loveknot Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 I wonder what makes the sky blue!! It may sound like a high school love fever.. This girl in my class is flirting with me all the time - according to me. We' re both studying Spanish in a local institute. In the class, she is always looking at me and calls my name. She sometimes calls me........my friend.........and other girls look at her strangely. when day I was passing by her and she grabbed my hand and squeezed it - which I never expected her to flirt with me like that. Next day, she threw a note saying that she was bored. The most revealing part was when she told me that I was in a good shape. On the top of this ..she told me she has a boyfried. Im pretty confused.... Link to post Share on other sites
CardPlay3r Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 Maybe she's just naturally flirty, doesn't automatically mean she wants to bang you Link to post Share on other sites
alextop30 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 actually I am really sure that she is testing u first to see if u like her and second if you are really willing to go and get what you want. I believe that this is just like a defencive mechanism, saying something like "I like you but you have to work to get me" ofcoruse this is except if you see that mysiterious boyfriend of hers but if a gril is flirting all the time that must mean she likes you - she gives you compliments another heads up and her squieesing your hand means look I like you come on what you waiting for. My suggestion is go ahead move but do prosede with alertness to know more about that boyfriend but I am pretty shure that she used the boyfriend thing as defencive mechanism to me this happens a lot, I just tell the girl that I try to flirt with that I dont really want to be her boy friend even if she really wanted to get her off the tendency to use that lame line Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedSarah Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 she told me she has a boyfried. I never understtod why girls/gurls do this. It kind of makes me a bit mad when they do it also. What is the game they are trying to pull doing this to someone? Messing with someones emotions and feelings. In my opinion its a stupid sick game when people who are currently involved with someone does this. Maybe her and her boyfriend are not in a relationship any more which is why she is showing you attraction. You could always just come out and say "I thought you have a boyfriend". She will either say yes or no. If she does have a boyfriend then stick clear of this situation. She should not be doing any of this flirty stuff to you in the first place if she has a boyfriend. If she does not have a boyfriend then it is up to you to figure out what you want with this girl. Make sure you find out how long she has been broken up with her boyfriend (if she had a boyfriend). You don't want to be used as a rebound guy. Link to post Share on other sites
LN99 Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 Keep his in mind, if she has a bf and she's flirting w/ you: Who's to say that if she was with you, she wouldn't be doing this to some other guy who comes along and gets her interested? When people are in a relationship with someone else, its best to steer clear of them. I had a similiar situation where a guy who was in a relationship was being flirty with me. The min I heard him mention his gf, I stopped the flirting immediately and started avoiding him. Link to post Share on other sites
Dadaal Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 Perhaps, her boyfriend is not in a good shape. Link to post Share on other sites
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