Guest Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 My mind is about to explode.The highlights: 4 yrs with a man who always had internet women in the side, emailing them, IMing them while engaged to me, even actually cheating while engaged to me tho he called the engagement off for a few days. We lived together 3 yrs , this last yr was hell, he was bored, always starting fights, addicted to drama, I couldn't stand it plus I have two teenage daughters who didn't need to go thru this . I made him see a therapist, I had to go to make sure he didn't lie, she said he was passive aggressive, a manipulator, game player and was sabotaging our relationship.I kicked him out of my home last April, he lived at the homeless shelter, loved in there, lots of ppl paying attention to him especially when he would fake seizures which he's done to me before. He's even told me if I'm sick I'll stay there longer! Well, it didn't work, it was a church run shelter and they caught him on the internet sending pics of his privates to a woman and asking women for sex all AFTER we had gotten a marriage license!!! Well, to make a REAL long story short,he went to jail for harassing us, and for domestib violence and no trespassing. 3 months served. I also got an RO out for him.He never hit me but he ripped my soul to shreds, my life is a mess.Now I'm getting my life together looking for work, I'm on a dating site, one profile has looked like him for the past few weeks but I ignored it. Today that profile was deleted and he came back full force with the same screen name he had before.Now he's all Mr Holy Man, oh YES!! He was a born again Christian while cheating on me too. I can't figure this out. His profile is "GOD FIRST, THEN FRIENDS" yet he wants to meet a woman. What is up with the religious God stuff when in real life, he cheats lies constantly hurts ppl with no I'm sorry,wants to have sex with anyone and has from what I've heard and now he's sounding like a minister. And don't tell me he's changed because I've been thru this before with him. PLEASE HELP ME UNDERSTAND! Link to post Share on other sites
Love Hurts Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 My mind is about to explode.The highlights: 4 yrs with a man who always had internet women in the side, emailing them, IMing them while engaged to me, even actually cheating while engaged to me tho he called the engagement off for a few days. We lived together 3 yrs , this last yr was hell, he was bored, always starting fights, addicted to drama, I couldn't stand it plus I have two teenage daughters who didn't need to go thru this . I made him see a therapist, I had to go to make sure he didn't lie, she said he was passive aggressive, a manipulator, game player and was sabotaging our relationship.I kicked him out of my home last April, he lived at the homeless shelter, loved in there, lots of ppl paying attention to him especially when he would fake seizures which he's done to me before. He's even told me if I'm sick I'll stay there longer! Well, it didn't work, it was a church run shelter and they caught him on the internet sending pics of his privates to a woman and asking women for sex all AFTER we had gotten a marriage license!!! Well, to make a REAL long story short,he went to jail for harassing us, and for domestib violence and no trespassing. 3 months served. I also got an RO out for him.He never hit me but he ripped my soul to shreds, my life is a mess.Now I'm getting my life together looking for work, I'm on a dating site, one profile has looked like him for the past few weeks but I ignored it. Today that profile was deleted and he came back full force with the same screen name he had before.Now he's all Mr Holy Man, oh YES!! He was a born again Christian while cheating on me too. I can't figure this out. His profile is "GOD FIRST, THEN FRIENDS" yet he wants to meet a woman. What is up with the religious God stuff when in real life, he cheats lies constantly hurts ppl with no I'm sorry,wants to have sex with anyone and has from what I've heard and now he's sounding like a minister. And don't tell me he's changed because I've been thru this before with him. PLEASE HELP ME UNDERSTAND! Demons know the word of God. Demons are fallen Angels. They were with Chirst in Heaven; before their fall. Yes they know the word of God. Can you expect less of a man that is possessed with demons? How dare I say that? This man is a deceiver of many isn’t he? He also hides under God as he does his bidding. He is a wolf in sheeps clothing. For you I pray your eyes be opened to see you do not only deal with the flesh but of the powers and principalities of this world. There is a spiritual battle that goes on daily for the souls of men. Recall the kiss of affection. (Judas kissed Jesus as a means of handing Him over to Satan) What is really behind the kiss? Jesus knew; but we can be fooled. Beware of the kiss on the cheek and a knife in your back. Matthew 10:16 Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves. Life is more than we can see, Satan is out to deceive many and Jesus is calling us home. Take your focus off man he will fail you and let you down. Put your focus on Jesus, He alone will renew you, and guide you through the storms of life. Fearlessly! God Bless* Link to post Share on other sites
CardPlay3r Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Well guest, it is called hypocrisy and many many, perhaps most religious people have it. They do not practice what they preach, or conveniently choose parts of the religion to practice and demand of others to practice while ignoring other parts. Just a quick example as there are many others, look at the people that support the death penalty, wars where millions are killed etc. and you will find most are religious Link to post Share on other sites
crazy_grl Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Why does it matter why he's doing it? You know he hasn't changed (or is there some part of you hoping he has) and that you should be done with him, so be done with him. Stop thinking about him and his motivations. Ignore him. He sounds like scum. Who cares why he's scum. All that matters is that he is and you're living a scum-free existance. Link to post Share on other sites
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