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I was once in a mall having a coffee with my GF and there was this pretty girl staring at me. I told this to my GF and she said that I was the one who initiated it. MY GF was pissed off and said that she won't come with me to a shopping any more.. I remember ...it was funny.

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I was once in a mall having a coffee with my GF and there was this pretty girl staring at me. I told this to my GF and she said that I was the one who initiated it. MY GF was pissed off and said that she won't come with me to a shopping any more.. I remember ...it was funny.

 

There's a girl in our circle who always stares at my BF. But it's like a really deep stare, like she's hanging on to his every word.

 

I like to catch her eye and smile at her like "yep, I sex that!" :D

 

To me that kind of staring is a show of low esteem, especially when she comes to hang out with her husband. It's like she craves attention or something. And I find it amusing to mess with her head.

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Why many married women or with their boyfriends stare at single men? Have you ever seen in malls, public parks, open concerts - there will be always some one staring at you without your knowledge..Why?

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There's a girl in our circle who always stares at my BF. But it's like a really deep stare, like she's hanging on to his every word.

 

I like to catch her eye and smile at her like "yep, I sex that!" :D

 

To me that kind of staring is a show of low esteem, especially when she comes to hang out with her husband. It's like she craves attention or something. And I find it amusing to mess with her head.

 

 

It is obvious that she is in love with him. Does he tell you about the staring?

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Why many married women or with their boyfriends stare at single men? Have you ever seen in malls, public parks, open concerts - there will be always some one staring at you without your knowledge..Why?

 

I think they're mental personally. Seeking external validation because they lack something internally.

 

But hey, what do I know?

 

I also get uncomfortable when guys'll stare at me while they kiss their girlfriends or wives. But some chicks get off on that kind of stuff I guess. Not the ones getting kissed but the ones getting looked at.

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It is obvious that she is in love with him. Does he tell you about the staring?

 

She's not in love with him. If she is she's in love with two other guys in our circle cause she does the same thing to them.

 

And he doesn't have to tell me about it, I have eyes. He says he feels bad for her husband. She's needy. And she reminds him of his exWife in that way.

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Why many married women or with their boyfriends stare at single men? Have you ever seen in malls, public parks, open concerts - there will be always some one staring at you without your knowledge..Why?

 

Some people can't help but look.

 

I could go into a store and I bet you five or six people will look at me. Even if it's a glance, they still look.

 

Makes you want to say something to them though.:laugh:

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She's not in love with him. If she is she's in love with two other guys in our circle cause she does the same thing to them.

 

And he doesn't have to tell me about it, I have eyes. He says he feels bad for her husband. She's needy. And she reminds him of his exWife in that way.

 

 

What I was told by many people is that when a woman looks around or startes at men, it is because she doesn't have attention at home from her BF or Hubby. Those women are very susceptible to any thing that may even lead to a cheating ther loved ones.

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What I was told by many people is that when a woman looks around or startes at men, it is because she doesn't have attention at home from her BF or Hubby. Those women are very susceptible to any thing that may even lead to a cheating ther loved ones.

 

Funny you should say that, my (ex)BF, the one who called this chick needy, well he said she reminds him of his exW. Guess what? His exW cheated and got pregnant by another guy when they were married.

 

I still think these women require more attention than most though. High maintenance.

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Haha personally, there are two ways of looking at it (and I'll give you my perspective experience):

 

1) Just the other day I thought this guy looked really good from where I was standing. No interest, just thought he was a looker. So I stared at him for bout 5-8 seconds and he looked up and more or less caught me. I quickly looked away and bit my bottom lip (not in a painful way) while smiling. He just shook his head with a smile and walked away. For me my stare gave him a lil boost of confidence that he is a good looking guy and in a weird way he thanked me for letting him kno.

 

2) Then there's the if I'm staring by my eyes constantly coming back to the guy I'm INTERESTED, then you better believe I want him to acknowledge it by keeping eye contact. Nothing too over the top. Just suttle smiles and do the lil battering of the eyes. Sometimes I'll make the approach if neither one of us moves. But 9/10 usually I let them know well enough that I want THEM to make the approach.

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