bridget_jones Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Ok. Thanks for finding the lyrics for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Mollyanna Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 OK, i Just skimmed through this entire thread in like 7 minutes, so I am sure I have missed a LOT, but the words that jumped out at me over and over again were about TP bashing on someone being on antidepressants. Let me just say that TP and I have talked many many many times and even met in person and he has NEVER bashed me for my use of antidepressants. In fact when I go off of them, I think he has encouraged me at times to seek help again... TP is a good guy. end of story. he is suffering like we all are. let him cope. like someone else said, this is a coping forum. I am not even going to read the bashing you guys give each other because it helps no one. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Teacher's Pet Posted March 23, 2007 Author Share Posted March 23, 2007 i love you tp... am I considered one of your bitches? You are, by far, one of my HOTTEST bit........ OMG.. I can't get myself to call you that. You are too cute, too adorable, too loving, too caring, and too sweet to be a bitch. Of course, once the clothes are off.... it's a whole new ballgame I LOVE YOU DS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :love: :love: -tp did i mention i love her? *swooon* lol Link to post Share on other sites
bridget_jones Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 He started doing that from his first post, he used being on psychiatric medications, of which antidepressants are included, as a way to criticize his ex. You did miss a lot, no disrespect. Not end of story. I can't make judgments on his personal character from a messageboard just like he can't rightfully come to the conclusion that I am a c**t, because I disagreed with something he said, that he is over is ex. which is how the whole thing started. All I did was suggest he might want to stop dwelling on how awful she supposedly is as a person and have positive thoughts. OK, i Just skimmed through this entire thread in like 7 minutes, so I am sure I have missed a LOT, but the words that jumped out at me over and over again were about TP bashing on someone being on antidepressants. Let me just say that TP and I have talked many many many times and even met in person and he has NEVER bashed me for my use of antidepressants. In fact when I go off of them, I think he has encouraged me at times to seek help again... TP is a good guy. end of story. he is suffering like we all are. let him cope. like someone else said, this is a coping forum. I am not even going to read the bashing you guys give each other because it helps no one. Link to post Share on other sites
Mollyanna Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 I didn't read all the posts. I don't need to. No matter what he said, I know TP has a good heart. sometimes we all say things we don't mean out of anger, stress, frustration, retaliation... etc.. etc... Hell I have called myself quite a few names over the years. Do I really believe I am a worthless piece of ****? Do I really think all I am worth is sex? Have I said these things about myself - YES even on here. But I know it is not the truth. I give myself some room for error. I do the same for others. If TP called you a C word, well I am sorry you had to hear it. and if you took that to heart, well... i hope you know the truth about yourself and don't let it affect you unnecessarily. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Teacher's Pet Posted March 23, 2007 Author Share Posted March 23, 2007 he has NEVER bashed me for my use of antidepressants. In fact when I go off of them, I think he has encouraged me at times to seek help again... And to clarify that once and for all... I never bashed my ex for USING anti-depressants. I "bashed" her for having the kinds of problems that require medical attention, and using them as a means to attack me, and transferring the blame of a bad relationship ON to me. I do not know enough about those types of drugs and how they work, but a person who alternates between "sweet and Satan" on an almost DAILY basis is a candidate for those drugs. Do I know for a fact she was on them during our relationship? No. Do I know she probably needed them? Absolutely. Getting professional help, whether with drugs or not it a step in the right direction, but using your problems to bring down someone else as a means to maintain control in a relationship? That's my issue. My ex made me believe I was a "bad person", "incapable of loving someone", etc....while all along her tirades were a transfer of "responsibility" onto me in order to help justify her own position. She tried to convince me I was crazy, yet she refused to look within herself. It was a glorious day, when I realized the old cliche "it's not you, it's me", really does apply here. Very simply, it's a matter of "blame where blame is due", and if being supportive, caring, affectionate, and trusting (even to the point of being naive) is being less than a "perfect" partner, I honestly don't know what it. When she was stressing over work or family problems, I'd come over with food and even do her dishes for her so she wouldn't have to get up. When she was busy grading papers, I'd be massaging her shoulders or make her a snack so she could relax a little. I've even done her grocery shopping for her, so she could clean her apartment in time for her parents to come visit. I've given her any "space" she required to be with her girlfriends. I didn't require 100% of her time. When she needed emergency dental treatment and didn't have the $$ to lay out (her insurance reimburses LATER on), I offered to pay so she could get treated immediately. On the other hand..... When I was home, literally CRYING in pain over a medical issue, she didn't come over. When my friend was nearly killed in a drunk driving accident, she said "Oh wow, that sucks", and wouldn't even attend the benefit performance I produced on his behalf to help with his hospital bills and physical therapy. When I told her I was being considered for a major promotion at my job that would help me make enough money that me and her could get a GREAT place together, she didn't even congratulate me. "I'll believe it when I see it". SO yeah, I truly believe I was way too good TO her, and FOR her, and she was an unappreciative little b**ch. My true friends appreciate me more than my ex could ever have, and having friends like that proves to me I don't need a woman like her in my life, and should be glad it's over, which I am! Thanks to my friends (especially the ones of the female gender), I know what I want in a woman, and spent a few hours in the company of one that I think at least partially fit that description tonight. Of course, time will tell. I have a stronger voice now, and more options available to me (and to those who follow my posts, the 2 women I am "courting" have consecutive initials, so it's kinda neat... I have an "S" and a "T" now to complain about... lol) I was out with "T" tonight, and boy, does she ever have T. lol Of course, I'm a leg man. Anyway, I'm going to bed. Enough of this foolishness for one evening. -tp was a perfect gentleman tonight on his date...... Link to post Share on other sites
bridget_jones Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 sorry Molly, but he called me a c**t basically because I disagreed with him. So...not end of story for me, like I said I'm not making character judgements based on posts on a messageboard. Link to post Share on other sites
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