinning Maniac]

@meanon:

 

Please. I'm just fine.

 

What advice is there to possibly give in this situation? It's pretty much a lost cause, even if her boyfriend is some sort of pussy and would tolerate the fact that he got cheated on twice, once with someone who he considered his "best friend". It's a ****ed up situation that is beyond repair, so I felt I could have some freedom in what I said. I believe the best way to describe the situation would be to say:

 

"We have just lost cabin pressure."

 

The only advice I could give is for her to distance herself from all THREE parties(the bf, his "friend", and her boss), stop the ****ing drinking as that seems to be a catalyst, and take a long hard look at her life to figure out where she went off course.

 

Peace.

[miz_barby]

I feel that "if" you were truly in love with your bf then after the first time of cheating with your boss you would have woken up and not "ever" done this again especially with his best friend!!!

 

It doesn't matter that you dated him before obviously he is best friends with your bf and your friend liked him! Why would you want to hurt so many people?

 

What do you plan to do now? Are you gonna keep it a secret and see if the guy you "hooked up" with is going to stick around, if he doesn't then you'll fall back on your bf and if he does will you continue to date him in secret or will you be honestly tell your bf that you prefer to be with his best friend more than him?

[Grinning Maniac]

Yeah, the only solace the bf's ever going to have is that he didn't waste any more time on this broad and his "best friend" is a real douche.

 

Sad.

[Johnny16]

I love you man.

[Annie Xrist]

Thanks for correcting my grammar.

 

So change "I have never cheated on him" to "I have cheated on him." Unless you mean to say "I had never cheated on him...

 

I tried to find an easy way to put that sentence, but it just kept coming out weird. What I meant to say was that it was the first time I had ever cheated on anyone. And even though it was the first time, I know that that does not mean that it was all right. Did I mention that my boyfriend's best-friend is also my best-friend? It just so happens that we get along very well and share a lot of the same interests. As for my boss, I find him very charismatic and intelligent. I had suspicions about going out with him, but I was bored. I don't get many chances to go out places, and it just so happens that he enjoys footing the bill when we go out (I have gone out with him before, but other people have been there as well). I didn't think I would let things go that far. We had a great time together. I just would have rather been friends. If this had happened at any other job, I probably would have quit. The only problem with quiting this job is that I don't want to regret it. Business is starting to boom now, and my boss really respects the work I do, and we get along very well. He tells me everything that goes on with the company, and he has total control over it. I have turned down many guys that have attempted to get with me while I was with my boyfriend. It just turns out the circumstances were very strange this time. I also should have mentioned that I am a bit of a hermit, and now that I have started working, I am coming out of the dark. I basically wrote that post just to get my feelings out. I do feel bad for my boyfriend. I really want to tell him what happened, but I don't know if I will ever be able to.

[dudesomewhere]

I love you too but not in that way. See I see you more as a brother than a lover...

 

 

er wait...nevermind

 

[Johnny16]

I love you so much that Im going to go sleep with my roomate, RIGHT NOW!

[amerikajin]

Why is it that people who cheat always have to qualify their behavior somehow? What's with the euphemisms?

 

few weeks after I started working, I realized that my boss and I got along fairly well. We had some strange connection. The problem with that was we both had significant others.

 

Well, you just went ahead f*cked each other. "Problem" solved.

 

His other just happened to have a newborn child.

 

Now how did this happen: was it delivered to her doorstep by a stork, or was he in fact the father of the child?

 

Evidently, that didn't stop him from wanting to pursue me.

 

And it didn't stop you from being a willing object of pursuit, did it?

 

He invited me out one night, and I, being none the wiser, accepted.

 

Um, like, I didn't know and stuff.

 

We went out to a few different night clubs, and ended up drinking entirely too much. I really did not mean to go out and get smashed with him. I just happened not to have ate very much that day, and I was drinking liquor that was of the highest proof. We ended up having a very good time with one another. We were joking and frolicing about, and acting as if we had been together as boyfriend and girlfriend for a long time. He was all over me, but I did not mind at the time. We ended up back at my place.

 

Those things just happen. I'm sure you're boyfriend will understand.

 

I felt kind of weird afterward, but my boss did not.

 

Well....at least you felt "weird" about it.

 

In fact, he was acting all lovey-dovey towards me. He called me often, was naughty at the office, and invited me to dinner. I told him that maybe what we were doing wasn't the best idea, and that he was going to get me into trouble. He said not to fight the feeling, and that since we both liked each other, there was nothing wrong with the situation. I do sort of have some feelings for him.

 

Ah! There we go. Finally some honesty in this post.

 

I think that he is a very intelligent person, and we get along very well. I do not, however, think that he is worth losing my boyfriend over. On to the next problem.

 

Sometimes, when you have problems in life, you just have to shrug your shoulders and say (pardon the pun) "f_ck it". Come to think of it....that's exactly what you did.

 

I thought that the situation with my boss was the worst situation I had ever been in. I was right until this last weekend. Last weekend, I went out with a group of friends. My boyfriend could not make it, so I was kind of upset.

 

A revenge f*ck. I like it.

 

I was feeling very awkward around him anyway. It just so happened that his best friend ,we'll call him Mistake2, who is also one of my best friends, was there. It just so happens that Mistake2 and I used to date almost two years ago. Since then, I have been with his best friend (my boyfriend). Mistake2 and I have hung out numerous times with one another. We have both been totally smashed together as well. We have also been alone and totally smashed together, but we have never hooked up with one another. We are very good friends, and we act like brother and sister.

 

And on this night, it just so happened that you were acting more like incestuous hillbillies.

 

I know that he is notorious for having many girlfriends at the same time. I know he had always talked about settling down, but I don't know if he is serious or not. He sounded genuine when he told me he loved me. He asked what we would do about my boyfriend, and I said we could move away. He said we could go wherever I want to.

 

 

It seems like everyday I am thrown another hurdle.

 

ROFLMAO! Yeah, the six-inch variety.

 

I still care deeply for my boyfriend. It really hurts me to hurt him. I would appreciate any advice or remarks about this dilemma.

 

You want a serious answer to this question????

 

Maybe you could just stop dating your boyfriend. Addition by subtraction.

 

Good grief. I knew there was a reason I avoided the infidelity forums.

[shortbus74]

There is a simple rule I live by....

1.Do not sleep with your friends

2.Do not sleep with your co-workers

3.Do not sleep with your roommates

 

When you violate these rules you open up a can of worms...

 

Your in a sad situation and you only have yourself to blame.

[miz_barby]

1.Do not sleep with your friends

2.Do not sleep with your co-workers

3.Do not sleep with your roommates

 

When you violate these rules you open up a can of worms...

 

Your in a sad situation and you only have yourself to blame.

These things should be taught in school! They are basic morals that a lot of us live by but there are the rest who claim to, but that are total hypocrites!

 

I just can't see how......

 

Did I mention that my boyfriend's best-friend is also my best-friend? It just so happens that we get along very well and share a lot of the same interests.

 

that makes it Ok to sleep with them. I thought you were supposed to have things in common with people that you are friends with?? Isn't that the point of being friends. If you like the best friend more do your bf a favor (you should anyway) and tell him the truth let him move on and find someone who will respect him!

[shortbus74]

Thank You miz............ !!!!

 

I have my faults like everyone else here but there are a few lines I REFUSE to cross..... and cheating would be one of them...

 

 

I love the fact that my future hubby can look at me with a pure heart and I can look at him the same way...

 

Annie... don't you think it would be better to let the boyfriend go and let him find someone who will be true to him?

It sounds like you are still looking for attention from outside sources. Which means that you are really not ready to be in an exclusive relationship with one person.

 

As for the whole boss thing............... did you ever consider that he is going to expect a little nookie on the side from you? He has something to hold over your head now,

 

You posed the question.... Are you a bad person?

 

I am going to have to say yes... you have managed to hurt 3 innocent people because of the choices that you have made...

I hope you take a good hard look at yourself and make the right decision....

 

(I have had two very good friends profess their love to me in the past year and I NEVER acted on impulse...in fact I came home and told my future hubby the night it happen....Why? because I want no secrets or lies)

 

But hey, I have morals.. that I live by.............

[YellowLioness]

Wow, dudesomewhere... you're so right. This is the hootchie center for disgusting immoral behavior. My advice is to stop being a hootchie. If you do want to be a hootchie, and it takes all kinds, break up with your BF if he loves you.

The only way you can have it both ways is if you say, "Boyfriend, I want to be a hootchie and f*ck other people. Is that O.K. with you?"

 

If he says, "What, I thought you actually loved me!"

Then, you know it's over.

 

If he says, "Hell yeah, hootchie! I've been wanting to sleep with MY coworkers and your best friends, too!"

Then, you're fine.

 

You actually know that what you did was wrong, don't you? You know that there are only two things you can do: tell him, not tell him. Just pick one and do it.

 

I think the nastiest part is that you actually believe it when the men who are persuing you say, "I love you." They don't. Your boss thinks you're a P.O.A. and so does your boyfriend's "best friend."

 

Jeese... your poor boyfriend NEEDS SOME NEW FRIENDS!!!!! Why is no one telling this poor guy?

 

Plain and simplle. If these people cared about you, they would respect you, which they obviously don't.

 

Normally, I'm not this much of a hosebeast. But Gosh Darnit, I think this stuff is disgusting.

[Johnny16]

Annie, wow.... How could you do such a thing to someone who loves you so dearly?

 

 

You would do your boyfriend a favor by moving away.....

Then that boss you hooked up wit and that other dude or whatever.....they just want poon

 

 

 

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