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So, I have spent most of my life single. I can count on less two hand the number of girlfriends I have had in my life. I may be a bit shy at times but after a couple of pints of liquid courage I am a chatty as a teenage girl with her own phone. What I am saying is I generally have not too much trouble meeting women. However, lately I have a hard time even making eye contact with them. I either feel too old to even consider them or I think that they think I am some sort of creepy guy. I have taken to not really even looking at women because I don't know what is going on. At the bar everything is as normal as needs to be but anywhere else I feel like a creepy perv. What's up with that? The only thing that has changed it I turned 30 and quit smoking. It's the smoking isn't it?

 

Any thougths or am I just a basket case?

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charlotte101

In all honesty, I think you're freaked out about your age..... 30 isn't old! You shouldn't consider yourself to be a creepy old perv.... because you're not lol.

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but after a couple of pints of liquid courage I am a chatty as a teenage girl with her own phone.

 

That's really funny! With that sense of humor I am sure you can be enticing to women. Humor - witty repartee - is a complete plus.

 

Are you only chatting up 21 year olds? - I mean you are 30. So 24, 25, 26, are REALLY close in age and because women mature faster than men they would probably be a great match for you.

 

The feeling like they see you as creepy - you are probably wrong - but if you feel you are being creepy then you may come across that way.

 

Just relax. If a girl finds you attractive she'll respond to your advances. So start making advances already!

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Don't forget about women in their 30's. They know what they want and they are much sexier than their 20 something counterparts. Really, older women are the best. Just date a couple of them and you won't even look at the 20 year olds. :D

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Don't forget about women in their 30's. They know what they want and they are much sexier than their 20 something counterparts. Really, older women are the best. Just date a couple of them and you won't even look at the 20 year olds. :D

 

Thanx for the props Yamaha! -- I'm in my 30s. :cool:

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I'm on my way to get a BMW next weekend, always wanted one not I have an excuse. I am pretty sure it's all due to the whole "turning 30" thing. Thanks for all the feedback, I guess I shouldn't worry about everything so much but if I didn't then I wouldn't have an excuse to drink. Bah! Like I need an excuse to drink!

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Don't forget about women in their 30's. They know what they want and they are much sexier than their 20 something counterparts. Really, older women are the best. Just date a couple of them and you won't even look at the 20 year olds. :D

 

You got that right :) !

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