lollerskates Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 theres this girl in my school that sits right next to me. Shes always askin me for pencils, pens, paper, but thats pretty normal. although, sometimes im just sitting there, and she brushes my shoulder, or when i hand her something sometimes she touches me. Today when were were playing a game where we have to put our heads down, and we have to guess who touches our head, i guessed her then she turned red and started to smile then sat down. i dunno if she likes me but i do like her. any advice? P.S I am soooo shy to talk to girls or in front of the class... i dont even make eye contact with her when she is talking to me oh and 1 time i caught her looking at me out of the corner of her eye while she was writing Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 oooo! she likes you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 15, 2006 Author Share Posted May 15, 2006 2 times, i dont know if it was an accident, i handed her something and i held her hand for a little... just like a brush best 2 moments of my life ^^ then the second time was when all of us were told to pick up something off the ground (i have no idea why) and as i threw it away, i again brushed her hand... anyways, anyone got any more advice other then oooo, she likes you? (no offence) Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 2 times, i dont know if it was an accident, i handed her something and i held her hand for a little... just like a brush best 2 moments of my life ^^ then the second time was when all of us were told to pick up something off the ground (i have no idea why) and as i threw it away, i again brushed her hand... anyways, anyone got any more advice other then oooo, she likes you? (no offence) Stop overanalyzing the situation. If you think too hard you're going to make yourself even more nervous. Since you like her you should try to get closer to her. So start talking to her. Find out what she likes to do and then ask her out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 15, 2006 Author Share Posted May 15, 2006 well ok, tommorrow ill just say hi then ill see what she does, then ill see what movements she does in the class we sit together in. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 15, 2006 Author Share Posted May 15, 2006 I don't think she likes me... but ill tell you guys what happened today. There is a friend of hers in the first class. I ALWAYS get there late, so its kinda of a new thing. well anyways, the girl i like and her friend walked in as i was going to get my folder. i stopped for a little and then kept going, but before i did, she looked at me, smiled then said hi. After that school started and then she left the class. Then, in the class i sit next to her, i asked her how many pages she needed to finish this project we have to do. She said i don't know. then at the end of class she said It's going to take her a loong time to finish this. then school ended. I don't think she likes me... but am i jumping to conclusions? should i tell you guys what happens for the rest of the week? based on this does she like me or not? please respond. Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 This is what I think... If you're gut tells you that someone likes you...they probably do. That's what I've noticed in my experience. And nothing that you mentioned today really shows that she isn't interested in you or that she is interested in you. If you were hoping for more of a conversation perhaps you could ask her more questions next time? Is she shy also? Link to post Share on other sites
cupidette Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 She definitely likes you. There was this guy who was always getting in my check out line at the grocery store. I was getting this vibe that he liked me, but that was all it was, just a vibe. Then sure enough, Friday night, he slipped me his phone number written down on a piece of paper. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 16, 2006 Author Share Posted May 16, 2006 when i look at her, it feels like if we were ment to be together. she lives far from me, but if she likes me and wants to go out with me, it will be worth every single step. (no car) ill just see how she acts the rest of the week. i wish i wasnt as shy... Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 16, 2006 Author Share Posted May 16, 2006 ok, today, we didnt really talk untill last period (i only have 2 classes with her) i had bought her some mentos at lunch. When we were in class, i offered her some then she asked if she could have the whole pack, so i gave it to her =P so then we had to start to take notes, and the teacher compared something with gas sales, and thats when we started to talk. She kept whispering some stuff like "my parents have to use alot of money to drive from the school back home" and stuff like that. Then, while she was taking notes, she made an error then she asked if she could use my eraser not the first time) i said sure. then at the end of class, i asked her if she wanted me to bring her some erasers tommorow and she said sure. then i asked what color then she said any color. is she starting to de-like me? or has she never really liked me? Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 How old are you? And why are you giving her stuff? Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 17, 2006 Author Share Posted May 17, 2006 [FONT=Times New Roman]Well, actually, I bought the candies for me and when I offered her some, she asked if she could have the whole pack. I couldn’t resist to say no so I did. Lol I’m 13 [/FONT] Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 [FONT=Times New Roman]Well, actually, I bought the candies for me and when I offered her some, she asked if she could have the whole pack. I couldn’t resist to say no so I did. Lol I’m 13 [/FONT] You sound so cute I was laughing reading your post. Now see here's the thing : She KNOWS you like her. Now don't be a sap and give up all your pencils and erasers and Mentos if she is going to just take take...Just sit back and see if she does the following : ( I remember my first bf at 13 ) Well if she looks into your eyes,,,,and for too long and smiles alot and her eyes twinkle and she makes LOTS of excuses to be near you and brush against you,.then SHE LIKES YOU ! Now your next step is to get her outside the class. Can you walk her to a Dairy Queen or something ? Have a burger. Share some moments ? Good Luck ! Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 18, 2006 Author Share Posted May 18, 2006 i am just going to give up on her... she only talks to me when i talk to her. this is what happened today : At second period, we had to do a poster for monday. While i was getting the book, she whispered my name, as she wanted my friends journal because they were bothering her. i didnt know what she was saying, so i just turned back around. Next, i went to ask the teacher something, and i dont know if she didnt fit or something (chair too close) she accidentaly brushed me. I knew it was an accident so i just ignored it. Then, i was looking at the sample posters trying to figure out what i had to do, then my friend came up to me. He asked if i could help him get his journal back (its empty and also she and her friend were standing there looking t the posters too) so then her friend said no dont help him. then the girl i liked poked me and said dont help him. Then, this is me her and her friend M= me F = her and F2 = girl i liked.M F F2 so after she told me that, she went M F2 F and stood right where my hand was.I took my quickly moved my hand out.Then i turned back around and told my friend to give me penny or no deal. Of course you know that people dont carry around pennies, so thats why i asked him. he then got out a penny. Then i asked him for a hay penny (half a penny .50 cents) She took his journal because my friends were shaking the table (very annoying) Part 2: Period 5. I first asked her why she took his journal i looked at her in the eyes, but i dont know if she did too. ( i already knew why she took the journal) so then she told me. Thats pretty much it for the whole day... Of course you know everytime she touched me they were only accidents. Should i just give up on her and get on with my life? or do you guys think she likes me? i really dont think she likes me tho... I mean who would, right? Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Lollerskates... Mary3 gave you great advice. Please follow it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 19, 2006 Author Share Posted May 19, 2006 Lollerskates... Mary3 gave you great advice. Please follow it. dude... i know she did and im gonna folow it.. but tell me what you think if what i wrote first... Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 dude? I think that deep inside you think that her poking you meant that she likes you. I think that you want someone to agree with you. I think that you want reassurance that she likes you. I think that maybe you keep assuming she's not interested because you are afraid of actually doing anything. I think you want to be 100% sure that she likes you before you do anything. And I think the penny thing was kind of um....lame? You should've joined in on the fun! And when she whispered to you should've asked her to repeat herself instead of ignoring her. That seemed kind of mean. But that's just what I think. I could be extremely wrong. I can't tell you if she likes you or not. She seems friendly towards you and that's a good start. And I doubt all that bumping into you was an accident. One time maybe...more than once she must be real clumsy. If you can spend more time with her...you know have "moments" like Mary3 said then you'd be closer to figuring out if she likes you or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 19, 2006 Author Share Posted May 19, 2006 shes friendly towards everyone...i might as well give up if she doesnt even talk to me tommorow... Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 shes friendly towards everyone...i might as well give up if she doesnt even talk to me tommorow... Why are you putting all the pressure on her to talk to you? You're the one interested in her right? You talk to her. Take some initiative. If she does like you...you're not doing much to show that you're interested. whatever. i give up. you're young. there'll probably be plenty of girlfriends for you in the future to worry about. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 19, 2006 Author Share Posted May 19, 2006 You know what? your right. i have to step up and talk and not wait for her. i just dont know where to start.i want to take it slow and not go too fast, but i dont know if she does too. ill just talk more. and if you could give me advice on what else to do, it will be apprichiated and i will try to do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 i am just going to give up on her... she only talks to me when i talk to her. this is what happened today : At second period, we had to do a poster for monday. While i was getting the book, she whispered my name, as she wanted my friends journal because they were bothering her. i didnt know what she was saying, so i just turned back around. Next, i went to ask the teacher something, and i dont know if she didnt fit or something (chair too close) she accidentaly brushed me. I knew it was an accident so i just ignored it. Then, i was looking at the sample posters trying to figure out what i had to do, then my friend came up to me. He asked if i could help him get his journal back (its empty and also she and her friend were standing there looking t the posters too) so then her friend said no dont help him. then the girl i liked poked me and said dont help him. Then, this is me her and her friend M= me F = her and F2 = girl i liked.M F F2 so after she told me that, she went M F2 F and stood right where my hand was.I took my quickly moved my hand out.Then i turned back around and told my friend to give me penny or no deal. Of course you know that people dont carry around pennies, so thats why i asked him. he then got out a penny. Then i asked him for a hay penny (half a penny .50 cents) She took his journal because my friends were shaking the table (very annoying) Part 2: Period 5. I first asked her why she took his journal i looked at her in the eyes, but i dont know if she did too. ( i already knew why she took the journal) so then she told me. Thats pretty much it for the whole day... Of course you know everytime she touched me they were only accidents. Should i just give up on her and get on with my life? or do you guys think she likes me? i really dont think she likes me tho... I mean who would, right? Well ,you have to like yourself first....then you can figure out if she does. She sounds kinda immature at this point. Maybe she is too young to be thinking about dating. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 19, 2006 Author Share Posted May 19, 2006 Ok, i tried to follow Mary3's advice, but i forgot that today there was an assembly... so i couldnt talk to her till last period, But as i was walking to 4th period, i saw her. She just said hi, smiled and waved. i waved back because i couldnt think of what else to do. So i finally got to last period. Then as i sat there, one of her friends asked her, "are you going out with "her friend's name"?" she just said no. then her friend said, but i see you at lunch sitting with him. then she said "i know. he likes me but we arent going out. After that little talk, Guess what? we had to pair up with partners we had last week. she paired up with her friend, and my friend was absent, so i was alone, so i still couldnt talk to her. When i got done, i went to staple it, she was doing something and how conviniet that the stapler was right next to her leg... so i went to grab the stapler, then she said "Excuse me!" but she said it jokingly then started to laugh and said, just kidding. Then we had to go out to watch the teacher perform something.we could sit or stand. i sat and she stood with her friend. they stood behind me. The girl i like , i have no idea why she did this, but she put her pencil on my head... so i felt my head and i grabbed the pencil. i looked up at her and she was laughing as i gave it to her. Yea.... weird day today.. but anyways, this mean anything? like she doesnt like me and wants to make fun of me? P.S: she and her friend had the conversation and i was right there... Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 20, 2006 Share Posted May 20, 2006 Well I think she could possibly like you. The pencil on the head thing sounds kind of cute. Like she's trying to flirt with you. And she did smile and wave at you so that's always good. The conversation doesn't really mean anything. Maybe it means you need to talk to her more because this guy is already having lunch with her and she never straight out said she didn't like the guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 20, 2006 Author Share Posted May 20, 2006 ok ill talk to her on monday... but i still have one question... why did she put the pencil on my head? EDIT: She does stuff with her hair alot... she has long haid and she like..tilts her head so all the hear oes over her face then she does stuff with it.. ive seen her do it like 5 or six times around me.. but i dont really see her anywhere else. then she sometimes tilts her head so that her face is facing me, but she isnt looking at me, then she does stuff with her hair again. its kinda hard to explain Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 22, 2006 Author Share Posted May 22, 2006 ok... well i lowered it down to 2 choices: she likes me, or i creep her out. i say this because in one of the classes where i have her in i had to do a poster board presentation. she offered to people if they wanted her to hold her poster up. one of them was me. when it was my turn to present, she gave me a slient clap (she did to some other people too) as i was going up to the front, she asked me if i wanted her to hold my poster up, i said yes. (well i nodded) as she holded it up, i read the stuff off the poster. and i dont know if it was because i was too close or something, but i saw her keep looking at me out of the corner of my eye. after my presentation, the teacher asked if there was any questions and her friend asked me one. i answered it. then, at the last period i asked her if she did her science research project on the bubonic plauge she said yes but didnt look at me. i think i creeped her out... or i think she likes me... what do you guys think? Link to post Share on other sites
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