Guest Posted March 3, 2007 Share Posted March 3, 2007 I'm writing this in tears... the only remaining family member I have (my brother) has repeatedly stabbed me in the back and done things to me to the point I can no longer remain on good terms. My parents and older brother have all passed away leaving me (I'm 44) and another brother (52) as the only remaining family members other than my neice. My so-called brother forced me to perform oral sex on him when I was about 6 years old (of course he claims no memory whatsoever of it). But I've never forgotten. My whole life he's talked bad about me behind my back to other people and has been disrespectful to me my entire life. We can be together and he'll say "Oh I saw this hot chick with a tight little ass the other day...".... I'm his SISTER - is it normal for a brother to say things like this? He thinks it's amusing and I'm impressed - I find it repulsive and gross. I told him to not talk this way around me that I'm his sister and it's disrespectful - he got angry and starting slinging mud and acting like an ***. He's also an alchoholic - and when he drinks he gets worse. He's threatened me and called me names, he flung the F-bomb around in front of my young son and has gotten extremely ugly. I am repulsed by him and don't want anything to do with him. Anytime we try to mend fences he starts in with the "this girl across the street keeps flirting with me and she sure has a great set of t*ts"..... Some brother....... he seems to think he does nothing wrong and will cut me down if I confront him about his drinking or foul mouth. So I'm cutting ties once and for all.......he can rot. He's stabbed me in the back too - he's ripped me off and taken things from me that he won't give back. When my mom and dad died he took everything and I got nothing. My older brother was dying of cancer and he screwed him over and refused to help him or be there for him. Basically I've got no family and distant relatives that I do have he's said things to them about me behind my back to make me look like this bad person so I don't speak to any of them. I finally confronted my brother about the molestation when I was little and he denied it. It felt good to get it out after all these years because he's always acted like I forgot about it or didn't remember.......... I never told a soul until right here and now. I was just a little girl....I looked up to him and he's done nothing but belittle me and treat me like crap. I just don't care anymore - I hate his guts. It sucks not to have family. Link to post Share on other sites
CardPlay3r Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 You need to completely cut him off from your life. Then get counseling to deal with your childhood sexual abuse. Link to post Share on other sites
lonelybird Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 I couldn't believe this when I read your post. Your brother don't seem have a soul. Can't you live a place very far from him? Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 Sadly, we can even have toxic relationships with family members. But you should do the same is if this was anybody else repeatedly treating you badly in your life- cut him out of it. He doesn't deserve to have family if that is the way he treats them. I know its tough, but there are lots of people out there who will love you and care for you even if they aren't related to you. Where is your son's dad? how does he feel if he is still in your life? Link to post Share on other sites
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