Guest Posted March 17, 2007 Share Posted March 17, 2007 I think some people are getting the wrong impression of what the N/C really represents. It is actually for you to move on with your life ...it is not a motive to win your ex back. I agree with many of the posts I have read about if you are maintaining N/C with the idea you will win back your ex back you are fooling yourself. This is not a game! The percentage of reconciliation cases being sucessful are very low. The bottom line is if you have been dumped it's because your relationship is broken. Something has evolved to make it come to that point. If your ex truly cares about you they would be making an effort to be with you period. All the excuses of I need space, or I am confused, or I am sorry I fooled around on you it didn't mean anything etc...are all things people say so they won't hurt your feelings further. What you have to know is something was wrong in your relationship that made the dumpee come to the conclusion to call it off with you, something was missing in the relationship. Something that probably is now unfixable because the situation progressed too long. They may still have feelings for you but they are not in love with you ....because the bottom line is if someone truly loves someone they would do anything to be with that person. They would want to talk to them and spend time with them. If someone asks for space repect it and move on........realize that the relationship is over The N/C time is for you....remember that ....to get over the dumpee, to get out of the games they may be playing with you and your heart. It is the time that you give yourself to realize they are not interested in you anymore......And most of all, it is the time given to yourself to wake up and realize and accept that the relationship is broken....IT'S OVER!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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