Guest Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 Hay!!! my Boyfriend has just gone on a 4 month gap year around the world, befour he went i was breaking my heart and we couldnt talk about it as i got so upset. Now that hes gone just over a week when we talk on the phone its really starnge its like i am chatting to a friend. and i feel slightly cross with him and sota resentful thats hes just left me. i do love him but im worried that im falling out of love with him beause im not crying and our calls arent like they used to be when he was at home. if anyone can give me sum advice cuz i feel really down as i fink its me thats pushing him away. Thanx Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetie2007 Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 Hay!!! my Boyfriend has just gone on a 4 month gap year around the world, befour he went i was breaking my heart and we couldnt talk about it as i got so upset. Now that hes gone just over a week when we talk on the phone its really starnge its like i am chatting to a friend. and i feel slightly cross with him and sota resentful thats hes just left me. i do love him but im worried that im falling out of love with him beause im not crying and our calls arent like they used to be when he was at home. if anyone can give me sum advice cuz i feel really down as i fink its me thats pushing him away. Thanx what do you mean, a 4 month year? I don't get that, but anyway, what is the purpose of him leaving? Work? School? Pleasure? Could it be that you are resentful that he left, and is so far away? I know I felt feelings of resentment when my BF left the last time...it's not easy being apart. After a little while, I stopped crying too, though. Sometimes we can be hurt, more than we've ever been hurt, and still not cry. My BF for example, gets angry, frustrated, takes his anger out by playing video games, or beating on his little brother (hehe), or going for long walks with the dogs. He doesn't cry very often. He's cried more in the 2 years that I've known him than the 2 years previous, he says, I guess that's my fault, lol... but my point is, what your feeling and experiencing sounds normal! Just relax, tell your BF that you love him and miss him, plan for when your together again, talk about what you'll do, where you'll go. What I did, was I went shopping for our next meeting, bought a special outfit, you could do that and then ask your BF to do the same (if possible), then try guessing what each other will wear. It sounds weird, but creativity is what keeps the relationship interesting when you can't physically be together! Good luck, take care! Link to post Share on other sites
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