LN99 Posted March 3, 2007 Share Posted March 3, 2007 I am a pretty quiet person. I really don't talk much about anything really "into detail" about my personal life or relationships at school. Anyways... My classmates were joking around about their fustrations and lack of sex life because of college and I made the comment (right in front of a guy I'm semi attracted to)that they should "speak for themselves".( I opened my big mouth and regret it.) I was mainly just joking(honestly I have been abstinent for quite awhile), but he in turn told me...."well there goes that mystique about you." in a dead pan voice. Then he got all quiet and told me he would pretend I never said that. He was all serious about it. What do you think that means? Do you think he was possibly interested and then that comment I made totally turned him off? I suspected he was attracted to me at one time, but i wasn't quite sure. Do you think this indicates anything? I mean I didn't say much, but it indicated a lot, mainly that I'm in a sexual relationship. I don't understand why he would get all weird like that when we were ALL just joking around. Also, I want to add that he has a gf(an LDR). So, I don't see what the big deal was that I said that! I just don't understand it.... Link to post Share on other sites
charlotte101 Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 Personally, I think that he (like you) might of been joking.... how has he been around you since? Link to post Share on other sites
Author LN99 Posted March 10, 2007 Author Share Posted March 10, 2007 He has been quiet and dettached ever since. Now he really doesn't say much to me. Also he brings up the gf even more. But you know what, the fact he has a gf is enough to make me realize that he is off limits. But, honestly, whats the big deal if Im "getting some." I swear, it makes no sense. Its like whatever element of interest he had is gone now. I guess thats probably a good thing. Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedSarah Posted March 10, 2007 Share Posted March 10, 2007 Sounds really confusing, I agree! You are right, he is off limits so I don't think you should really be dwelling on it all that much. What you said was said and done, nothing more you can do about it now, you can not take it back now, but he should have took it as a joke rather than serious as you were all just joking around any way. Link to post Share on other sites
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