Guest Posted March 13, 2007 Share Posted March 13, 2007 i was wondering if anyone had ever been in an emotionally abusive relationship, dumped the person and then had the person totally change for the positive? I left my x a month and a half ago, he was too young to have so many financial problems, plus a lot of emotional scars from his childhood (we lived together). Hes in the army. He got transfered because he messed up badly and now hes got a new job, in a new place and he says he feels so fresh and needed and hes going to start taking night classes, etc. It sounds like as soon as he got out of the whole responsibility of livng together with me and being in a foreign country he was way happier. Im wondering if maybe in a couple of years he would be more mature and maybe not as moody. I have a lot of emotionaly scars from my childhood and the more i experience the better i deal with things. I can see myself being a way better person in a couple of years and im pretty sure i wouldnt make the same mistakes i made with him. Link to post Share on other sites
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