Resilient1 Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 Hey what's up loveshackers, Want to ask your opinion on something.. My friends sister has been around for awhile but I haven't really started talking to her until about 6mo. ago. ( a little after I started getting over my ex) Well she called me one day and we hit it off, by the way I think she is a very cute girl w/similar personality) started hanging out and talking on the phone. Well during this time we kissed a few times and she even spent the night at my house 1 night..but in November she all of a sudden decided to go back to her ex. and stopped talking to me..she didnt want conflict. (she didn't call and tell me this, she wrote me in myspace saying that it seemd that I wanted to b more than friends and she was spending more time with the ex- Crappy f@$kin way to tell me) I thought OK well not gonna here from her again.. Well by the time January was ending she wrote me saying sorry and didn't mean to do that but was being basically a bitch.. Well I have been in a slump... confidence has been depleted due to MY EX>.. and at the time I forgave her and started talking and hanging out w/her again..(she split with her ex). We have kissed again and hung out but f#$k I don't know alcohol has been involved.. I know it sounds f#$ked up but it seems the pattern is happening again..I like this girl but don't want to tell in fear of the inevitable response. I have been around this girls family where her last bf wasn't but big deal..Should I STOP talking to her this time or tell her how I feel w/no expectations just to say it or just wait...im a little older 28 and she's 25 w/ one kid I have none. Thx for listening Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted March 9, 2007 Share Posted March 9, 2007 Don't go back to the well a second time. The results will almost always be the same. Just be friendly with her and go on about you business. I always make it a rule to never ask a second time if you have been rejected. Much better for your ego. Link to post Share on other sites
alextop30 Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 I am an absolutest about things, but if you really like her and there is definatelly something different that you dont see in other girls - do go to her and tell her that you like her - make sure you pick your words right so she gets the messege that you like/ love her if you want to put it that strong. But if you are hurt by what she did to you - just do tell her that she was a b**** for doing that to you and walk away- it will hurt but her nose is going to be driven into the ground and she will never ever try to hurt you again. By driving her nose into the ground I mean that her confidence will go down a bit because she might realize that she has really messed up and she does not have a guy to go back every time she brakes up with her new boyfriend. At the end sort out your emotions and follow your heart Link to post Share on other sites
Hitman10000 Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 Dude, grab your balls and move on. Besides her being not that into you, she has a kid. Ie. SINGLE MOTHER. To let you in on a secret, while women/men may have a list of things to qualify a sexual mate, a Single mother has more critical no-bullsh*t list. And guess what bro, you did not qualify. Move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Erik Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 I guess you could try and tell her, hope springs eternal. Looking forward to becoming a step dad, are you? Link to post Share on other sites
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