Did he use clean needles and should I believe he did have sex with other people

[PASSION39]

My Boyfriend is a recovering addict to drugs had money to buy the drugs he made a lot of money at the time. He has always been a bit ecentric and he loves having sex with me 2-3 times a night. Sometimes during sex he asks me to do strange things to him like scratch him,or slap him,sometimes he even asks me to strangle him and then let go,I wont of course hes recentally divorced and said he was loyal to his wife during their marriage but the last three years of it they never had sex because he was to caught up in his drug use and she wouldnt have sex with him. He says I am the first and only person he has had sex with in 3 years. He has been married twice and has four children I catch him looking at women all the time. Im getting a little nervous because last week during sex he said baby Im gay and said he like anal sex with guys,and then when we were done having sex he said he was just kidding,I asked him about it a few more times and he said baby do I act gay or look gay to you. He has always liked having sex with me and getting me off different ways. I am also a little nervous about the past drug use because recentally I found out he was an IV drug user he continues to tell me always used clean needles. What do you think,Im losing sleep over all this but I really love him.

[lovelorcet]

A gay male, IV drug user...

 

That is about as risky as it gets when if comes to getting HIV and such...

 

You had better be using protection and take him down to get tested for everything... Make sure you see the results yourself.

[PASSION39]

I am not sure if he is gay or bi,that is what I am asking what you all think.

[sb129]

I dont think HE knows what he is.

 

And the attraction to him is....???

[EnigmaXOXO]

I am not sure if he is gay or bi,that is what I am asking what you all think.

 

I "think" it's risky business to trust anyone else with your physical and emotional well-being. You have to be a strong enough person to maintain absolute authority and control over that yourself. Particularly if the person you're about to hand yourself over to has a history of making reckless decisions for themselves. They're certainly not going to be any more responsible with your life than they are with their own.

 

Besides, I don't think I could trust someone with my life if I couldn't even trust whether or not they were actually the person they claimed to be. And you can't really "love" someone who you don't even know.

 

And if I'm permitted to be honest with you … I think this guy would scare the buggers out of me given the way you've described him. And to blatantly plagiarize a poignant quote from LadyJane … "I think I'd rather bathe with a toaster."

[sb129]

I would rather clean my teeth with a razorblade