magichands Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 No one ever does something nice for someone (sexually unrelated) just because? It happened to me once, but it was just a mistake (I got them mixed up with somebody else). Link to post Share on other sites
pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 It happened to me once, but it was just a mistake (I got them mixed up with somebody else). Oh I could see how your trunk got in the way... Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 So in general people use friends to get what they want from that person and always expect something in return to keep the friendship going. No one ever does something nice for someone (sexually unrelated) just because? So who ever I feel comfortable with (male speaking) enought to have a conversation with on a general basis is just someone that I want to bed? Ha I don't think so... From the male perspective I could see this to be the case, but at the same time there are men and women who can remain friends without expecting anything. Those are the beliefs of a bitter pessimist......... Link to post Share on other sites
pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 Good point NJ. I am sure that once all of us get married and/or start a family or we take off with our careers, we will see less of each other. Always looking at the half empty glass Alpha, as usual. I know that this doesn't imply to everyone because not everyone is capable of this, or is not mature/too-close minded for it, but people are capable of having friendships with the opposite sex. Anyone who doesn't think that it is possible has probably been burned in the past by it, or they just view the opposite sex as just sex and nothing else. Basically they don't give two sh*ts about them unless they know that they are going to get some from them. Well said! Link to post Share on other sites
pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 And Riddler based on your current pic... looks like you have been spending too much time in the sun and have you taken a trip lately... did they not let you take your toothpaste on the plane with you. ah and when you landed they were all sold out.. LOL Reguardless I would rather spend time with you in any form then a Alphamale glass half empty kind of guy Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 Unlike some, I can look at women in more ways then just a "piece of meat." You're something special, for sure, Rid. Not unlike a randy vegetarian in that respect. http://tinyurl.com/2xb5wm Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 And Riddler based on your current pic... looks like you have been spending too much time in the sun and have you taken a trip lately... did they not let you take your toothpaste on the plane with you. ah and when you landed they were all sold out.. LOL Reguardless I would rather spend time with you in any form then a Alphamale glass half empty kind of guy Just getting in the St. Patricks Day spirit. I cleaned up in my profile pic though. They had a special on toothpaste at the store today. Link to post Share on other sites
pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 You're something special, for sure, Rid. Not unlike a randy vegetarian in that respect. http://tinyurl.com/2xb5wm Very lovely... But my first thought is why is th woman all one color and the man is multiple colors... I wonder what the artist was thinking? Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 Well said! *Riddler takes a bow.* You're something special, for sure, Rid. Not unlike a randy vegetarian in that respect. http://tinyurl.com/2xb5wm! I can always count on you to put the icing on the cake. Link to post Share on other sites
pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 I will never look at vegetables the same way again... Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 But my first thought is why is th woman all one color and the man is multiple colors... I wonder what the artist was thinking? I guess the woman is pure. And about to be betrayed by carrot legs, who was just after a quick pull. Link to post Share on other sites
pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 and to top it off that is one tight buttox... Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 and to top it off that is one tight buttox... I don't know... one could easily park a mountain bike in there. Link to post Share on other sites
PinkPoison Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 I use to think males and females could be friends with nothing else until I started to have feelings for a friend of mine, that I had been friends with for over eight years. I have been dating the same guy for five years and he is now the father of my only child. I was in highschool when I was preg. with her and if I would miss school because I was sick he would make a point to come over after school to check on me. We have always been JUST friends. About six months ago I think it kinda crossed the friendship line. We have never kissed or anything but there has been serious flirting and he now comes to my house atleast once a week. My boyfriend knows that we hang out and has no problem with it, his girlfriend use to have no problem with it. But the other day I was shopping and him and his gf were in the mall also and he looked at me and just simply said "hey" and walked away. I could tell she didn't seem to thrilled. The weird thing is he was at my house the day before. It bothers me that we are now at the point where he can't talk to me infront of his girlfriend. The way he avoided me felt like we were having some sort of secret relationship and he didnt want his gf to see him talking to me. So I am not real sure if a guy and a girl cant JUST be friends... Link to post Share on other sites
Teacher's Pet Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 Most of my closest friends are women (with 3 of them being on LS!)..... When I find myself the right woman, it will not change ANY of my friendships. Why should it? Where was "my new girl" when I was getting dumped by my ex? My friends were there. Where was "my new girl" when I was drunk off my ass New Years Eve and crying like a little bitch? Ariawoman was there. LOL Where was "my new girl" when my cat died? My friends called, texted, and emailed me the nicest thoughts. Now, when I'm in a new relationship, why should I expect less from my friends then? And for that matter, I've always tried to be there for my friends when they've needed me. Why should that stop just because I'm getting laid? I treat my female friends like they are an important part of my life (which they are). In fact, the only thing I do differently with a girlfriend is bang the hell out of her, and cuddle naked. Yes, I have, and do enjoy snuggling (clothed) with female friends. It's fun (and a cheap, non-cheating thrill). When you are as cute and soft as I am, you become an easy cuddle-target. The advantage my friends have is that they don't have to hear me snore, unless I pass out at their place after drinking. The DISadvantage my female friends have is that when I'm in a relationship, I make them listen to my graphic sex stories. But that's the beauty of friendship with women. If a girl can tell me all about a guy who ejaculated on various parts of her anatomy, she can hear about how I made some lucky gal call me "daddy". -tp not that it ever happened........ Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 In theory men and women should be able to be friends. Reality is different though. I agree with AlphaMale, there's little point to establishing a purely platonic friendship with someone of the opposite sex. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 In theory men and women should be able to be friends. Reality is different though. I agree with AlphaMale, there's little point to establishing a purely platonic friendship with someone of the opposite sex. I have made really good female friends here some of whom I consider among my closest friends. I think in the three dimensional world it is more difficult. Also, the emotional bond between the two people of the opposite sex feels different. I don't like hearing about their sex lives whereas with my male friends I couldn't care less. Sometimes its out of embarassment, but sometimes I feel a subtle jealousy. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 There's no way I could become very close friends with a girl unless there's some kind of spark between us, but even so such a thing is rare. I do have a few female friends however, and we talk once in awhile (or once in a blue moon) - however if any one of them jumped into a relationship with a guy, our friendship would have to die off or become acquantances. Even so, the female friends I do have wind up playing games every now and then...which is why i stress its almost pointless in having female friends. women are only good for making out and sex..thats it. Link to post Share on other sites
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