Kwo-ne'-she Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 That's a great point. But, thinking about it some more, I'm a bit surprised that some cases weren't similar, or there wasn't a case that seemed almost like history was repeating itself. If a case were similar, they wouldn't be different. And if history repeats itself, is that called a rerun? Can we just hit the pause button, because we already know how it ends? Is it wrong to get up and make popcorn during, since we already know the script of what is happening, and therefor won't miss much? Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 If a case were similar' date=' they wouldn't be different. And if history repeats itself, is that called a rerun? Can we just hit the pause button, because we already know how it ends? Is it wrong to get up and make popcorn during, since we already know the script of what is happening, and therefor won't miss much?[/quote'] Was that as good for you, as it was for me? Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 There is something in the air tonight... Mmm popcorn. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 I think the kicker is when one of you knows it is goodbye, and the other doesn't. Being on the wrong side of that misunderstanding will crush your heart to a pulp. Link to post Share on other sites
Kwo-ne'-she Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 Was that as good for you, as it was for me? Read the reviews tomorrow when I post them. Link to post Share on other sites
Kwo-ne'-she Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 There is something in the air tonight... Mmm popcorn. Humor. My favorite thing in the world. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 Read the reviews tomorrow when I post them. Oh. Yeah. I get your point. I think I'm still getting aftershocks, too. Link to post Share on other sites
Kwo-ne'-she Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 Oh. Yeah. I get your point. I think I'm still getting aftershocks, too. I need a cigarette. And a shower. Link to post Share on other sites
CaterpillarGirl Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 I was actually on the receiving end of this situation. One minute we're having a good time, then afterwards he's like "I don't love you. We should break up." I have no further insight for you than that, but just wanted to point out it's not necessarily a girl thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 Ok women come forth and tell the truth. I have never seen this mentioned on LS....but it happens to guys a lot. Just when a gal gives a guy a serious romp, she dumps him like a hot rock. In hindsight, it is obvious to the guy she knew what was coming next, no pun intended:laugh: Although, extremely baffling why someone would have one more romp after the decision is made to move on. It happened to me, I have known it to happen to a married guy when the wife decided to leave, also many other situations where the woman knows she is outta there and this seems to really blindside a guy. But, I see a pattern here and I call it the goodbye f*ck. Now, explain to me what this is all about:confused: So far as I know, guys do not do this with the flair women seem to put into it. That phenomina is so weird. I had the goodbye f*ck in my two previous relationships and I still don't undertand it. Link to post Share on other sites
oppath Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 My recent ex persisted she did have feelings for me but did this. I suppose we had a "discussion" (not a fight) the week before, and when I saw her the next weekend everything seems fine. We're holding hands, flirting, kissing, wrapping our arms around each other for hours out in public. At the aquarium she'd even say stuff like "I can't find this fish. If you can find it I'll give you a kiss." We get back to my place, I try to initiate sex and WHAM! We need to talk. In her mind's eye she was acting loving, because it was difficult for her to break up and she did care about me. In my eye it was deceptive! It was wrong! It was selfish! Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 One minute we're having a good time, I would like to understand this part a bit better. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 We just realise that long after memories of the doe-eyed gazes, the haircut that worked well for us and the kind way we treated animals have faded....you'll remember that blowjob. :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Icantletgo Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 May be dumb this is why i did it. My ex and I broke up after 3 years cause he left me to date someone else. someone he is now (after 2 months) is in love with. he recently had some problems with her. he came to me. and we had sex. why did i do it? cause the sex was good and i still love him. plus we are human people, we want it sometimes! Link to post Share on other sites
Tormented Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 Now, explain to me what this is all about:confused: So far as I know, guys do not do this with the flair women seem to put into it. Not true! It was done to me and in a very cruel way. My ex and I had been separated for about 3 weeks when I got a call from him, telling me he missed me, couldn't stop thinking about me, loved me deeply, and wanted to come over that night to "talk" about our relationship. Reluctantly, I agreed. We talked for hours about our relationship, agreed to "take things slowly" and went to bed...made love and held each other throughout the night until we had to get up and go to work the next morning. He called me at work that morning, told me how good it felt to be with me again, that he loved me and would call me that night. He did, saying he had errands to run and would call me when he got home. That call never came. To make a long story short, I found out (the hard way) that he had gone back to an ex...a woman who cheated on him, lied to him, and stole from him the first time he was with her...and moved her in a week after spending the night with me. Oh, he regrets it now...very much so. Has done everything he can think of to try to win me back. Fat chance of THAT ever happening! I will NEVER forgive him nor trust him for what he did. NEVER. So you see...it's a "game" played by both genders. A game, may I add, that SUCKS! ~T~ Link to post Share on other sites
Davis Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 Hey Road Rage. Great question! This is now one of my red flags after breaking with my ex. We got back from a great time out of town on New Year's. It was that night at home or the next night. She was kissing me unusually passionately while we were .... I asked her during the moment why she was so passionate. She didn't reply, but had a blank look in her eye. At the time I saw it as a red flag cause my intuition told me something was going on. A few days later she met up with this guy and cheated on me. She is with him now. My belief is that she decided (for whatever reason) that she was going to breakup with me when we got back from NYs. I think she wanted to have one last, memorable intimate session. It could have gone either way I suppose, either it was a good "I'm into us" fck or a goodbye fck. The next morning I stopped by her house before work. We started playing on the couch. Her kids were upstairs, so I took her in the bathroom and did her on the counter (I'd been meaning to do that with her). She seemed distant. I guess she was already done with us and maybe I ruined her memorable goodbye fck. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Road Rage Posted March 5, 2007 Author Share Posted March 5, 2007 Yea Davis, there is something about New Years and women too. I guess a many a New Years resolution has been to dump the guy. A lot of GBFing must take place around New Years day;) Link to post Share on other sites
Davis Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 Yea Davis, there is something about New Years and women too. I guess a many a New Years resolution has been to dump the guy. A lot of GBFing must take place around New Years day;) My ex was talking the whole NYs weekend about how her best gf (who was with us with her bf) was using it as a "last shot" weekend for them to see if it was going to work out or if she should dump him. My ex told me all weekend how lucky she was, how great we got along, how deeply she cared etc. Then we get back and the fkn btch cheats on me!! Maybe she wanted to get through the holidays. Just one more reason (besides cheating) for me to hate that fkn shallow, immoral ho!! Sorry! I'm blocking my emotions about her again! Link to post Share on other sites
guin_girl Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 Not just women who do this.... except I didn't know it was goodbye... technically he still hasn't broken up... Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 ok I admit I have done it. why...... well why not. Felt like it. No big deal. Not emotional about it at all. Goodbye sex can be pretty good. But I have been only in the position (no pun) of the dumper not the dumpee. One last drive around the block. Link to post Share on other sites
Davis Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 ok I admit I have done it. why...... well why not. Felt like it. No big deal. Not emotional about it at all. Goodbye sex can be pretty good. But I have been only in the position (no pun) of the dumper not the dumpee. One last drive around the block. Hmmmmm. Why not? Because it's self-serving, shallow and hurtful to the person you supposedly care(d) about when you knew you were going to leave. You may not have been emotional about it, but I bet your ex was when they found out they were used by you. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 Hmmmmm. Why not? Because it's self-serving, shallow and hurtful to the person you supposedly care(d) about when you knew you were going to leave. You may not have been emotional about it, but I bet your ex was when they found out they were used by you. Steady on there, sunshine... when you look like that, you have to take every bit of action you can get. Link to post Share on other sites
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