milvushina Posted March 2, 2007 Share Posted March 2, 2007 On the occassion that our 1 year anniversary is coming up, I have to blab to someone about how great my husband is! My friends are sick of hearing about it, I'm sure. I bought him a Playboy 50 years: The photographs and a garden sundial for our anniversary (paper and a clock are the traditional and modern 1 year gifts). Here is why he rocks so much: He set up our extra TV in the living room even though it looks bad in there, so I can be in the same room with him and still play my video games. When I start cleaning or doing chores, he starts doing stuff too. When I cook a meal, he comes in the kitchen and talks to me and we end up chatting while we both do the work. He gets interested in things I'm interested in. If I am excited about a book I read, he'll read it (or try to) so he can talk to me about it. When he buys lunch during work, he always calls or emails and offers to bring me something. He's really nice to all of my friends and family. He never says anything bad about me in front of people, even joking. He says a lot of good things, people say he seems really proud of me. He's very laid back, never jealous, never tries to be bossy, never flirts with other women or checks them out when I am with him. He tells me he loves me about 15 times a day. He gives me head every day. He is a (almost freakishly) good listener. One year during holidays I mentioned my mom likes raspberry chipotle dressing, and a year later he remembered! He always remembers little details of things I mention, but never uses his memory for evil. I could keep going, but I won't. That is all. I just wanted to brag about it. Link to post Share on other sites
LaughMachine Posted March 2, 2007 Share Posted March 2, 2007 On the occassion that our 1 year anniversary is coming up, I have to blab to someone about how great my husband is! My friends are sick of hearing about it, I'm sure. I bought him a Playboy 50 years: The photographs and a garden sundial for our anniversary (paper and a clock are the traditional and modern 1 year gifts). Here is why he rocks so much: He set up our extra TV in the living room even though it looks bad in there, so I can be in the same room with him and still play my video games. When I start cleaning or doing chores, he starts doing stuff too. When I cook a meal, he comes in the kitchen and talks to me and we end up chatting while we both do the work. He gets interested in things I'm interested in. If I am excited about a book I read, he'll read it (or try to) so he can talk to me about it. When he buys lunch during work, he always calls or emails and offers to bring me something. He's really nice to all of my friends and family. He never says anything bad about me in front of people, even joking. He says a lot of good things, people say he seems really proud of me. He's very laid back, never jealous, never tries to be bossy, never flirts with other women or checks them out when I am with him. He tells me he loves me about 15 times a day. He gives me head every day. He is a (almost freakishly) good listener. One year during holidays I mentioned my mom likes raspberry chipotle dressing, and a year later he remembered! He always remembers little details of things I mention, but never uses his memory for evil. I could keep going, but I won't. That is all. I just wanted to brag about it. Wow I never new such a good husband could exisit. Be thankful that you have that. Man I hope I get that one day:) Link to post Share on other sites
Mirage222 Posted March 2, 2007 Share Posted March 2, 2007 He never says anything bad about me in front of people, even joking. He's very laid back, never jealous, never tries to be bossy, never flirts with other women or checks them out when I am with him. So does he say bad things about you behind closed doors then? That what your saying? ha-ha! I am kidding!!!! I am happy for you! My relationship is much like yours and like you, I could not be happier! Link to post Share on other sites
StayClose Posted March 2, 2007 Share Posted March 2, 2007 You are a freaking awesome wife. Unfortunately, most women, when they meet a man like your husband, will tell him "You're a nice guy, but I like you only as a friend." Link to post Share on other sites
Je Ne Regrette Rien Posted March 2, 2007 Share Posted March 2, 2007 It's so refreshing to read a post like this! I hope this is the first of many years of happiness for you appreciating both the big and small things you both bring to each other. On a site where it is possible for singletons (like me) to wonder why marriage seems like such a bad idea, its posts like these that open up the possibility that there are marriages out there that do work Thanks for sharing Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted March 2, 2007 Share Posted March 2, 2007 I have to agree. On a site where we all read horror stories daily it's nice to read something positive every once in a while. Link to post Share on other sites
princessa Posted March 2, 2007 Share Posted March 2, 2007 Hahah yeah it's true we need more positivity here... And more hope... Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 2, 2007 Share Posted March 2, 2007 He set up our extra TV in the living room even though it looks bad in there, I would not stand for this sort of crap. (I take my feng shui very seriously.) Link to post Share on other sites
Kimi Posted March 2, 2007 Share Posted March 2, 2007 Thanks for your post. I'm happy for you! ... and it gives others (like myself)some hope that there are still wonderful men out there that know how to treat the one that they love Link to post Share on other sites
jl5099 Posted March 7, 2007 Share Posted March 7, 2007 I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOOO JEALOUS!!!!!! All relationships should be that way. I just hope you can keep it that way!! Link to post Share on other sites
Mythical Posted March 7, 2007 Share Posted March 7, 2007 I agree with everyone above! lol I was actually waiting fr the big turn around about being bad and thaught maybe your post was sarcasstic. I am very happy for you and have been so beyond sick of seeing posts of bad marriges and cheating. That is one of my biggest fears that it is IMPOSSIBLE but now we know its not completely! He's not gay?/ lol j/k Your a lucky girl Link to post Share on other sites
dropdeadlegs Posted March 7, 2007 Share Posted March 7, 2007 Head every day? E-V-E-R-Y day? I'm awestruck. He is awesome, and thanks for the positive post in an often negative world. Link to post Share on other sites
Author milvushina Posted March 8, 2007 Author Share Posted March 8, 2007 Head every day? E-V-E-R-Y day? I'm awestruck. He is awesome, and thanks for the positive post in an often negative world. Thanks! Now maybe I am being a little naive, but don't most guys love to do this? I'm sure there's exceptions, but he really does offer pretty much every day. The majority of the time I do take him up on it.. He's also nice enough to pay attention to my personal pet peeves. Like washing beard hair off the sink and putting the toilet seat down. This must mean I've been doing something right too, huh? Link to post Share on other sites
Krytellan Posted March 8, 2007 Share Posted March 8, 2007 He's lucky to have someone who appreciates him enough to talk about him like this. I wish more women cared about and appreciated good men. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted March 8, 2007 Share Posted March 8, 2007 It makes me happy to read this and it is good to see a woman that can appreciate a good man. I am happy for you that you can find somebody like that. My wife is the female version of that. Link to post Share on other sites
dropdeadlegs Posted March 8, 2007 Share Posted March 8, 2007 Thanks! Now maybe I am being a little naive, but don't most guys love to do this? I'm sure there's exceptions, but he really does offer pretty much every day. The majority of the time I do take him up on it.. He's also nice enough to pay attention to my personal pet peeves. Like washing beard hair off the sink and putting the toilet seat down. This must mean I've been doing something right too, huh? Oh boy. I think I have an awesome boyfriend, but he does leave the seat up on occasion, and the mustache hairs aren't in the sink, but often left around it. He has lived alone for so long, and I don't live with him, so I don't get too bent about any of that. There are some men that do not give oral, but I do think most do. I love it, but only get it about once weekly. Then again, since we don't live together we don't have the opportunity daily. But I'm still happy for you! Link to post Share on other sites
americat Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 Come back when it has been at least 10.. lol.. but it looks like you are off to a great start so keep it up! BTW, if things are this great, why are you here ?? Why the need to make you feel better about your relationship by reading all the drama? Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 Hey Milvushina, I assume by this thread you have sorted out the other issues you were posting about, which is GREAT! Happy anniversary. I too am in a very happy R with a great guy. I wasn't when I first joined up to LS, but I still like being here and reading about others problems and offering advice. It is good to keep perspective and appreciate what I have got too, esp when am re-reading my old posts, or others posts who are in awful situations. (not to devalue those in any way however) Link to post Share on other sites
Author milvushina Posted March 9, 2007 Author Share Posted March 9, 2007 I feel the same way, sb. There are a lot of wise people that post here. Of course we do have problems, pretty tame and boring in comparison to stuff normally posted on Love Shack, but I still get good advice. Strangers can be really insightful, you know? Some things are easier to hear from strangers. Ok I will be back in ten years.. ha ha Link to post Share on other sites
johnlucas Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 This post makes me happy. And this is coming from a guy who doesn't believe in marriage. I'm not so jaded as to think relationships like these can't happen & when I hear of such it makes me...happy. It's very simple actually. If a woman TRULY appreciated a good man, there would be more good men out there. If a man TRULY appreciated a good woman, there would be more good women out there. It's as simple as world peace can be. Problem is getting the people to DO this. Congratulations milvushina! And yes most men worth their salt DO love to do that. That's how you show love. You want to receive it, you give it. Very simple. John Lucas Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 I am completely happy for you and totally envious at the same time. Thanks for posting such a nice post about your guy. It sounds like you aren't the only one that is lucky in that relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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