dcknudson Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 My current boyfriend of a year and a half had a former girlfriend from Florida and I live in washington state where he is stationed as a captain in the army. In 2006 he had been invited to go to a wedding of a good friend of his in florida, he went alone. Little did I know at the time he ended up seeing his ex-girlfriend while over there. He never would of told me except for the fact that I happened to be on his sisters myspace and his sister had a link message from his ex-girlfriend saying that she had a great time at Bush gardens. I knew he went there because he brought me some gifts back from there. I confronted him about it and he said he did see her but they are just friends. Since then I have been extremely suspicious what the two of them are up too. I feel let down and extremely disappointed in his behavior and have been driving him crazy with bringing this up continuiously. I love him but if he flys out of town again without me I will end it there. I have no time to waist. I just want someone who loves me with no attatchments to anyone else. Link to post Share on other sites
megnog Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 i'd like to agree with you so badly but unfortunately, i'm afraid that most guys will have attachments. after saying that, its your decision if you want to try to be with someone else who doesn't have any ex girlfriends, or at least doesn't see them at all. its hard to find because a lot of guys truly do believe that their ex girlfriends are just friends and some will refuse to stop seeing them like current girlfriends request. i guess he has to decide what is more important to him , but i'm not sure you should give him that ultimatum quite yet. i would be jealous but i'm trying to give good advice and tell you that she could quite possibly be nothing more than a friend to him and maybe he didn't tell you because he didn't want to upset you. let him know though from now on that you'd rather be told the truth and deal with it than be lied to and find out later only to be double the amount of upset. anyway i hope some of this helps you out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dcknudson Posted March 6, 2007 Author Share Posted March 6, 2007 Thank you for the advice. I do see how I could over react but there have been problems with too many women on his previous myspace too (like 20 women and a couple of men). I guess it just boils down to what I will accept. Unfortunately we are 16 years apart, me being the older one. By all means I don't look my age. That is why he persued me to begin with. I love him very much and he is really important to me. Thank you again, dk Link to post Share on other sites
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