justplainpink Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 I don't know if i'm posting this in the right place but i have a problem.....i like this guy that i don't really know and i haven't talked to him i've just seen him after school anyways, for valentine's day my friend thought that it would be a good idea to give him valentine's day card from both of us so she had me make it. i made it and gave it to her and told her to write something on it and she said that she would. On valentine's day after school, she had the note but i told her that i didn't want to give it to him anymore but she didn't listen but he wasn't there yet so she decided to give it to the guy i likes brother but i had already left so i didn't know. later that day she imed me and told me that she didn't write anything on the note and that she told his brother that it was from me and to give it to my crush. well the next day at school during lunch my friend said that she needed to talk to me, and then she told me that she asked my crushes brother if he gave my crush the note and he said "yeah" and then he asked him if my crush read it and he said "no he threw it out th window"........... the thing is i don't know who to believe cause people are saying that maybe his brother lied and maybe my crish didn't do that but i don't really know cause my crush knows that i like him and before i wrote that note his brother told him that supposedly i stalk him so i could get with my crush.......I know that this is a little long but can people give me your opinions?..........like about who or what should i believe? by the way, in case you're wondering how old my crush & i are we're both 14 Link to post Share on other sites
kimberlyk Posted March 14, 2007 Share Posted March 14, 2007 I had a hard time understanding the whole thing about stalking, but it's really hard to say whether he got your card or not, sometimes you just can't trust other people and what they say, this should be between you and the guy, not his brother and your friend, etc, etc. I say let it be for now, or just find a way to strike up a conversation with this guy on your own so that maybe you can gauge how he feels about you. Otherwise let it go and move on, if he does think that you are stalking him then you need to back off, let the guy chase you, don't chase him, all you can do is give a hint that you may like him and then let him do the rest of the work. You are very very young and I wasn't even dating at your age, there will be plenty more guys for you to like in the years to come, trust me on this...so if he doesn't like you then move onward. Let me know what happens... Link to post Share on other sites
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