Guest58 Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 Here is my story i broke up with my ex-gf a year ago we were together 1 year+ and today suppose to be our 2nd year but we didn make it so we broke nc today and sms each other i told her that do u still remember whats the date today and she said of coz how can i forget its suppose to be our 2nd year she said lol and she had a bf now.. so i asked out for a drink and she agreed!!i was shocked so we met up and have a drink conversation went very well we laugh we play cards and she lied to her bf that she went out with her friends...she told me that she wanted to buy me a present zippo lighter which cost alot coz yesterday is my bday..so what do u guys think abt my ex-gf.? Is she still like me think of me sometimes or wanted to get back together..She told me she pray for me most of the night and i told her that too.. can any1 tell me wats going on ? Link to post Share on other sites
notmakingsense Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 She is simply showing you that the door to friendship or maybe something more is still open. If you broke up with her a year ago, it is up to you to decide whether or not there is anything new that is different about you or her that would allow the relationship to succeed a second time around. Don't pursue this if you think you will just be unhappy again. What were the reasons for the break-up in the first place? Link to post Share on other sites
scubafish Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 you mentioned she has a bf now? I would think you maybe you could try the friendship, until she breaks it off with him, but it is not good to pursue her until then. It could cause grief and guilt for her, him and you all at once. that is not a good way to start a relationship again. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest58 Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 Yea she had a bf now but i have no idea why she agreed to meet up with me and dont tell her bf and she lied him abt it. She kind of flirty with me when we chat like bringing up last time good memory stuff when we were together a year ago..She even asked me to tell her what i pray for her everynight so things could be so much easier for us she said..i dont know what is that suppose to mean. She even asked me to bring her out when i get my license soon. She is a very nice girl loving girl emotional girl and a very attractive girl. we broke a year ago bcz we had alot fight n after the break-up we both had gf and bf at the same time till today we finally meet up after a year.We had broke nc every 2 to 3 months until the date my birthday she sent me a happy brithday wish with my full name on it after 12am! So early!.. All her friends wishing me after her and also i heard one of her friends said that she already looking for my gift 1 month ago before my b'day.Arent she love her bf now ?If she love her bf she would'nt lie to her bf and came out to meet me right ? Im same age with her but her bf now is older 5 years from her they were together almost half year. That makes me no confidence bcz she dating a bf which older than me. Thats bothering me. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest58 Posted March 7, 2007 Share Posted March 7, 2007 Can any1 help me pls ? What is she thinking ? Link to post Share on other sites
jusified Posted March 8, 2007 Share Posted March 8, 2007 a girl that lies to her boyfriend isn't worth pursueing, not to mention a second chance. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest58 Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 a girl that lies to her boyfriend isn't worth pursueing, not to mention a second chance. Maybe she doesnt love her maybe she love her ? i dunno..Im her first love though Link to post Share on other sites
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