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here's my situation..

so i met this girl on an online dating site type thing, she lives in a different city a couple hours away. Anyways, she started messaging me through this dating site for a couple days and then eventually it escalated to msn, we've talked almost every day for the past couple of weeks. Now it's escalated to txt msg'ing, i havn't actually called her yet though. Anyways, this girl is extremely attractive and has no problem finding men, cause men litterally throw themselves at her, it's rediculous.

 

But that's not to take anything away from me, many of my male and female friends tell me i'm an attractive as well. Anyways, she started droping hints for me to go visit her, so i agreed to go in a couple weeks. Things are getting scary cause i actually see myself falling for this girl, something that i havn't experienced with another person for a very long time now. It seems like every woman i meet i'm automatically dis-interested, except her. Maybe theres some sort of correlation with her looks, i dunno, i'm not a typically shallow person. Anyways, i dunno what to do anymore, i'm not sure if she's just playing me or if she's actually interested, and personally, i think it's a little too early to approach the subject. I get these weird vibes sometimes, cause she doesn't ever txt me and rarely msg's me first on msn, but once we get going we talk for extended periods of time, but maybe i'm over analyzing.

 

It gets more complicated cause of the distance, i'm suppose to go see her, yet, i'm setting myself up for heart ache cause i know i couldn't possibly be with her, knowing it would be a long distance relationship. I get the impression this whole situation is based pretty much out of poor decision making, any advice would be appreciated. It's been a while since a woman's clouded my mind like this. thanks.