i´m confussed!

[sara]

I was reading the message about signals that men or women send when they are attracted to someone, Remember the guy i told you about? well, the last month we weren´t able to tlaked because we had lots of thing to do, i only saw him passing by.

recently about 3 days ago we bumped into each other after 3 weeks of only seeing each from the distance, (i always catch him looking at me but he never comes closer)we talked about the last days of school that we have, and i told him that probably we won´t see each other until january when the new semester begins, and that i wished him luck on his finals and a great vacations, and suddendly he told me : well i that case i guess i will give a happy new year hug!- and he gave me an incredible sweet and long hug!! wow! i couldn´t think about nothing during the 10 secs. of the hug. when the hug finished he told : i hope we see each other the next semester =)- that hug knocked me out!! it´s the second time he touches me the first time he touched my hyps when he stopped to say hi.

after that encounter we have seen each other from the distance..again, i see the way his friends check on me when i´m around him, youknow, if i look at him while he is disimulating, he touches his face constantly when he knows i´m around him.

We won´t see each other for about 1 motnh and a half, i everybody tells me thati should ask for his e mail or give him mine, because he is very shy but everytime that i see him my mouth freezes and i´m afraid that it will make him feel some pressure, besides that i dont want to get á cold answer from him.

what did the hug mean? all his staringand dismulating? what should i do?

thanks for you help =) and sorry for my english

[Patty]

He gave you a hug for a New Years Hug could of meant anything,yes he might be attracted to you and it could of meant a friendly New Years hug.Sometimes,myself I give hugs to people around the holidays and no they dont have to be my boyfriend or anything, but just a friendly holiday hug cause I like giving hugs around the holiday.For me its just a good way to get in the holiday spirit.But it does sound like he likes you.

 

Patty

[sara]

i saw him last week again, i asked for mis email, he asked for mine, he acted really nice and interested in me, he even asked for my phone number, he hugged me three times with different excuses during our chat. i sent him a short e mail but he hasn´t answered yet or called me either...i´m more confused now cause i don´t know why did he act like he is interested but he doesn´t call or write?´is he waiting some time to call for some reason, maybe he is nervous about calling or something like that?

i don´t dream about us to be a couple, i just want to get know him better.

should i move on or give him sometime?

thanks=)

[HokeyReligions]

What's the hurry?

 

You don't have to make a commitment to him. See who you want and leave yourself open to date him if he asks, or if you decide you want to ask him.

 

There is no law that says you can't go on dates with lots of different people, as long as everyone knows there are no commitments.

 

I used to date several different guys at the same time and I always knew they were dating other girls. I don't think I ever waited around for a certain guy and turned down dates with others. If I made a commitment to see one person, then I kept that commitment and dated exclusively - but that didn't happen very often.

 

Call him and ask him if he'd like to go to a movie with you Saturday night. Or tell him you are going to the mall and ask if he wants to go along.

[sara]

Getting to know him better...that´s all i wanted but aparently he´s not interested in getting to know me, i don´t understand why hasn´t call me or reply the e mail i sent him , i feel so confused right now, but everything will be ok, ´maybe he´s not interested but someone will be there are too many fish in the sea...i finally got that into my mind