Where to go from here...

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I met this guy online a month back, and attraction- wise, we clicked. For some apparent reason, we hit it off, although at first I was a little guarded against being intimate with anybody I didn't know. We chatted online almost everyday, and after a while, surprisingly, he asked me for my number and I gave it to him. I thought it was awkward at first, but after a while, I enjoyed our nightly conversations (which could last up to 2-3 hours at a time).

 

Not to mention, he would constantly hint at us meeting in person. Yes, we were very flirtatious and at times it scared me, because here I was, opening myself up to a guy I have never met before.

Finally, three weeks ago, during mid winter break, I decided to run off to meet him at his place. I know, I know, what was I thinking? But I guess I was following my emotion more than I was my intuition. So, yes I met him, and the only thought going through my mind was ' what the heck am I doing?'

 

But we went back to his place, and basically our first night together was watching a movie. All inhibitions aside, we started snuggling and I gave him my first kiss. The next day, I spent the day at his place, and basically we made out.

 

After our initial meeting, we made plans for the next week to meet at his place and watch another movie. But watching a movie was far from our minds. So, yes we made out, but ultimately, to me, I felt I had this close connection with him that was like magnetic attraction. And I thought he must have felt the same way as well, because he told me he liked me, yet we both had come to an understanding that we have no idea where we would be taking this. Yet, there were no instigation from both sides that we would not take this any farther.

 

But now, after that week, he's became distant, and hasn't really called me. And I'm willing to give him space, because I think I might have scared him off, when I hinted at taking things to a relationship level?

 

And the thing is, I can't help thinking about him most of the time, because I'm a little confused at how he feels about me, and whether we could even be together. What should I do?