Author Fun2BMe Posted March 11, 2007 Author Share Posted March 11, 2007 I don't think this should be your problem. If he memorizes all the details then it's OK. You might be his only client, after all. I think notes are stupid; he needs to get to know you well. If he takes notes, then you're just a piece of paper with information. Make sure he listens to what you're saying, though. Thanks RP, you have totally made me feel better! But I know I'm not his only client. He is very popular, he took me on as a patient only because of the personal referral of my ex (his secretary had turned me down when I had tried on my own before saying he can't take on new patients). As I had mentioned, he's a popular author on psychology as well and has remodeled his waiting room so those coming and going can have privacy and nobody see them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fun2BMe Posted March 11, 2007 Author Share Posted March 11, 2007 if he's taking notes its harder for him to check out F2BM's hot body and pretty face We do gaze into each other's eyes and he has complimented my body to boost my confidence while I was breaking up w/ the ex. But at the end of the day he's all professional and raises my fees:sick: Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 and has remodeled his waiting room so those coming and going can have privacy and nobody see them. That's intriguing. Do you arrive in a wig and sunglasses? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fun2BMe Posted March 11, 2007 Author Share Posted March 11, 2007 That's intriguing. Do you arrive in a wig and sunglasses? Yes, and he sends secret messages for the different locations we will meet at each week! He's also increased his travel expense fees, choosing more and more exotic hard to reach destinations. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 He's also increased his travel expense fees, choosing more and more exotic hard to reach destinations. Maybe a trip to the ISS is on the cards? Take me around the world, one more time? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 We do gaze into each other's eyes and he has complimented my body to boost my confidence thats sort of unprofessional IMO....make sure he doesn't put the cost of the rubber(s) on your bill. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 thats sort of unprofessional IMO....make sure he doesn't put the cost of the rubber(s) on your bill. Therapists don't like it when there are barriers between them and their patients. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 Therapists don't like it when there are barriers between them and their patients. even when the barrier is made out of latex and only .01mm thick? Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 We do gaze into each other's eyes and he has complimented my body to boost my confidence Yes, and he sends secret messages for the different locations we will meet at each week! He's also increased his travel expense fees, choosing more and more exotic hard to reach destinations. Is he a therapist or a gigolo? I am starting to understand why he doesn't take notes. How is his English? If you've NEVER heard him speak then he IS a shrink. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fun2BMe Posted March 11, 2007 Author Share Posted March 11, 2007 even when the barrier is made out of latex and only .01mm thick? So what is on your mind is food and something that rhymes with latex:rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fun2BMe Posted March 11, 2007 Author Share Posted March 11, 2007 How is his English? If you've NEVER heard him speak then he IS a shrink. It's funny you mention this because I've been noticing that I do most of the talking, so it's like I'm paying to hear myself talk. I think if I invest some serious time into a journal and write out all my thoughts beforehand, I'll have already 'let it all out' then can condense my thoughts more efficiently and sit back and listen to his feedback. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 It's funny you mention this because I've been noticing that I do most of the talking, . I think thats the point F2BM....if he did most of the talking you'd walk away thinking you got ripped off. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fun2BMe Posted March 11, 2007 Author Share Posted March 11, 2007 I think thats the point F2BM....if he did most of the talking you'd walk away thinking you got ripped off. That's an interesting thought. I mean I do tend to interrupt him the moment he opens his mouth! I wish I could spy in on other's therapy sessions to compare how mine is. That's a great idea for a reality show! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 That's an interesting thought. I mean I do tend to interrupt him the moment he opens his mouth! I wish I could spy in on other's therapy sessions to compare how mine is. That's a great idea for a reality show! the point is that you're paying $125 per hour to get things off your chest. not for him to fondle your chest Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fun2BMe Posted March 11, 2007 Author Share Posted March 11, 2007 $125? No way, I pay way more than that/hr. If he were to fondle my breasts I'd be willing to add a few zeroes at the end. (yeah yeah I know that's wrong, I'm just saying;) Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 $125? No way, I pay way more than that/hr. If he were to fondle my breasts I'd be willing to add a few zeroes at the end. (yeah yeah I know that's wrong, I'm just saying;)You pay him more than $125/hr for listening and pretending that he cares? Wow! I think we LS-ers are being ripped off. We at least give advice, too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fun2BMe Posted March 12, 2007 Author Share Posted March 12, 2007 You pay him more than $125/hr for listening and pretending that he cares? Wow! I think we LS-ers are being ripped off. We at least give advice, too. My therapist doesn't pretend, he really does care. He goes out of his way to do things for me like make sure I have dinner with his friends when I am feeling depressed and things like that which he in no way would have to do or offer. He also tells me to call him during the week to let him know how I'm feeling if on a particular week he asks me to do 'homework' like finalizing the break up with the ex, talking to someone I was avoiding and things like that, so I can feel he is continuously helping and cares instead of the once a week visit so I do think he's worth what I pay otherwise I'd go for the 99 cent version. You could try charging for your posts though RP the ones that are good. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 12, 2007 Share Posted March 12, 2007 otherwise I'd go for the 99 cent version. How about a helpline with a recorded message? Get over it. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 12, 2007 Share Posted March 12, 2007 He goes out of his way to do things for me like make sure I have dinner with his friends when I am feeling depressed What?!? Next thing he'll be inviting you to his boudoir for "therapy"... Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 12, 2007 Share Posted March 12, 2007 What?!? Next thing he'll be inviting you to his boudoir for "therapy"... Don't tell me you've never had your troubles massaged away? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fun2BMe Posted March 12, 2007 Author Share Posted March 12, 2007 What?!? Next thing he'll be inviting you to his boudoir for "therapy"... I wish:love: But seriously he's too professional (un)fortunately. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fun2BMe Posted March 12, 2007 Author Share Posted March 12, 2007 Don't tell me you've never had your troubles massaged away? But usually it's the person giving the massage that's the source for getting therapy. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted March 12, 2007 Share Posted March 12, 2007 But usually it's the person giving the massage that's the source for getting therapy. I don't quite understand what you mean. Can you explain that a little better, or take your top off? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fun2BMe Posted March 12, 2007 Author Share Posted March 12, 2007 I don't quite understand what you mean. Can you explain that a little better, or take your top off? I'll have to charge you for that. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 12, 2007 Share Posted March 12, 2007 I wish:love: But seriously he's too professional (un)fortunately. well F2BM...you can ask him to refer you to another therapist and then you two can hook up. Link to post Share on other sites
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