VinaAmez Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 Well, you're horny so it's normal to think of any man you meet right now, given that you're single. If you're not single then you're not sexually and emotionally satisfied with your partner. You don't become a slut from fantasizing about many men. Once you find one to please you, you'll stop thinking about others. Yep I agree. I would kill to have a ton of variety. I think women are taught that it's not ok to sleep around that's why everyone sticks with the safe response that they only want their boyfriend. Not me. I would sleep with just about every guy I came in contact with if it wasn't for STD's. I think it's safe to say that guys are not safe with you in that department, lol! I am the horniest man alive... whats FWB... what ever it is Ill do it...wow mythical that was great your that much hotter to me.. as for the Horniest women alive bring it on come have some sex in the city... What is this a competition? Gezz...lol! I would hate to see who posts the "I'm the least horniest man/women alive."
RecordProducer Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 Yep I agree. And I agree that you agree with me. I would hate to see who posts the "I'm the least horniest man/women alive."You can't say "least horniest" - but if it was meant to be funny, it's funny!
Storyrider Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 So is there a chance that we will see the horniest children alive someday? I think that might be the weirdest thing you've ever said.
Author pink smartie Posted March 5, 2007 Author Posted March 5, 2007 Fortunately I know how to use a condom and take a pill so horniest children alive not for awhile still. Makes me wonder how I would tell my kids about sexuality though. Ok. Get a boyfriend. easier said then done. Right now, it's looking for a boyfriend that is landing me into trouble. I see a lot of potential boyfriend material in a lot of guys and then I see a lot of sex romp material in a lot of guys. What I am trying to say is that I don't know how to handle both. I don't know how to handle being attracted to a lot of guys. I mean, I usually hold off when they hit on me, a few kisses and I'm out of there, but it's getting harder and harder to handle. And not one of them really strikes me as 'the one'. Most of them strike me as 'potentially a good time and who knows what else'. I worry that I am becoming too cynical for innocent romance.
The_Hermit_of_GA Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 I'm amazed. All my life I'd always thought only men got horny, and women just tolerated them for the sake of their relationships. But it makes me wonder, if women do get so aroused, in these liberated days, why do they not show it as openly toward men as men always have toward women? And with the way men aggressively pursue women, I would think it'd be extremely easy for women to get new partners any time they want. This must be a very naive question... but how is it that I read posts from so many women who seem to have difficulty satisfying their urges?
Author pink smartie Posted March 5, 2007 Author Posted March 5, 2007 I'm amazed. All my life I'd always thought only men got horny, and women just tolerated them for the sake of their relationships. But it makes me wonder, if women do get so aroused, in these liberated days, why do they not show it as openly toward men as men always have toward women? And with the way men aggressively pursue women, I would think it'd be extremely easy for women to get new partners any time they want. This must be a very naive question... but how is it that I read posts from so many women who seem to have difficulty satisfying their urges? Are you talking about women in relationships or single women? I'm single and I would prefer to find a bf to share my libido with then to take my chances on a series of strangers. See, the way I see it, if I do go around satisfying my urges anytime I want, I might get myself a reputation which a potential partner might have a hard time overlooking. And I'm sure you've heard the rumor that says that men loose interests if you sleep with them too soon. In my case, I would not want to ruin a potentially good thing with a guy because he might lose interest or worst yet judge me because I slept with him too soon. Not to mention that it's been my experience that guys are much better lovers when they are into me then when they think of me as a disposable sex toy. Why do guys do this? Why would guys dismiss women because we have a sex drive? WHY OH WHY CAN I NOT JUST SLEEP WITH THE FIRST COME SINGLE GEEKY GLASSES WEARING BUSINESS OFFICER I MEET?
Green Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 U dont sound so horny... you sound like some one whos worried about thinking of herself or being thought of as a pervert or slutt. cmon girl flirt it up with those guys ur fantisizing about live life for present you, and dont screw things over for future you. I am the true HMA
hardknocks Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 Take your horny-ness and multiply it by 10 .. and then you will know what it's like to be a guy.
Author pink smartie Posted March 5, 2007 Author Posted March 5, 2007 bang on KMT. I am worried about my reputation. How very Scarlett O'hara of me. But maybe you are right. Sometimes I think I should just go with it and see where it leads. But you have to understand that I'm a 28 year old woman who grew up bombarded by messages that distinguished sluts from girlfriend material. Take your horny-ness and multiply it by 10 .. and then you will know what it's like to be a guy. You sure about that? Or does it just suit guys better to claim they are hornier so that the responsibility for the decision to have sex or not falls onto the woman? No actually, I believe you that men are hornier. And that actually reassures me because it means there's a good chance they'd love to see me naked too! In the few months I have been a member of LS, I have seen countless posts of women freaked out because they had had sex too early with a guy and he had stopped calling and of guys having a hard time dealing with some aspect of their partner's sexual past (be it one night stands or the number of partners). There is a double standard unfortunately. But hey, maybe I will start I'am a lady and I'm horny club. See where it takes us. Maybe I just need to accept that hey, right now I'm single and there is nor harm in enjoying variety. Food for thoughts.
Trialbyfire Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 While I'm sure the physical is appealing to you, are you certain you're not confusing a need for intimacy, for the physical?
Author pink smartie Posted March 5, 2007 Author Posted March 5, 2007 While I'm sure the physical is appealing to you, are you certain you're not confusing a need for intimacy, for the physical? You may have a point. I am going to try to think it through. I do think it's a bit of both. I did say horniest - not sluttiest (no judgement though). I do prefer sex within the confines of intimate relationships. And I think it's the desire for intimacy that is keeping me from actually jumping into bed with every man I meet. Right now a desire for intimacy is over-riding my physical desires if you will. I mean, I do know the difference between sex and intimacy. The thing right now is that I am attracted to almost every guy I meet. They all intrigue me, I love their scents and I really have to fight my impulses when it comes to sex. In fact, I don't always. Last week I had my first one night stand which seemed to only make me hornier. But while I enjoyed the action, I wasn't very confortable with it afterwards because of the reputation thing. Also perhaps because I am used to intimacy.
Pyro Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 I think that might be the weirdest thing you've ever said. Well, we all have our moments.
Storyrider Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 Well, we all have our moments. You can say that again (but please don't).
Pyro Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 You can say that again (but please don't). No problem.
NY2NJ Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 I have to agree with Ms PS, I find myself attracted to corporate women in the last year or so. I have about 10+ years on you, so we are close in maturity. I am not thinking about the 19 year old receptionist, but the SVP of marketing. She's a few years older than I am but has a tight bod and seems to be trolling for some attention that she isn't seeing at home. Most of these guys are in viagra land and wouldn't know what to do if they had a shot. I would love a constant FWB with a discrete, sharp corporate woman who had half the energy I do - but knew exactly what she wanted. Is this normal for pushing 40? My ex told me that 4 times a day is unnatural and that I needed focus on other things. And yes, I fit the corporate geek stereotype - i.e. a younger James Spader with glasses in a pinstripe suit. Am I off base here, or just a little behind the curve?
Green Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 now were getting some where her first one night stand eh. she seems too have a thing for skinny geeky guys I know. She wants some one to ride her hard and long, and often.
632nnj Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 I started feeling attracted to corporate-profile women at my office about a year ago. Not the 19 year old receptionist, but the SVP of marketing. 45 years old, tight package and looking for some attention that she wasn't getting at home. Here is the exact issue that you need to be careful of - the fact that she was looking did not stay a secret for very long. She became a regular at a chain restaurant bar/lounge and word spread. I would love to find a sharp corporate, woman who takes care of herself for a FWB arrangement. I am single, now pushing 40 and seem to have hit a second peak in the drive department. My ex gf recommended we go to therapy to get an objective opinion because in her opinion "4 times a day is unnatural and that I need to get some other interests". Maybe its me, maybe there is something to the geek/intelligence curve. I look a bit like a younger James Spader with glasses and a pinstripe suit, and fit the rest of the profile to a T. Maybe this is an ironic twist to all of the women who blew me off years ago?
Lostgurl Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 Where is KMT? I would have thought he would have sniffed this thread out a mile away... we have found his soulmate! You ain't kiddin! Maybe she already has him tied to her bed posts
RecordProducer Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 "4 times a day I look a bit like a younger James Spader with glasses and a pinstripe suit, Maybe this is an ironic twist to all of the women who blew me off years ago?
stillafool Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 I would prefer to find one guy to share the drive with (hmmmm, sharing the drive). In fact, I want a guy I can have a serious relationship with. But I've been running into trouble in the process of looking for that one guy because I find something appealing about a lot a lot of guys. So I guess my attraction to many men is not just physical. But it does get physical rather fast. The presenter in afore mentioned board meeting was very skinny and had huge geeky glasses on. I still wanted to see him naked. In fact, I thought the geeky look was quite a turn-on. In the past, I used to always have only one guy I was interested in. I'm thinking that what's going on is that I have yet to find that one guy that I could have a serious crush on that would kind of make me 'monogamous'. And I want to say that I have been in two relationships, one 3 years and one 4, and never had a problem with monogamy. And yes, Mythical, LOL, I sneaked off this morning to masturbate at work. And I dream about sex all the time. So I am on the dating scene. How do I handle trying to find that one guy when there are so many guy out there I'm attracted too? I don't know why you want to settle on one guy when it is clear you want to screw them all. I say stay single and get all of this out of your system before you get in a relationship and end up hurting some guy. There's nothing wrong with the way you feel about men as long as you stay single, don't involve anyone's emotions, and use condoms.
Pretty Fly Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 I don't know why you want to settle on one guy when it is clear you want to screw them all. I say stay single and get all of this out of your system before you get in a relationship and end up hurting some guy. There's nothing wrong with the way you feel about men as long as you stay single, don't involve anyone's emotions, and use condoms. Yeah, make sure the guy understands the situation beforehand - ie no strings
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