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this guy that i call him bf now ,i met him in a kind of website about 6 months ago and he started to send me some IM , at that time he mentioned that he was in love with a girl that she lived in another country,after some days he asked me for my phone number and i was scared coz it was first time to me that i started to communicate over internet but finally i gave him my phone number and he started to called me like once per week and after a while he started to tell me that he liked me and one night when he was on line i cought him talking to another girl and saying exactly the words that he told me before and for sure it wasnt a nice moment for me and i told him a day after but he didnt have any explain but just he said that i knew about that girl already and he was right:(

 

again after a while he started to tell me nice things and he mentioned that he dosen't have any relationship with that girl anymore

and we met each other in another city

he brought me an expensive gift and showed me that he loves me and started to send me lots of nice mails

but now sometimes he dosent want to talk to me and saying that he is busy with some stuff or he is tired or sleepy ....and even sometimes he ignores that i sent him an e-mail

whenever asked him if he didnt want to talk to me ,he could tell me and i could stop calling him or sending IM , he said "no no"and he said he wanted to talk to me

and right now i dont know that he wants to continue with me or not?

one day he is so sweet and another he could be mean,

sometimes he asked me to call him but when i did ,nobody picked up the phone and after he said that he wasnt home or he was tired

I dont know if it is normal?(sorry for my bad english)

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It's totally unusual! hmm...it sounds to me like he's not into you and he is just messing with you. cuz u know, do you think he would ignore your calls after "HE" asked you to call him if he really cared about you??

oh well, does he speak your language as well?? i think that communicating with each other well is the most important thing when you have a serious relationship with someone....

 

Im not gonna say that meeting new people on the internet is a bad thing, its actually a really wonderful thing although a real nice people are few.

but anyways you should just talk about the problem u have now with him.

I'm sorry if i harshed on you>_<

but i really wish you good luck:)

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