kate1977 Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 Need help, does anyone know what I can do, i suspect cocaine use on occasion from my fiance, sometimes when he is out late he acts like he has been doing something, he lies when he drinks too much or is drunk so he would probably lie about being on a drug, he used to do cocaine he says years ago but no longer ? He has a good friend who does it on occasion to, and maybe some others I think. Id say several times i have thought he did it but i cant find any way to prove it, a year ago on his cell phone once i saw a text messege, a girl wanted some nose candy and asked if he could get her some, I asked him and he said he had no idea why she asked him, I dont know if he did it or is currently but I need to figure it out..........My big question is what to look for, I once heard that its hidden in dollar bills or cigg carton?? where can i look, he works a normal job and i dont think he would leave with it? i dont know Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Well.... for between 15 and 25 bucks you can get a drug test kit from your local pharmacy. Some test for one particular drug and others test for a handfull or so. These are litmus type tests that require several drops of urine to run, also included in the price of the test are a mailing container where a positive can be sent off to be confirmed (you will need about an ounce for this one). Ofcourse you could just ask him for a sample without actually buying a kit and if he refuses or acts defensive you can bet there's probably some problem but you won't know exactly what drug you are dealing with. If my understanding is correct then if you sent a specimin of an initial positive in to be reviewed you will have a level which is a good indicator of the extent of drug use, if that matters to you. What do you intend to do if you find out he is using? Link to post Share on other sites
Author kate1977 Posted March 2, 2007 Author Share Posted March 2, 2007 I dont know, we are in a situation where we need to really save money right now and not spend a lot, so id be upset about that for one if he was spending money on it, and second off he used to have a bad problem years ago with it, so i hope he would not do it agian, he has told me he is not on it and ive asked before when i suspected he was on it, and he always says no and gets upset, but I just feel he is lying and im not sure if id ever get a urine test ......... i think its in and out of sys fairly fast or w/in 3 days. I just dont want that in my life and if i find out for sure he is on it id want him to stop and if he would not id leave Link to post Share on other sites
DyingHeart Posted March 3, 2007 Share Posted March 3, 2007 If you suspect he is doing it at home sometimes, then, I would say, put on that Sherlock Holmes hat and do a little investigating. If you have access to his wallet, check credit/ or other types of cards for any residue that may be left over. If you can't see anything, then taste it. If there is coke residue, your tongue will get slightly numb. Search his drawers, feel for lumps in socks ( it's amazing where people will hide things), look under the mattress, and in places you wouldn't think to look normally. If he is using and gets his coke in baggies, then they can be taped to any undersurface. Look under tables, chairs, under neath pulled out dresser drawers. Look under any surface items, such as a vase. Look inside the backs of picture frames. Check his clothing in the closet. Check all pockets. And of course, check the garbage. As disgusting as it may be, you may find something. If he has any locks on anything, and the brackets are held on by screws, then unscrew them to get into the locked...whatever. If he is doing this while he is out, wait for him to come home and leave plenty of lights on. Go to give him a kiss and take a peek at his eyes. If his pupils are dilated (large) in spite of the lighting, than there is a good chance that he's using. Also, if you have a chance, look up his nose. Maybe when he's sleeping. The nasal hairs will collect some of the powder and will be visible. (you may need to use a flashlight) I probably sound like a psycho, but I had to do this before with friends and family, and for friends who had suspicions. I'm a detective at heart. If you do find out he's using, see if you can get him help. If he doesn't want to or if he keeps denying it, then I'm sorry to say, that it's time to move on. Good luck hun, DH Link to post Share on other sites
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